How do you know if you ever had a friend?

[Jesus_ist_König]

For me a friendship is when both ppl like each other and that it’s pretty long lasting.

In my life I had ppl that I got a long with, nearly all of them never initiated the hangout, all of them are gone by now, they weren’t long lasting.

Are those still friends or just ppl?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Bump

 

[FunnyVALENTINE]

Bro I was never and still unable to understand this whole friendship fiasco

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Bro I was never and still unable to understand this whole friendship fiasco

Doooood same
The only thing where I can clearly see friendship is when it’s a long lasting friendship aka best friends

 

[FunnyVALENTINE]

Doooood same
The only thing where I can clearly see friendship is when it’s a long lasting friendship aka best friends

I don't think friendship is a real thing .

The idea of friendship you have is
probably from the TV shows and the media .

There's a reason why there was a tribe system 1000 years ago

 

[Revan]

friends dont exist

 

[Deleted member 337609]

friends dont exist

what are we

 

[buddhistking]

Idk i used to have a bunch of friends that i would chill with after school, play video games, go to their house, eat pizza, stay round for the night etc, they were incel ethnics like me, most of them have gone now im an adult in my 20s, I dont have any irl friends anymore

 

[2s2f]

 

[2s2f]

what are we

ltg am I still ignored by you?

 

[Revan]

what are we

associates

 

[2s2f]

friends dont exist

that's right

 

[Revan]

that's right

yes

 

[2s2f]

yes

fuck you

 

[Mansur]

if there was a situation where they couldve abandoned you and they stayed despite it not beeing beneficial for them thats true friendship

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I don't think friendship is a real thing .

The idea of friendship you have is
probably from the TV shows and the media .

There's a reason why there was a tribe system 1000 years ago

Yes I think you can only call someone a friend when it’s long lasting but I never had that

 

[Revan]

fuck you

the fuck did i do now

 

[Deleted member 337609]

associates

with benifits?

 

[2s2f]

the fuck did i do now

I don't know, im just mad

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Idk i used to have a bunch of friends that i would chill with after school, play video games, go to their house, eat pizza, stay round for the night etc, they were incel ethnics like me, most of them have gone now im an adult in my 20s, I dont have any irl friends anymore

Did u always had to initiate the hang out?
I did, that’s why I never really saw them as friends

 

[Deleted member 337609]

the fuck did i do now

lol got that dude on ignored, just ignore him his verbal diarrhea isnt worth reading

 

[Revan]

lol got that dude on ignored, just ignore him his verbal diarrhea isnt worth reading

yea thats true, hes an asshole

 

[buddhistking]

Did u always had to initiate the hang out?
I did, that’s why I never really saw them as friends

Nah you cant just like invite yourself to someone's house jfl, they would invite me everytime, and their parents were cool with it as long as their son was still a good student

The friendships werent perfect though, we were very racist to each other (they were like asians and arabs and I'm black), and the friendship didnt last after high school, but it was still cool to have ppl to hang out with after school, doing that youngcel shiii

Now I'm alone all the time

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Nah you cant just like invite yourself to someone's house jfl, they would invite me everytime, and their parents were cool with it as long as their son was still a good student

The friendships werent perfect though, we were very racist to each other (they were like asians and arabs and I'm black), and the friendship didnt last after high school, but it was still cool to have ppl to hang out with after school, doing that youngcel shiii

Now I'm alone all the time

I just, in my eyes that’s no friendship it’s just people in your life and nothing more

 

[buddhistking]

I just, in my eyes that’s no friendship it’s just people in your life and nothing more

If you're talking about true friends like friends forever I only have one irl friend i could say is like that, we still talk everyday like 15 years after becoming friends

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

If you're talking about true friends like friends forever I only have one irl friend i could say is like that, we still talk everyday like 15 years after becoming friends

Dude wtf crazy

 

[buddhistking]

Dude wtf crazy

Yeah but we dont live in the same city anymore so I just talk with him on calls and sheeit