How do you join into a conversation?

[Deleted member 7725]

Sometimes before my college classes some people outside the class are talking. How am I supposed to join the conversation? Should I just say excuse me and justify why I want to speak or do I just speak when there’s a chance to? What am I supposed to talk about?

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Sometimes before my college classes some people outside the class are talking. How am I supposed to join the conversation? Should I just say excuse me and justify why I want to speak or do I just speak when there’s a chance to? What am I supposed to talk about?

Over for you buddyboyo

If people want you to join they'll ask for your input. Simple as that

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Over for you buddyboyo

If people want you to join they'll ask for your input. Simple as that

So are you supposed to stand near them and maintain occasional eye contact or something?

 

[Sprinkles]

i just stand over them and brood and listen to what they have to say. afterwards I add into the conversation.

 

[Deleted member 23778]

So are you supposed to stand near them and maintain occasional eye contact or something?

Nigga. Don't do that.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Nigga. Don't do that.

Then what do you do?

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Then what do you do?

Depends. Are you friends with these people or they randos?

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Depends. Are you friends with these people or they randos?

Other people in class.

 

[Deleted member 23778]

Other people in class.

Befriend them first. Don't just insert yourself in conversations. That can be taken as rude at worst or awkward at best. And no, this isn't a situation where being "based" will give you any advantages. Get comfortable with people 1 on 1 first before you just throw yourself into a group and pretend you're one of the guys. Even if people are nice to you while doing it, it doesn't boost your status in the group what the fuck so ever

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Befriend them first. Don't just insert yourself in conversations. That can be taken as rude at worst or awkward at best. And no, this isn't a situation where being "based" will give you any advantages. Get comfortable with people 1 on 1 first before you just throw yourself into a group and pretend you're one of the guys. Even if people are nice to you while doing it, it doesn't boost your status in the group what the fuck so ever

This sounds like something a pedophile would do. I will just talk to them and if they show attitude will find a way to fight them after class.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Like this

 

[Deleted member 23778]

This sounds like something a pedophile would do. I will just talk to them and if they show attitude will find a way to fight them after class.

Is this a troll thread or what? You sound giga autistic

 

[Gonthar]

What am I supposed to talk about?

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Is this a troll thread or what? You sound giga autistic

You're the autist if u think you need them to invite you to talk to them.

 

[omarthegoat195]

You're the autist if u think you need them to invite you to talk to them.

you’ll seem autistic asf if u just join without anybody asking for ur input

 

[Deleted member 24712]

you’ll seem autistic asf if u just join without anybody asking for ur input

i think they would already know he is autistic

 

[MoggerChad]

In high school my opener for joining in on conversations was to eavesdrop a bit, then roast someone of that group and join in using the eavesdropped info.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

you’ll seem autistic asf if u just join without anybody asking for ur input

You sound like a high inhib beta bitch.

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Sometimes before my college classes some people outside the class are talking. How am I supposed to join the conversation? Should I just say excuse me and justify why I want to speak or do I just speak when there’s a chance to? What am I supposed to talk about?

Already ovER if they dont include you in their conversation

 

[Dr. Bludy]

i just stand over them and brood and listen to what they have to say. afterwards I add into the conversation.

Bro thinks hes batman

 

[Deleted member 25713]

You need status as a friendly social person (even if this just means being seen walking around smiling and greeting people) before joining in random conversations. If you’ve been in the same social environment for a while and failed to make a name for yourself then just start befriending people individually and gaining status that way. Then you can get lucky and slide into one of the conversations.

 

[Allandro]

Sometimes before my college classes some people outside the class are talking. How am I supposed to join the conversation? Should I just say excuse me and justify why I want to speak or do I just speak when there’s a chance to? What am I supposed to talk about?

If they are talking about something you can contibute with just say it.

Example

Them: What's the result of the match?

Other dude: I don't know

You: Manchester United won 3-0

And keep talking about the match, that's easy.

If you can't contibute and they are talking about stuff you don't know just stay silent.

 

[Deleted member 23778]

You sound like a high inhib beta bitch.

Says the guy who barely speaks