I do this but number/snap instead
Same. Do you ask them out before getting the number?
How many texts on the app?
Maybe like 4 or 5 each but if she’s replying super quick and the convos flowing maybe more.
Depends but many times I’ll ask number first saying I don’t check this app a lot
How many messages do you exchange on the app before getting the number?
It’s just basic small talk on the app right? Do you think it doesn’t rly matter what you text them as long as they like you?
I mean it doesn’t matter WITHIN REASON.
Usually 5-10
Ok thx man I do a bit less bc I find you have to move fast or other guys will ask them out first but it’s a balance of moving fast and getting to know them so they don’t think you just want to fuck
Makes sense. What are your thoughts on “text game” channels like playing with fire?
Honestly for getting girls irl I think game is somewhat legit - it’s just a lot of guys who are into game try to act as it looks don’t matter to gaslight ugly men into buying their Muh game boot camp or course whatever. Game does matter irl it’s just only 1 piece of the puzzle and a small one compared to looks imo
I try and find something to say about one of their pics or prompts
Gotcha why not a compliment?
I do the pic thing too because it feels more personal to them and less canned. Compliments are just very generic and (thanks to Indians) associated with Bob and Vagene type messaging
So what would be an example of commenting on their pic or prompt?
I get so many matches every day it’s easier to use a canned opener but want to improve my conversion rate so I may personalize it more
I usually wait to get messages but if I open I’ll say something about their profile/bio /prompt
Ok cool I will do this and stop doing canned openers. Usually a decent amount of girls message me first too
If they have a pic of them traveling its something as simple as "cool landscape, was it taken in Greece?"
Then is the whole convo about that topic? How do you ask them out?
No it's literally a few sentences to open it. Girls will usually then lead by asking me questions about myself and then the convo goes on for a few messages. After which I ask them out and they send their number etc
Why not move faster
I don't know what you mean? I'm not texting them for days, literally a few mins and then setup a date / time to fuck
How many messages do you exchange on the app before getting number? Usually this takes a few days with their response times right?
No it takes a few min. If it goes beyond a day she won't respond and the convo is over
So you reply fast and set up the date within a day? You don’t wait a day or more to reply to her? This may be my mistake waiting too long to reply. Assuming the girl is replying fast as well
Why would I wait to reply?
Bc your busy? JFL so you reply to every girl as soon as they message you
No but I also don't autistically pretend to be busy in the name of muh busy aloof Chad game. That shit only works on bitches addicted to your cock. If I wait around and she wants cock now why tf would I not take a few seconds to reply especially if I want her pussy
I am actually busy which is why I wait. Sometimes I wait days and they still respond
