How do you get rid of your ego?

[Matrix88]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

 

[stelynvx]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

read ego is the enemy book

 

[iamnotgrayipromise]

how is that ego you are just an incel

 

[foidgraper67420]

go ask out a 8-10/10 and then get brutaly rejected

 

[domcel]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

go cold approach then come back

 

[Matrix88]

go ask out a 8-10/10 and then get brutaly rejected

that would make me ultra depressed lmao

I already know I'm not that guy, but idk why it's still so difficult to accept I need to do a lot of stuff to reach what some people always had without any effort

Whenever I come across a HTN IRL I get so jealous and sad of how easy they have it compared to me

 

[maracatu]

5g shrooms but no benefit in getting rid of your ego

 

[Notorious_1676]

An ego is needed for a conscious, all narcissists and autists don't have egos. An ego isn't necessarily a bad thing

 

[Sick]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

You need to stop associating things with shame and pride. It is the root of this "insecurity" putting your value on these achievements and sex. I know it sounds valid and is based on science and muh blackpill. But at the end of the day you are playing a game you didnt sign up for. You dont have to play.

we are all forced to live in bodies wether or not we like them or if they cause happiness or sadness. it is not your fault and you did nothing wrong. just find personal achievement in your life brocel

 

[Matrix88]

we are all forced to live in bodies wether or not we like them or if they cause happiness or sadness. it is not your fault and you did nothing wrong. just find personal achievement in your life brocel

But my personal achievements are to get looks and money

I wanna live without shame, I wanna be able to get out of my house whenever I want to. I want to stop cancelling appointments because of my looks.

 

[Blasian-K]

how is that ego you are just an incel

For real!

Ego wouldn’t stop you from ascending. It’s more the delusion that your ascension will put you into the top 1%. Or thinking you're truly better than you are.

Negative thoughts getting in the way are incel thoughts…

 

[Sick]

For real!

Ego wouldn’t stop you from ascending. It’s more the delusion that your ascension will put you into the top 1%. Or thinking you're truly better than you are.

Negative thoughts getting in the way are incel thoughts…

You can have an ego and be at the bottom. that is shame, humility and shame isnt the same thing

 

[Sick]

But my personal achievements are to get looks and money

I wanna live without shame, I wanna be able to get out of my house whenever I want to. I want to stop cancelling appointments because of my looks.

ok think of it this way.

If you had 100k more right now, and went up 1 psl. Would you be happy?


If two minutes later someone with 500k and 2 psl above you walked by, would you care or feel shame

 

[Blasian-K]

You can have an ego and be at the bottom. that is shame, humility and shame isnt the same thing

You can be egotistical and be at the bottom, but I don’t think that’s the OP.

It’s not his ego that’s stopping him. Yes, if you’re at the bottom, you can have an ego and be delusional about how good you are. Even though you’re a loser…

 

[Sick]

You can be egotistical and be at the bottom, but I don’t think that’s the OP.

It’s not his ego that’s stopping him. Yes, if you’re at the bottom, you can have an ego and be delusional about how good you are. Even though you’re a loser…

im saying it like, even if you feel like a loser and arent delusional about how good you are or how you can get. youd still be egotistical because you relate your value as a person to your standing in the game.

like if I lose and im angry I lost. I still have an ego because I wanted to win (be at a higher status). I put personal value in it because it made me angry.

For example if i looksmax to htn+, get a cool car, get a gf, I will still feel angry and ripped off if I see someone just born an htn and a gf and shit without effort. that is still an ego

 

[MagicalWaves]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

negative thoughts arent ego maybe try upping ur iq that would help jack ass

 

[Matrix88]

ok think of it this way.

If you had 100k more right now, and went up 1 psl. Would you be happy?


If two minutes later someone with 500k and 2 psl above you walked by, would you care or feel shame

I would 100% be happier, for sure.

I would still be jealous of anyone who didn't have to live a life like me and instead always had great looks

 

[mltn2mtn]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

Just approach hella girls

 

[Matrix88]

negative thoughts arent ego maybe try upping ur iq that would help jack ass

I think my problem is related to ego bro

As a kid I always thought I was superior to most people, because I was either surrounded by low IQ niggas or LTNs like myself. Now I know all of that was bs, I'm actually INFERIOR to a vast majority of people, that makes me wanna give up sometimes

 

[Matrix88]

Just approach hella girls

what would that do for me bro

 

[mltn2mtn]

what would that do for me bro

Well you said you aren’t 100% committed to ascending. Approach 20 girls and see how they react, if you pull none that would be ur fuel to ascend.

 

[Blasian-K]

im saying it like, even if you feel like a loser and arent delusional about how good you are or how you can get. youd still be egotistical because you relate your value as a person to your standing in the game.

like if I lose and im angry I lost. I still have an ego because I wanted to win (be at a higher status). I put personal value in it because it made me angry.

For example if i looksmax to htn+, get a cool car, get a gf, I will still feel angry and ripped off if I see someone just born an htn and a gf and shit without effort. that is still an ego

Okay I see what you’re saying.

I agree that everyone, even if not delusional. Will still evaluate themselves in terms of societal standards and where they rank.

But just wanting to, let’s say, ascend will be somewhat ego-driven. As you want to look better to receive better treatment (up your rank).

However, not trying just because ego is part of your journey, I feel, is silly. As you can still improve, maybe it’ll never truly be enough. But still, a bump in SMV is a bump in life quality.

And there are still levels to ego. You can't be fully avoidant of it. So I think accepting your ego but not pushing past it is more of an incel/doomer mindset. I feel like pushing past is still better. You just have to be conscious of what’s possible and where you’re at.

But you made me think for sure. So thanks, boyo.

 

[Blasian-K]

Well you said you aren’t 100% committed to ascending. Approach 20 girls and see how they react, if you pull none that would be ur fuel to ascend.

I feel like most know if they go out and approach. It won’t go well, and even if it does, you might’ve just made the bitch feel like a hostage. She’ll give you her number but won’t text back…

I feel like most already know they might go 0-20, so that’s motivation enough. Fuck the embarrassment of doing it.

 

[Sick]

Okay I see what you’re saying.

I agree that everyone, even if not delusional. Will still evaluate themselves in terms of societal standards and where they rank.

But just wanting to, let’s say, ascend will be somewhat ego-driven. As you want to look better to receive better treatment (up your rank).

However, not trying just because ego is part of your journey, I feel, is silly. As you can still improve, maybe it’ll never truly be enough. But still, a bump in SMV is a bump in life quality.

And there are still levels to ego. You can't be fully avoidant of it. So I think accepting your ego but not pushing past it is more of an incel/doomer mindset. I feel like pushing past is still better. You just have to be conscious of what’s possible and where you’re at.

But you made me think for sure. So thanks, boyo.

nah you too bro i love finding high iq users

 

[Matrix88]

Well you said you aren’t 100% committed to ascending. Approach 20 girls and see how they react, if you pull none that would be ur fuel to ascend.

lol I know I wouldn't pull a single girl

 

[milkshake_addict]

you are like me and probs have an fatalistic way of thinking and the best way to cut this out is to overload yourself with hope and good "what if" scenarios

 

[FATPU$$YHUNTER]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

 

[porkq]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

couple hits of salvia should clear your mind bhai

 

[Matrix88]

you are like me and probs have an fatalistic way of thinking and the best way to cut this out is to overload yourself with hope and good "what if" scenarios

yea I guess that's a good way to think

but I've already lost so much time and experiences, it's brutal bro

Whenever my family sees that I'm putting a minimal effort into my looks, they fucking clown me and tell me "you are not a model, stop worrying" wtf is wrong with them

 

[FATPU$$YHUNTER]

nah but fr ur just overthinking things,

this isn't the type of problem u solve by thinking and talking, you gotta just go do stuff.
unironically u chattin on org is annthethetical to ur goals get off this site

 

[FATPU$$YHUNTER]

yea I guess that's a good way to think

but I've already lost so much time and experiences, it's brutal bro

Whenever my family sees that I'm putting a minimal effort into my looks, they fucking clown me and tell me "you are not a model, stop worrying" wtf is wrong with them

yuh ur lonely and ur craving socialisation so u post shi like this to feed that instinct but at the end of the day this is nothing but pseudo dopamine that will never compare to how good it feels to have a community irl

like ikyk the right thing to think about in this situation; "niggas are bluepilled and retarded, keep it pushing" u think that and then get back to doing what u need to do; no point in dwelling on it

 

[_Zygomatic_]

fuck that nigga my ego is through the roof and it will stay there

 

[big500test]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

uh take massive amounts of psychs thatll do it.

 

[brielarsonbf]

i dont like this way of using that concept anyway

 

[Matrix88]

yuh ur lonely and ur craving socialisation so u post shi like this to feed that instinct but at the end of the day this is nothing but pseudo dopamine that will never compare to how good it feels to have a community irl

Yea I'm lonely af, but I'm too subhuman to talk to niggas IRL

I can't socialize with people anymore

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

In the zhuangzi, it is said that fasting for 10 days will make you forget the self, and realize your holistic and unattached nature. I think if you stop eating, and stop looking at garbage online, you can forget the self and the absurd narcissism that comes with it. After that, you can look at things with more understanding

 

[brielarsonbf]

Yea I'm lonely af, but I'm too subhuman to talk to niggas IRL

I can't socialize with people anymore

i dont need friends
i just need a gf with peach skin and blackberry scent

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

you need to utterly, stubbornly refuse the permanence of ur current reality

 

[Mansur]

you just dont want it enough thats it

 

[Matrix88]

you just dont want it enough thats it

I do nigga, what's ur mindset then

I wanna know how u guys do it to be consistent with this

 

[JoKhao]

U need to get humbled

 

[Mansur]

I do nigga, what's ur mindset then

I wanna know how u guys do it to be consistent with this

Thats just contradicting, if youd fully want to ascend youd try every thing possible to do so.

If your mother would be dying in a hospital you obv would get up from bed immidiately and get there despite beeing a lazy mf. Its just how much you want it

 

[Matrix88]

U need to get humbled

I have already been SO humbled before, that shit made me the faggot I am today

 

[Matrix88]

Thats just contradicting, if youd fully want to ascend youd try every thing possible to do so.

If your mother would be dying in a hospital you obv would get up from bed immidiately and get there despite beeing a lazy mf. Its just how much you want it

yea ur right, but sometimes people instead of doing that they just stay depressed and without doing shit

what do you do to stay with that mindset? If u act that way then I admire you for that

 

[Mansur]

yea ur right, but sometimes people instead of doing that they just stay depressed and without doing shit

what do you do to stay with that mindset? If u act that way then I admire you for that

You know the moment where people actually suffer if its mentally or physically, thats the only time they actually are ready to do some action.

There will come a time where you eventually will have to take action, for example if its getting a job between you and some different dude or you meet up with your old class.

Overall tho if you are lazy bc of depression go outside, do a dopamine detox, eat a healthy diet and depending on your situation isolate yourself from people by discovering nature for example. Will reset your mind and reboot your body

 

[JoKhao]

I have already been SO humbled before, that shit made me the faggot I am today

You could actually start living your life cus the way I see it ego comes when U think you are better than everybody.
Just stop living in this competition and live for yourself idk

 

[stacySSlayer333]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

you have to get humbled by a 6,4 chad self made millionare

 

[Matrix88]

You could actually start living your life cus the way I see it ego comes when U think you are better than everybody.
Just stop living in this competition and live for yourself idk

I see myself as inferior to most guys, but that is stopping me from moving on with my life

I've been depressed and living as a loser NEET for 8 months, so it feels very difficult to change my situation. I still feel like a kid, a kid who was left behind and isolated himself for too long

 

[Stalker]

you just dont want it enough thats it

Never speak to @Matrix88 like that ever again you fucking nigger

 

[Rodreusr]

Idk if it's my ego, but there is something in my mind that stops me from putting my 100% to ascending in life

Some negative thoughts always appear, and they tell me that if I needed to do all of this in the first place, then it was never meant to be

have to get humble