How do you guys go about cold approaching girls?

[johnsmithcel]

Like at a bar or something?
Back when I went to bars and clubs in my teens, i'd get approached somewhat frequently, usually at least once each time in a club but now i'm kinda in a closed off group with the people I go to bars with.
I want to try approaching a female for the first time in my life but i'm scared. I'm a boring, high inhib cuck and I feel I would ooze autism if I tried.

How do I make it not seem like i'm some sperg that is trying his latest PUA techniques?

If a girl is at the bar is getting a drink, how can I approach?

 

[justbentbro]

never approach foids tbh, let them bitches approach you

 

[Deleted member 25059]

never approach foids tbh, let them bitches approach you

good recipe to become a .org user ngl

 

[johnsmithcel]

never approach foids tbh, let them bitches approach you

like I said, these days most of the time i'm at a table with like 4 other people minimum. Not really making myself approachable. Most of my approaches came from clubs anyway and none of my friends go anymore.

 

[JohnDoe]

>he thinks we approach girls
BAKA

 

[johnsmithcel]

>he thinks we approach girls
BAKA

some low inhib niggas here do. I'm just terrified of being judged. I wish I had the mentality of an Indian who only thinks about getting his dick wet and not about the potential repercussions or destroyed self-esteem from rejections.

 

[Tallooksmaxxer]

just be chad

 

[johnsmithcel]

just be chad

thanks for the shitpost.

 

[anoncell]

When I was 16-18 I used to just grab them from behind and dance with them, if they looked disgusted i'd move on, now I realise how rapey that was so now I just go outside in the smoking area and ask random bitches for lighters and spark up conversation, cuz talking to bitches in that loud music is hard af

 

[Deleted member 2268]

When I was 16-18 I used to just grab them from behind and dance with them, if they looked disgusted i'd move on, now I realise how rapey that was so now I just go outside and ask random bitches for lighters and spark up conversation, cuz talking to bitches in that loud music is hard af

Over

 

[johnsmithcel]

When I was 16-18 I used to just grab them from behind and dance with them, if they looked disgusted i'd move on, now I realise how rapey that was so now I just go outside and ask random bitches for lighters and spark up conversation, cuz talking to bitches in that loud music is hard af

mirin low inhib. Tbh there's no loud music where I go now. So unlike clubs, i'd actually have to talk to them properly.

 

[johnsmithcel]

@skorp how do you go about it nigga? You seem experienced.

 

[szolliontaraelis]

 

[anoncell]

mirin low inhib. Tbh there's no loud music where I go now. So unlike clubs, i'd actually have to talk to them properly.

does the alcohol not give you any confidence?

 

[Pakicel]

some low inhib niggas here do. I'm just terrified of being judged. I wish I had the mentality of an Indian who only thinks about getting his dick wet and not about the potential repercussions or destroyed self-esteem from rejections.

If those indians accepted their subhumanity and did not breed, we would see far less problems in curryland..

You should go there and see what I mean. It is appalling.

 

[szolliontaraelis]

does the alcohol not give you any confidence?

4 tequila shots made me start a fight with 3 kurdish manlets jfl

 

[edodalic29]

 

[johnsmithcel]

does the alcohol not give you any confidence?

ehhh... It only almost brings me to the level of a sober normie. I'm an ultra abused dog. Even when i'm about to vomit from the amount of drink I had, I don't feel confident enough to approach.
Gonna try blasting phenibut again.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

does the alcohol not give you any confidence?

Nattys coping with alcohol and having to approach IRL it's rough out there JFL

 

[Deleted member 2268]

If those indians accepted their subhumanity and did not breed, we would see far less problems in curryland..

You should go there and see what I mean. It is appalling.

Even as a white guy I feel disgusted at banging curries

 

[johnsmithcel]

Nattys coping with alcohol and having to approach IRL it's rough out there JFL

you come off as a really low iq roidmonkey jfl

 

[lepo2317]

Tinder and if you have to approach do it with bitches who atleast give you any sign that she won't be disguised when you approach her. Cold approaching is bs imo.

 

[johnsmithcel]

Tinder and if you have to approach do it with bitches who atleast give you any sign that she won't be disguised when you approach her. Cold approaching is bs imo.

I'm too autistic to take normal pics. right now i'm just coping with my single, blurry ass selfie. Not sure I can get much out of it.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

you come off as a really low iq roidmonkey jfl

I have a 100+ laycount while you rot as an incel faggot

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I'm too autistic to take normal pics. right now i'm just coping with my single, blurry ass selfie. Not sure I can get much out of it.

Absolute loser glad this is my competition

 

[johnsmithcel]

I have a 100+ laycount while you rot as an incel faggot

 

[Deleted member 2268]

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Keep coping

 

[lepo2317]

I'm too autistic to take normal pics. right now i'm just coping with my single, blurry ass selfie. Not sure I can get much out of it.

Maybe try smiling at girls who hold eye contact for few seconds? I do it lately and then I soft approach. I live in small city tho, so when I smile at girl, she smiles back and then I see her again, she remembers me and it is easier.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Tinder and if you have to approach do it with bitches who atleast give you any sign that she won't be disguised when you approach her. Cold approaching is bs imo.

Waste of time lol

 

[Deleted member 23865]

if you aren't at least a strong htn, don't even bother

 

[johnsmithcel]

if you aren't at least a strong htn, don't even bother

Got plenty of cold approaches from girls, even some street approaches, which is better than most men. I know I can get something if I approach without being autistic.

 

[johnsmithcel]

Keep coping

you're a roidcel on an obscure incel forum for losers, no need to larp as some dudebrah. no one's falling for it.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

you're a roidcel on an obscure incel forum for losers, no need to larp as some dudebrah. no one's falling for it.

Cope

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Closest thing ive done to cold approach is getting drunk with my friend and start talking to a group of girls in a mall

One ended up holding my arm and walking away with me and we made out on a parkbench

 

[AspiringMogger]

Like at a bar or something?
Back when I went to bars and clubs in my teens, i'd get approached somewhat frequently, usually at least once each time in a club but now i'm kinda in a closed off group with the people I go to bars with.
I want to try approaching a female for the first time in my life but i'm scared. I'm a boring, high inhib cuck and I feel I would ooze autism if I tried.

How do I make it not seem like i'm some sperg that is trying his latest PUA techniques?

If a girl is at the bar is getting a drink, how can I approach?

This is the universe Bhai. Does it really matter?

 

[longjohnmong]

Like at a bar or something?

Are you opposed to antidepressant use? I'm also such a sperg that massive amounts of alcohol doesn't fix it, but if I'm on Effexor, 4 beers will completely cure me.

And just go up and start talking about whatever. It's better to talk about nothing than to talk about something lame. Watch this video starting at 4:05:



Listen to his definition of nerd vs. non-nerd and the purpose of communication. Don't be a fucking nerd.

 

[Deleted member 23359]

@skorp how do you go about it nigga? You seem experienced.

Its all about the environment you in man, the girl you're talking to should feel comfortable and not being rizzed up if you know what i mean, i don't go to clubs its lame and full of competition, literally strike a normal conversation about an event happening (for ex when my professor mentioned sum about an exam i turned quickly to the girl next to me and stared chatting about it) and read the room if you feel like she's getting rid of you gtfo asap

At the end if you do well on dating apps don't bother with cold approaching unless you're mentally strong

 

[johnsmithcel]

Its all about the environment you in man, the girl you're talking to should feel comfortable and not being rizzed up if you know what i mean, i don't go to clubs its lame and full of competition, literally strike a normal conversation about an event happening (for ex when my professor mentioned sum about an exam i turned quickly to the girl next to me and stared chatting about it) and read the room if you feel like she's getting rid of you gtfo asap

At the end if you do well on dating apps don't bother with cold approaching unless you're mentally strong

The only places I can talk to girls are bars, since i'm in a stemcel uni. I do decently on Tinder for the single autistic, shit-quality selfie I have, but I can't take better pics atm. I need to meet girls irl.

 

[Deleted member 23359]

The only places I can talk to girls are bars, since i'm in a stemcel uni. I do decently on Tinder for the single autistic, shit-quality selfie I have, but I can't take better pics atm. I need to meet girls irl.

yeah if bars didn't work out for you, go all in on tinder and set your best profile
i don't like dating apps bc it takes too much effort to set a date up or fuck the chick (unless chad) but for us normies rejection irl feels less hurtful then dating apps

 

[johnsmithcel]

yeah if bars didn't work out for you, go all in on tinder and set your best profile
i don't like dating apps bc it takes too much effort to set a date up or fuck the chick (unless chad) but for us normies rejection irl feels less hurtful then dating apps

well I never really tried bars properly yet. Before when girls approached me I was a major sperg and essentially I ran away from them. Now I want to try approaching myself.
I feel really uncomfortable being on Tinder with my shit pictures. I'm someone that never even had an fb profile pic before.

 

[nitesik]

Like at a bar or something?
Back when I went to bars and clubs in my teens, i'd get approached somewhat frequently, usually at least once each time in a club but now i'm kinda in a closed off group with the people I go to bars with.
I want to try approaching a female for the first time in my life but i'm scared. I'm a boring, high inhib cuck and I feel I would ooze autism if I tried.

How do I make it not seem like i'm some sperg that is trying his latest PUA techniques?

If a girl is at the bar is getting a drink, how can I approach?

Just talk and thats it. After like 10 girls you’ll get a hang of it easily

 

[Foreverbrad]

First be 6+ PSL then do whatever.

 

[johnsmithcel]

First be 6+ PSL then do whatever.

cope tbh, all kinds of subhumans get laid from approaching.