how do you have confidence if your ugly

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confidence is one of the most attractive things for girls apparently, but if your unnattractive and try to act confident, people will say you're overconfident or arrogant. people who arent the best looking also get bullied and shamed for it, so they will be insecure, further lowering their confidence. this literally means if your ugly its almost impossible to be confident
 
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confidence is one of the most attractive things for girls apparently, but if your unnattractive and try to act confident, people will say you're overconfident or arrogant. people who arent the best looking also get bullied and shamed for it, so they will be insecure, further lowering their confidence. this literally means if your ugly its almost impossible to be confident
Idk how old you are but this essentially means that you probably need to think deeply about why it is that you believe you do not deserve to be confident.

Unless you're genuinely difficult to look at, your friendships are primarily going to be dependent on your ability to socialise. This is coming from somebody that has been average-looking most of their life. This is 100% going to seem like cope but as a male, you can very easily make friends as a sub 5 looking guy once you know how to socialise.
 
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Idk how old you are but this essentially means that you probably need to think deeply about why it is that you believe you do not deserve to be confident.

Unless you're genuinely difficult to look at, your friendships are primarily going to be dependent on your ability to socialise. This is coming from somebody that has been average-looking most of their life. This is 100% going to seem like cope but as a male, you can very easily make friends as a sub 5 looking guy once you know how to socialise.
i lost all my friends bc of my looks
 
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i lost all my friends bc of my looks
Yeah but you're probably overlooking the importance of the belief itself.

Our minds are very sensitive to how others treat us and our beliefs are deeply intertwined with that.

Dude this isn't because of your looks jfl
 
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confidence is one of the most attractive things for girls apparently, but if your unnattractive and try to act confident, people will say you're overconfident or arrogant. people who arent the best looking also get bullied and shamed for it, so they will be insecure, further lowering their confidence. this literally means if your ugly its almost impossible to be confident
Yes, it's because there are winners and losers in life. Ugly inkwell losers are placed in a perpetual cycle of negativity ensuring that they never win, whilst Chad gets the exact opposite and gets positive reinforcement for taking a shit. It was determined at birth.
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Yes, it's because there are winners and losers in life. Ugly inkwell losers are placed in a perpetual cycle of negativity ensuring that they never win, whilst Chad gets the exact opposite and gets positive reinforcement for taking a shit. It was determined at birth.
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so is it over?
 
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confidence is one of the most attractive things for girls apparently, but if your unnattractive and try to act confident, people will say you're overconfident or arrogant. people who arent the best looking also get bullied and shamed for it, so they will be insecure, further lowering their confidence. this literally means if your ugly its almost impossible to be confident
High test
 
not just the face, skinny/fat and short u cant too
When you’re ugly most of the time no one will care about you or even look at you

So no people will not care or call you overconfident
 
Normies and foids are evil are they
 
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u just have to be outstanding in something, it can increase confidence
 
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Idk how old you are but this essentially means that you probably need to think deeply about why it is that you believe you do not deserve to be confident.

Unless you're genuinely difficult to look at, your friendships are primarily going to be dependent on your ability to socialise. This is coming from somebody that has been average-looking most of their life. This is 100% going to seem like cope but as a male, you can very easily make friends as a sub 5 looking guy once you know how to socialise.
Statistically proven most friendgroups are a looksmatch for both men and women btw
 
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When you’re ugly most of the time no one will care about you or even look at you

So no people will not care or call you overconfident
when you TRY to be confident they will say that
 

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