How do you guys cope knowing this

[LTNUser]

How do you cope when you know that your oneitis never liked you and all the supposed IOIs in your head were false ?

I don't really cope because I've accepted my fate.
@Janne

 

[MyDreamIsToBe183CM]

 

[Janne]

How do you cope when you know that your oneitis never liked you and all the supposed IOIs in your head were false ?

I don't really cope because I've accepted my fate.
@Janne

what does oneitis and ioi mean bru

 

[LTNUser]

what does oneitis and ioi mean bru

Oneitis is basically the girl you think is the one for you and you can't stop thinking about her
IOI means Indicator of Interest
Basically the signs that a girl gives by which u can be sure she has feelings for you
Like,a girl smiling whenever she is around you or playing with her when she is with you and etc.

 

[Janne]

Oneitis is basically the girl you think is the one for you and you can't stop thinking about her
IOI means Indicator of Interest
Basically the signs that a girl gives by which u can be sure she has feelings for you
Like,a girl smiling whenever she is around you or playing with her when she is with you and etc.

I had a oneitis that didn’t like me back but that was a long time ago. I was about twelve years old so I would guess my cope was just moving on. Maybe that’s still the right thing to do after all

 

[LTNUser]

@Eärendil I can't find any girl attractive except her
What do I do ?
Am I destined to stay lonely for rest of my life ?

 

[Deleted member 153838]

@Eärendil I can't find any girl attractive except her
What do I do ?
Am I destined to stay lonely for rest of my life ?

You will find someone else someday no matter what, you are just a kid anyways

 

[LTNUser]

You will find someone else someday no matter what, you are just a kid anyways

How will I get her out of my mind permanently?

 

[Deleted member 153838]

How will I get her out of my mind permanently?

It will just happen with time. Keep living

 

[LTNUser]

It will just happen with time. Keep living

Yo, there's this girl who has been looking in my eyes from the past few months but the problem is she never approaches me
How can I tell if she is into me or not ?
And as usual,I just pretend I'm not noticing anything

 

[Deleted member 153838]

Yo, there's this girl who has been looking in my eyes from the past few months

Approach her bud

 

[LTNUser]

Approach her bud

I'm too high inhib for that
I am insecure about myself and that's the reason I never approached a girl to this day

 

[Deleted member 153838]

I'm too high inhib for that
I am insecure about myself and that's the reason I never approached a girl to this day

Then she will lose interest because you show no signs of liking her

 

[SomaliSub5]

I'm too high inhib for that
I am insecure about myself and that's the reason I never approached a girl to this day

gotta make the first move bro. you might be scared of rejection but women are 10x more afraid of being rejected so they will never make the first move

 

[LTNUser]

Then she will lose interest because you show no signs of liking her

Fine,I am out
This approaching thing and talking with girls is not meant for me

 

[LTNUser]

I look low T and I'm boneless
That will instantly creep out any girl if I ever approach her,hahah

Then she will lose interest because you show no signs of liking her