How do you set boundaries in a relationship?

[Jason Voorhees]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Chadeep @ltnbrownacnecel

 

[Häb]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me. I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

If she dont want u the way u are she aint the one just, if she cheats on u just go on

 

[UrFavSub5]

beat her ass

 

[ltnbrownacnecel]

Cutting of her female friends that fuck up the relationship is smart.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

beat her ass

I have never raised my hand on her. I would never beat a girl i love with intent to hurt them.

 

[UrFavSub5]

I have never raised my hand on her. I would never beat a girl i love with intent to hurt them.

Life starts at domestic abuse

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Lefty Rankin

 

[unowkn]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

doing all this sighh why can't you just LDAR, fuck her and be incels with us.. your .org family

 

[care]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

U already set them

A woman especially gf should listen to what their bf tells them to do

Obviously not unethical shit

But what u said is completely valid and reasonable, And its not insecurity

Keep doing what ur doing and if she truly loves you she will respect ur decisions

 

[unstable]

doing all this sighh why can't you just LDAR, fuck her and be incels with us.. your .org family

us incels are like frogs in the well.

 

[Jimcel]

Well, how long have you guys been together?

 

[HtnceI]

Very nice, and props to her for listening to you. Mirin

 

[Mythical Chadpreet]

It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship.

Foids these days won't even break frirndship with their Male bsf.
Mirin your GF

 

[Uraniumescent]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

You have done nothing wrong. boundaries are necessary

 

[Jason Voorhees]

U already set them

A woman especially gf should listen to what their bf tells them to do

Obviously not unethical shit

But what u said is completely valid and reasonable, And its not insecurity

Keep doing what ur doing and if she truly loves you she will respect ur decisions

She does but she sometimes pushes back aswell but in the end I have my way anyway. Tbh I speak like I'm in the position of power and have leverage but I'll 10x more devestated if she did leave me or something but I never show that

 

[unowkn]

us incels are like frogs in the well.

you dare spout such nonsense to this young master?! KNeetOW to me this instant and lick the shoes of my feet or i will have your corpse fed to the dogs!!

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Well, how long have you guys been together?

Since October of last year.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

You're not doing anything wrong and people who might say it's insecure have just been psyoped by modern society. The irony is that men who don't set those sorts of boundaries are the ones who are insecure. They're too afraid to do what they know is right. They're afraid their girl will leave them if they set those boundaries.

Making a woman completely cut off friends who speak badly of you is essential.

Lastly, a woman should conform to her man. Not the other way around. She should come into his world.

 

[unstable]

1. never threaten to leave, women have relationships for security, negative reinforcement is generally bad.
2. just tell her you broadly don't like feeling emasculated and bring others into your relationship and leave interpretation to her.

 

[unowkn]

Since October of last year.

very recent.. so all that has happened..wow must be tuff... makes you wonder how it would be without her..

 

[care]

She does but she sometimes pushes back aswell but in the end I have my way anyway. Tbh I speak like I'm in the position of power and have leverage but I'll 10x more devestated if she did leave me or something but I never show that

It depends what she pushes back on, For example

You tell her to cut off a guy friend, and she declines it for some stupid reason = red flag

You tell her to cut off everyone and she pushes back = She has the right to

Pretty retarded examples but you get my point

Try not to be so pressy about it to her either, if you see something similar shes doing to the boundaries you set, you remind her and tell her not to do it again or you will leave, and you indeed do or else she will keep doing it since you tell her you will leave and you dont

Im 99% sure ur relationship is amazing man, try not to overthink and keep living

 

[unstable]

you dare spout such nonsense to this young master?! KNeetOW to me this instant and lick the shoes of my feet or i will have your corpse fed to the dogs!!

thats just who we are bhai
we can't develop as a group if we don't self reflect.

 

[Vantablack]

sounds like you’re doing it right already

 

[topology]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

This will make her run away from you eventually, it happened to me. You should be discussing non negotiables right now, if it does break off, nothing bad occurs. Just say what you both expect, if it's different, it's okay to let go of the relationship. You can't ever expect someone to change something major for you.

She will internalize the fact that you're controlling/a narcissist and will not listen to reason at a specific point regardless of how much you do for her. This is why those discussions are needed like I stated.

Using ADHD meds really helped me over come the overthinking but this is just my own personal anecdote.

 

[dhusc]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

if you cheats on you than she wasn’t the one regardless of the freedom you given her

 

[sub5outsider]

 

[Giornoblaze]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

Ur insane nigga

 

[valentine]

there's no relationship

 

[Giornoblaze]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

In the uk, they have so much propaganda going around abt shit like this bruh
Ads run constantly showing how texting is " domestic abuse", controIIng phones is domestic abuse and controIIng whtt she wears is domestic abuse.
This type of shit has been drilled into British kids since youth, that may be why i feeI like ur insane ngl.
They are very pro women here in the uk

 

[gymcel64]

Cutting of her female friends that fuck up the relationship is smart.

i would argue it’s the most important thing you need to do if you actually want a serious LTR that would lead to children and a shared life.

 

[Chadeep]

What was her friend like.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

What was her friend like.

She kept shit talking me and trying to poke her nose.

 

[EthnicCopemaxxer]

Holy shit dark triad af @overrated

 

[Sprinkles]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

set strong boundaries and be willing to walk away or replace her if those boundaries are being crossed.

it’ll make her respect you more because she can’t walk all over you and you’re acting like a leader

 

[witcher78]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

ill never understand getting upset at your partners boundaries. if you cant respect something so simple, then leave.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

set strong boundaries and be willing to walk away or replace her if those boundaries are being crossed.

it’ll make her respect you more because she can’t walk all over you and you’re acting like a leader

This

 

[prettyboy.elyas]

I don't give my gf an opportunity to cheat. I know her phone password and also set boundaries for her. I threaten to leave her if she doesn't listen to me. It has resulted in her breakin friendship with one of her female friends who was poisoning our relationship. I made her pick between her or me . I've made her cry a few times but I also try to make it up to her by taking care of her within those boundaries. I try to give her everything she could possibly desire and keep her as happy as possible. My love is conditional but deep and strong. I know it runs off as insecure but this is just how I am

R U a man or what. U have two hands for a reason, use em