How do you reset negative feedback loop

[Imretarded?]

I've had very little socializing since 2020-2022 and basically nothing beyond small talk after 2022.

My ability to deal with stress has declined, my default mood is way worse and can't find motivation to socialize especially this year since university seems do much harder to find connections compared to social events i went to while in hs.

I've tried mysterious bad boy maxxing, it doesn't work

I've tried clown maxxing (in teens) got 'friends' but this is reason self esteem went down in first place

I've tried being relaxed and chill, it doesn't fucking work either.

I've never had these so called 'friends' msg me first or suggest social event which feels bad.

It's basically impossible to make any progress since I have a very bad version of autism so I really need sone kind of solution to this social incompetence. Im not even sure my looksmaxxing routine will help enough as I never noticed any change from before and after I fixed acne with tretinoin.

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

Just be confident bro

 

[FreakShowCel]

I've had very little socializing since 2020-2022 and basically nothing beyond small talk after 2022.

My ability to deal with stress has declined, my default mood is way worse and can't find motivation to socialize especially this year since university seems do much harder to find connections compared to social events i went to while in hs.

I've tried mysterious bad boy maxxing, it doesn't work

I've tried clown maxxing (in teens) got 'friends' but this is reason self esteem went down in first place

I've tried being relaxed and chill, it doesn't fucking work either.

I've never had these so called 'friends' msg me first or suggest social event which feels bad.

It's basically impossible to make any progress since I have a very bad version of autism so I really need sone kind of solution to this social incompetence. Im not even sure my looksmaxxing routine will help enough as I never noticed any change from before and after I fixed acne with tretinoin.

Get out of your own head and strike up conversations with people you dont know, in the grocery store next to someone? Make a comment about what they are getting. In class next to someone? Make a comment about how the work is hard/easy