How do you react to friends not responding

[Zdeweilx]

My current best friend is seriously pissing me off for 2 main reasons, should I just get him out of my life?

Like we always sit next to each other at school and were best buds but sometimes he purposefully doesnt answer me on social media idk why and its pissing me off like I can see hes been active on messenger basically all day long and still hasnt even looked at my message and its been 2 fucking days already. We've known each other for like 1 year and a half I find him really cool and all but this part of him annoys me quite a bit.

Not to mention I turn into a ghost to his eyes everytime a foid/slut turns around to talk to him. Like he completely stops listening to whatever I was telling him and I just cease to exist for the time being. Sluts dont even look at me lol they just turn around , tell him something useless, they exchange smiles and from there she just goes back to whatever she was doing (aka looking at herself in a mirror jfl fuck those narcy procrastinators glasses are forbidden at school)

SUMMARY FOR ASPIECELS WHO DONT WANNA READ

BASICALLY what would u do if ur best friend :
-doesnt answer to ur messages on social media despite being active all day long
-starts completely ignoring you (I mean it) as soon as a foid starts speaking to him

my assumption is that hes ignoring me bc hes talking with foids.

 

[2peasinapod]

looksmax bro and mogg him

 

[Vidyacoper]

he doesnt consider you a true friend, youre just the way that he kills time with you in school. do you guys ever go out together? if he doesnt even care to respond to your messages then consider spending your time at school better than interacting with him

 

[Zdeweilx]

he doesnt consider you a true friend, youre just the way that he kills time with you in school. do you guys ever go out together? if he doesnt even care to respond to your messages then consider spending your time at school better than interacting with him

We had a school trip last year and we hanged out together for the full week but apart from that yeah never seen him outside of school. He lives 1 hour away from my town tho

looksmax bro and mogg him

i'm already iqmogging him hard

 

[Deleted member 2403]

Get friends that actually respect you

 

[HurtfulVanity]

I have a friend like this and yes he does message slot of foids and talks with them to try and get at them. Like none of them get with him tho cause hes 5'6 he was even on the football team and is a pretty boy jacked manlet. Heightpill is brutal he even told me they say its cause hes short now hes just like their gay best friend lmao. Known him for 7 years now I just ignore him aswell last time he hit me up which was like almost 2 months now all you can do bro some people just think they're better than you man forget about them.

 

[Zdeweilx]

Get friends that actually respect you

Does that really mean he doesnt respect me tho
I dont want to rush things and dump him in a rush

I have a friend like this and yes he does message slot of foids and talks with them to try and get at them. Like none of them get with him tho cause hes 5'6 he was even on the football team and is a pretty boy jacked manlet. Heightpill is brutal he even told me they say its cause hes short now hes just like their gay best friend lmao. Known him for 7 years now I just ignore him aswell last time he hit me up which was like almost 2 months now all you can do bro some people just think they're better than you man forget about them.

Dude what youre telling me might be the truth but its hard to swallow, how could I know if hes just thirsty for pussy or if he just doesnt give a damn Fuck about me

 

[Incognegro]

best friend

We've known each other for like 1 year and a half

 

[sloopnoob]

should you really be calling him your friend? be high t and stop messaging him. it's incel behaviour to chase people who don't care about you, not any different situation than being ignored by a foid.

 

[RudyRude]

I don’t know OP I think you should lightly mention it to him in a joking way.

 

[Zdeweilx]

Its my current best bud cause we Were put in the same class this year but next year we probably wont and another friend of mine will temporarily become my best bud
Have you ever gone to school dude everyone hangs out with different people from one year to another

 

[HurtfulVanity]

Does that really mean he doesnt respect me tho
I dont want to rush things and dump him in a rush

Dude what youre telling me might be the truth but its hard to swallow, how could I know if hes just thirsty for pussy or if he just doesnt give a damn Fuck about me

Depends how he treats you when your actually with him but if he doesnt bother to text you back over some girls forget it. Last time we hung out he bought some earbuds and was short 6 bucks so I offered right and he said he'd pay me back and I said yah man give me whenever possible and he never I mentioned it again after that then I knew hes just an advantageous person. It sucks because we used to be really good friends but w/e that's his problem if he wants he can try a little harder. He would leave me on read aswell. He would give me advice and shit on talking to girls tho. It's your decision man just ignore him and see what he wants next time he tries and talks to you

 

[Zdeweilx]

should you really be calling him your friend? be high t and stop messaging him. it's incel behaviour to chase people who don't care about you, not any different situation than being ignored by a foid.

I aint chasing him hes just being cold for no reason I'm getting pissed off and will most likely stop talking to him as well

 

[RudyRude]

Its my current best bud cause we Were put in the same class this year but next year we probably wont and another friend of mine will temporarily become my best bud
Have you ever gone to school dude everyone hangs out with different people from one year to another

I know what you mean brah sort of like you mainly hang out with the people you see more frequently?

 

[Zdeweilx]

Depends how he treats you when your actually with him but if he doesnt bother to text you back over some girls forget it. Last time we hung out he bought some earbuds and was short 6 bucks so I offered right and he said he'd pay me back and I said yah man give me whenever possible and he never I mentioned it again after that then I knew hes just an advantageous person. It sucks because we used to be really good friends but w/e that's his problem if he wants he can try a little harder. He would leave me on read aswell. He would give me advice and shit on talking to girls tho. It's your decision man just ignore him and see what he wants next time he tries and talks to you

Okay thanks that hurts a bit lol but I guess itll be better like that

I don’t know OP I think you should lightly mention it to him in a joking way.

No I'll just look needy and insecure

I know what you mean brah sort of like you mainly hang out with the people you see more frequently?

Exactly lol like if we werent in the same class I prolly wouldnt have bothered talking to him just shaking hands with him if I happen to meet him in the corridor tbh

 

[sloopnoob]

I aint chasing him hes just being cold for no reason I'm getting pissed off and will most likely stop talking to him as well

Okay, forget what I said. If you really do consider him your friend go see him in person and ask if there's something going on in his life or if something's bothering him. If you cherish your friendship and the times you spent together just make sure he's doing fine.

 

[Zdeweilx]

Okay, forget what I said. If you really do consider him your friend go see him in person and ask if there's something going on in his life or if something's bothering him. If you cherish your friendship and the times you spent together just make sure he's doing fine.

Yea I'll most likely do this but I feel like I'll be disappointed but idk its worth trying

 

[Tony]

thx spoderman

 

[Aesthetic]

why would you care so much about someone that cares so little about you?

 

[sloopnoob]

Yea I'll most likely do this but I feel like I'll be disappointed but idk its worth trying

it's worth it yes. I was like this with my friend too, I mean I was avoiding him because I wanted him to move on from me and enjoy more with people from his college and just not talk to me over text all day. that fucker kept messaging me until I knew that it's impossible to let go off of him like this and we still talk after 2 years of leaving school and everyday too

 

[Zdeweilx]

why would you care so much about someone that cares so little about you?

Thats the thing idk if he no longer gives a fuck about me or if its just me being paranoid

it's worth it yes. I was like this with my friend too, I mean I was avoiding him because I wanted him to move on from me and enjoy more with people from his college and just not talk to me over text all day. that fucker kept messaging me until I knew that it's impossible to let go off of him like this and we still talk after 2 years of leaving school and everyday too

Thats kinda rude but I understand

thx spoderman

ur welcome dude

 

[sloopnoob]

Thats kinda rude but I understand

it wasn't rude, that guy is incapable to interact socially. I wanted him to go out have fun enjoy life and not just keep talking over phone all day. I wished for his betterment lol

 

[Deleted member 616]

Block them

 

[Aesthetic]

Thats the thing idk if he no longer gives a fuck about me or if its just me being paranoid

Well if your friend doesnt respond to you 2 days in a row while always being online and ignores you to talk to girls. From an outsider perspective it looks this.

-He doesnt respect you
-He doesnt care as much about you as you care bout him
-He doesnt seem to enjoy the time you spend together the same degree as you do.

Best you can do is point it out jokingly if he gives a wishy-washy response there is no reason to continue speaking with him.

 

[Deleted member 2227]

he doesnt consider you a true friend, youre just the way that he kills time

C'mon, all "friends" are like/for this, so yeah basically there is no real friends.

 

[Ritalincell]