How do you social circle maxing after 25?

[johnny4612]

Hi there!
After you take the red pill and improve your appearance, you immediately start to notice how people, especially women, look at you differently. It's a sensation that life is easier or more gentle, even though you still have to work hard to maintain your appeal.
Requirement #1: Appearance (Satisfied)

Now, what if you started late, after 25, and don't have a social circle?
How can you grow a social circle of diverse people to find new friends and a partner to improve your life?
It is said that "the only way to find something is not to look for it. That thing must seek you and find you" and there is some truth to that.
Requirement #2: Social Maxing (How to satisfy?)



ps: which are the TRUE things. habits, small daily measure, principles, we can take and do to grind, in order to reach the social maxing goal?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Leave wherever you're from. Meeting new people is easier as an adult after moving from one place to another. Go abroad and you'll meet even more people. As an expat you'll instantly become part of a community of other expats.

 

[novanova123]

Hi there!
After you take the red pill and improve your appearance, you immediately start to notice how people, especially women, look at you differently. It's a sensation that life is easier or more gentle, even though you still have to work hard to maintain your appeal.
Requirement #1: Appearance (Satisfied)

Now, what if you started late, after 25, and don't have a social circle?
How can you grow a social circle of diverse people to find new friends and a partner to improve your life?
It is said that "the only way to find something is not to look for it. That thing must seek you and find you" and there is some truth to that.
Requirement #2: Social Maxing (How to satisfy?)



ps: which are the TRUE things. habits, small daily measure, principles, we can take and do to grind, in order to reach the social maxing goal?

See what high class/status peoples hobbies are an if you are interetsed in them pick them up and try to meet other people who do them. Viola! now you meet other high class/status people and it is easier to become like them

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

mirin your grinding motivation tbh

 

[kanderior]

Work is the only thing that's worked for me, assuming you're lucky and there's people around your age at your office who are not introverted nerds.

 

[roping3264]

how do some greycels write with good format

 

[EggKing]

Too late and too little to do

 

[kanderior]

As for subtle everyday habits: reduce your consumption of underground non-normie online content like this place, 4chan, fringe politics, conspiracies etc. (essential) and consume more normie content. Watch mainstream podcasts popular with zoomers like Nelk, Impaulsive, maybe Fresh and Fit minus their political stuff, JRE etc., Sneako's non-political content, standup comedy (preferably modern), in-field PUA videos like the kind of RSDTyler makes (I don't believe in PUA without looksmaxing anymore and I find him cringe but it demonstrates the kind of social energy you want to have), popular TV shows and movies, Craig Ferguson, that kind of thing. Also, I don't like Andrew Tate anymore but he has good videos on or demonstrating social dynamics, even Destiny who hates him admits he's a master socializer.
Yeah a lot of this stuff is objectively bad but you want to consume stuff you can absorb positive normie social energy from, it's not about quality.

 

[Deleted member 16280]

Just like in real estate, location is everything. If you're smart and ambitious, move to a big city like NYC, LA, Toronto, Miami, etc. Then meet people through work, uni, hobbies, social media, any way you can find. Cast a wide net and filter from there.

 

[Deleted member 16280]

As for subtle everyday habits: reduce your consumption of underground non-normie online content like this place, 4chan, fringe politics, conspiracies etc. and consume more normie content. Watch mainstream podcasts popular with zoomers like Nelk, Impaulsive, maybe Fresh and Fit minus their political stuff, JRE etc., standup comedy (preferably modern), in-field PUA videos like the kind of RSDTyler makes (I don't believe in PUA without looksmaxing anymore and I find him cringe but it demonstrates the kind of social energy you want to have), popular TV shows and movies, Craig Ferguson, that kind of thing. Also, I don't like Andrew Tate anymore but he has good videos on or demonstrating social dynamics, even Destiny who hates him admits he's a master socializer.
Yeah a lot of this stuff is objectively bad but you want to consume stuff you can absorb positive normie social energy from, it's not about quality.

High IQ advice^

If you want to become an elite NTcel, start out by living like one. The low hanging fruit here is to abandon all this autistic online content.

 

[spongebob]

I have the same problem.

The best way is work obviously, then it's some activity like education or course.
Next is sport of any kind.

Then you can go out or clubbing but it's very hit or miss.

A good one is volunteer work. Workshops of any kind work too. Maybe go to facebook events and you'll find random things.

The most important thing is to know how to break the ice. If you have a good vibe then people will be open.
Repeat this untill you find people you vibe with and have similar interests with.
I find it easier to connect with women because there doesn't need to be any familiarity, only attraction.

 

[kanderior]

The low hanging fruit here is to abandon all this autistic online content.

Exactly. Though you don't want to become uncultured swine, you can watch science or history videos, stuff that increases your knowledge compared to the average normie and which can make for interesting conversation topics or impress people, and ofc reading up on stuff relating to your career/field that can give you an edge in job-searching, professional settings, conferences etc. is a must. Just abandon the more fringe autistic stuff that adds nothing to your life.

 

[kanderior]

The best way is work obviously, then it's some activity like education or course.
Next is sport of any kind.

yeah 25 is not too late to start a new degree (preferably Master's at that age) and try a second shot at the college student experience if you missed out on it. I started my master at 24 and had a much better time than my bachelor's cause of the regrets and lessons I learned rotting during it. But that is the limit (mayyybe 26, the average college student's age in some places) and it's kind of dumb to start a degree just because you wanna NTmax, it should be something actually useful.

 

[Xangsane]

Just like in real estate, location is everything. If you're smart and ambitious, move to a big city like NYC, LA, Toronto, Miami, etc. Then meet people through work, uni, hobbies, social media, any way you can find. Cast a wide net and filter from there.

it's hard when you're saving up.

 

[wsada]

Good thread bookmarked

 

[Deleted member 16280]

it's hard when you're saving up.

Yeah, you’ll likely need roommates and/or to get yourself a high paying job. But escaping wagie life should be every man’s top priority

 

[Xangsane]

Yeah, you’ll likely need roommates and/or to get yourself a high paying job. But escaping wagie life should be every man’s top priority

family never wanted me to live like that.

 

[Deleted member 16280]

family never wanted me to live like that.

Take control over your own life or resign yourself to whatever crap they have in store for you

 

[Xangsane]

Take control over your own life or resign yourself to whatever crap they have in store for you

it's also too expensive to move to a big city.

 

[spongebob]

yeah 25 is not too late to start a new degree (preferably Master's at that age) and try a second shot at the college student experience if you missed out on it. I started my master at 24 and had a much better time than my bachelor's cause of the regrets and lessons I learned rotting during it. But that is the limit (mayyybe 26, the average college student's age in some places) and it's kind of dumb to start a degree just because you wanna NTmax, it should be something actually useful.

I agree. However if you take care of yourself (Cardio, sleep, diet) , then you can larp as younger anyway. The only problem is that you're mentally more mature so it can be more exhausting.

 

[johnny4612]

Thank you all for the advice, and I also considered moving abroad, because there would be the opportunity to be seen from scratch, as a new person, which is not possible in your hometown.

Being seen as a new person would not only make me more attractive on the job, sexual and social market, but also lighter, since I am the one who decides which relationships to establish and which not.

There are also many disadvantages to this: I couldn't build my own independent house, I wouldn't live with my family or the 2 close friends I have. I wouldn't see the same people again. I say this because I have a cousin who did just that.
I could feel alone in a sea of people.

 

[johnny4612]

So I wonder, which are the best social circles for people of my age, or by age range from 20 to 30 and from 30 to 35?

And yes, I'd like to met high class people. @novanova123

I wanted to study more on this.

 

[Koroshiya]

As for subtle everyday habits: reduce your consumption of underground non-normie online content like this place, 4chan, fringe politics, conspiracies etc. (essential) and consume more normie content. Watch mainstream podcasts popular with zoomers like Nelk, Impaulsive, maybe Fresh and Fit minus their political stuff, JRE etc., Sneako's non-political content, standup comedy (preferably modern), in-field PUA videos like the kind of RSDTyler makes (I don't believe in PUA without looksmaxing anymore and I find him cringe but it demonstrates the kind of social energy you want to have), popular TV shows and movies, Craig Ferguson, that kind of thing. Also, I don't like Andrew Tate anymore but he has good videos on or demonstrating social dynamics, even Destiny who hates him admits he's a master socializer.
Yeah a lot of this stuff is objectively bad but you want to consume stuff you can absorb positive normie social energy from, it's not about quality.

god people don’t know how good this information is, changing what you consume will literally change your life.

for high schoolers just become a “we go jim” type mf, watch sam sulek and shit

 

[johnny4612]

How would you guys gather data about the social circles around your city?
For example, i would pick one referring to: age, sex, theme, timeline duration, routine repetition, etc..

Once i would know which are all the social circles in my city, I can restrict and filter the ones I'd love to be in!

Which are the ways you could do this?

 

[BBCcel]

Hi there!
After you take the red pill and improve your appearance, you immediately start to notice how people, especially women, look at you differently. It's a sensation that life is easier or more gentle, even though you still have to work hard to maintain your appeal.
Requirement #1: Appearance (Satisfied)

Now, what if you started late, after 25, and don't have a social circle?
How can you grow a social circle of diverse people to find new friends and a partner to improve your life?
It is said that "the only way to find something is not to look for it. That thing must seek you and find you" and there is some truth to that.
Requirement #2: Social Maxing (How to satisfy?)



ps: which are the TRUE things. habits, small daily measure, principles, we can take and do to grind, in order to reach the social maxing goal?

Talk to random people and make them your freinds.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

god people don’t know how good this information is, changing what you consume will literally change your life.

for high schoolers just become a “we go jim” type mf, watch sam sulek and shit

One of the main causes of non-NT is not being able to talk about normie content

 

[Deleted member 27746]

It is said that "the only way to find something is not to look for it. That thing must seek you and find you" and there is some truth to that.

so if i spend all day in my room a virgin stacey tradwife will come to me

 

[johnny4612]

non-NT

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