How do you speak to women?

Went2Jupiter said:
As an ND male I suck at speaking to strangers in general of there is a chance that we speak again (im pretty okay at speaking to strangers in public since i know if I suck at it it’s okay). I got a crush on this Girl a year above me. Shes kinda Ashbie adjacent (oneitis for a fictional character, it’s over i know) and her voice is SO cute! She is in the same enviromental/social equality group as me (sounds super performative i know, but i do volunteer for charitable organizations) and i have no idea how to start talking to her. I stimmed so hard at our last meeting too, way more than i do in class. Im so nervous around her, i kept looking at her and she might have seen it too, im not sure though. I kinda prowled through every student in our highschool database until i found her name and class, but her IG is private so i can't even study about her. Does anyone have any idea how i can start speaking with her and maybe even tips to make talking succesful, im desperate.
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ask her for her name and jst compliment something u like about her
 
then after that when u see her u can tlk about anything maybe ask where she is going and find out more about her normally Id ask for the # on the second time of us interacting to not waste time, dont overthink it if she doesnt like u, u can jst find a nxt girl
 
1st prob about 3x u ask for a girls number ur gonna be nervous asf after that it gets easier almost like asking for the time
 
Went2Jupiter said:
As an ND male I suck at speaking to strangers in general of there is a chance that we speak again (im pretty okay at speaking to strangers in public since i know if I suck at it it’s okay). I got a crush on this Girl a year above me. Shes kinda Ashbie adjacent (oneitis for a fictional character, it’s over i know) and her voice is SO cute! She is in the same enviromental/social equality group as me (sounds super performative i know, but i do volunteer for charitable organizations) and i have no idea how to start talking to her. I stimmed so hard at our last meeting too, way more than i do in class. Im so nervous around her, i kept looking at her and she might have seen it too, im not sure though. I kinda prowled through every student in our highschool database until i found her name and class, but her IG is private so i can't even study about her. Does anyone have any idea how i can start speaking with her and maybe even tips to make talking succesful, im desperate.
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Leave them 4 me mate
 
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but if u do it once u can do it again and it gets easier each time
 
JustCallMeKash said:
then after that when u see her u can tlk about anything maybe ask where she is going and find out more about her normally Id ask for the # on the second time of us interacting to not waste time, dont overthink it if she doesnt like u, u can jst find a nxt girl
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Can’t find a next Girl this the only Girl I Ever felt anything for
 
Went2Jupiter said:
As an ND male I suck at speaking to strangers in general of there is a chance that we speak again (im pretty okay at speaking to strangers in public since i know if I suck at it it’s okay). I got a crush on this Girl a year above me. Shes kinda Ashbie adjacent (oneitis for a fictional character, it’s over i know) and her voice is SO cute! She is in the same enviromental/social equality group as me (sounds super performative i know, but i do volunteer for charitable organizations) and i have no idea how to start talking to her. I stimmed so hard at our last meeting too, way more than i do in class. Im so nervous around her, i kept looking at her and she might have seen it too, im not sure though. I kinda prowled through every student in our highschool database until i found her name and class, but her IG is private so i can't even study about her. Does anyone have any idea how i can start speaking with her and maybe even tips to make talking succesful, im desperate.
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Just accept that you suck at talking and just talk
 
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Went2Jupiter said:
Can’t find a next Girl this the only Girl I Ever felt anything for
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then ive got bad news for you buddy dont ask her out become friends instead if a girl likes u ull know shell make it obvious even if u guys dont tlk she'll try her hardest to interact with u
 
I speak to queens with mild tone and gentle deference, always respectful, always mindful of their subtle mood changes, never an insensitive oaf
 
JustCallMeKash said:
if she likes u theres nothing u can say to make her not like u, and if she doesnt theres nothing u can say to make her like u
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lowkey a gift and a curse game doesnt even exist jst be urself and say what u want
 
jigglemaxx said:
You’ll get used to it and be more comfortable
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only thing I struggle with is rizzing girls in large crowds like when theres alot of ppl around not cuz im scared Its prolly jst all in my head and I care too much about what people think about me
 
JustCallMeKash said:
only thing I struggle with is rizzing girls in large crowds like when theres alot of ppl around not cuz im scared Its prolly jst all in my head and I care too much about what people think about me
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I find it easier to speak to people if i dont know them, strangers in public is easy but at School im super High inhib
 
it honestly jst depends on what u look like and how tall u are if ur atleast mtn and 6ft u have a decent chance
 
JustCallMeKash said:
only thing I struggle with is rizzing girls in large crowds like when theres alot of ppl around not cuz im scared Its prolly jst all in my head and I care too much about what people think about me
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Just think how you care about other people in that same situation, most people forget in minutes so just don’t care about how people think
 
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JustCallMeKash said:
it honestly jst depends on what u look like and how tall u are if ur atleast mtn and 6ft u have a decent chance
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Im 5’11 omw to 6’0 got a solid lower third except some mild chin rounding, neutral canthal almond eyes (greyish blue) im White and dirty blonde/light brunette. I’d say im ugly but the average person is uglier so it might just be self hating
 
Went2Jupiter said:
I find it easier to speak to people if i dont know them, strangers in public is easy but at School im super High inhib
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jst think of school as ur playground its a social place so abuse it tlk to as many ppl as u can and jst use it as a place to practice getting good social skills
 
jigglemaxx said:
Just think how you care about other people in that same situation, most people forget in minutes so just don’t care about how people think
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For real. Thats Why strangers is easy to talk to
 
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Went2Jupiter said:
Im 5’11 omw to 6’0 got a solid lower third except some mild chin rounding, neutral canthal almond eyes (greyish blue) im White and dirty blonde/light brunette. I’d say im ugly but the average person is uglier so it might just be self hating
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whats ur rating
 
Went2Jupiter said:
But dude shes so cute and im already a nervous wreck always. Shes also graduating this year and im a year below so i HAVE to make something happen before summer comes around. Im currently just working on getting crazy shredded and growing my hair out while clearing my skin up but she does'nt seem to be a girl impressed purely by looks (HUGE plus) and i have no idea how to speak to her, im nervous just thinking about her
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are u known as a no lifer in the school, if not just try and be yourself, if u fraud she will tell
 
JustCallMeKash said:
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whats ur rating
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Havent Got one I find them to be cope. Prolly lmtn but I got a lot of easily fixable failos I’ll get control of soon. My real failos are probably my chin rounding and my UEE
 
jio gon said:
are u known as a no lifer in the school, if not just try and be yourself, if u fraud she will tell
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I am but maybe not to the upperclassmen might just be cope tho
 
Went2Jupiter said:
Im 5’11 omw to 6’0 got a solid lower third except some mild chin rounding, neutral canthal almond eyes (greyish blue) im White and dirty blonde/light brunette. I’d say im ugly but the average person is uglier so it might just be self hating
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honestly best advice I can give u step by step

1. stop beating ur shit if u dont beat ur shit after like 7-14 days it depends ur gonna get so fucking horny ur body is jst gonna tlk to her on its own cuz u cant take ts anymore

2. ask for her name compliment something about her maybe drop sum more follow up questions if u feel confident enough ask for the number right then and there

3. if not jst keep tlking to her everyday and eventually shes gonna get comfy with u and ur gonna get comfy with her and asking for the number is gonna be really easy

4. during this stage dont get delusion and start fantasizing make rejection a possibility so if u do get rejected ur not really phased and u jst move on
 
Went2Jupiter said:
I am but maybe not to the upperclassmen might just be cope tho
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well u just need to show some personality, if youre really mtn then your looks arent really a problem rn, if she knows you as a dude with no life that no one wants to talk to, u have no chance
 
Went2Jupiter said:
Havent Got one I find them to be cope. Prolly lmtn but I got a lot of easily fixable failos I’ll get control of soon. My real failos are probably my chin rounding and my UEE
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low mtn and nearly 6ft, eat a 3 to 1 potassium to sodium ratio diet, wash ur face make sure u smell good, dont beat ur shit and go tlk to her u can do it in within prolly 3 days or less depending omn how often u see her stop overthinking it n jst get it over with
 
jio gon said:
well u just need to show some personality, if youre really mtn then your looks arent really a problem rn, if she knows you as a dude with no life that no one wants to talk to, u have no chance
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looks are LAW if shes attracted to u then none of that shit matters shell actually like it, if u gotta be doing all this extra shit for her to even consider u then its not real attraction and once chad shows any amount of interest in her ur ass is getting cheated on
 
JustCallMeKash said:
honestly best advice I can give u step by step

1. stop beating ur shit if u dont beat ur shit after like 7-14 days it depends ur gonna get so fucking horny ur body is jst gonna tlk to her on its own cuz u cant take ts anymore

2. ask for her name compliment something about her maybe drop sum more follow up questions if u feel confident enough ask for the number right then and there

3. if not jst keep tlking to her everyday and eventually shes gonna get comfy with u and ur gonna get comfy with her and asking for the number is gonna be really easy

4. during this stage dont get delusion and start fantasizing make rejection a possibility so if u do get rejected ur not really phased and u jst move on
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I dont beat my Dick its cuck shit, I’ll try and talk to her but I can’t every day we different classes and grades best I Can do to ensure it is stalk her schedule
 
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jio gon said:
well u just need to show some personality, if youre really mtn then your looks arent really a problem rn, if she knows you as a dude with no life that no one wants to talk to, u have no chance
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But like underneath my reputation im a cool dude tho, my rep aint all bad im our schools charity ambassador so that might be my saving grace
 
JustCallMeKash said:
low mtn and nearly 6ft, eat a 3 to 1 potassium to sodium ratio diet, wash ur face make sure u smell good, dont beat ur shit and go tlk to her u can do it in within prolly 3 days or less depending omn how often u see her stop overthinking it n jst get it over with
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Ight bhai
 
Went2Jupiter said:
I dont beat my Dick its cuck shit, I’ll try and talk to her but I can’t every day we different classes and grades best I Can do to ensure it is stalk her schedule
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alr cool jst tlk to her everytime u see her, if she likes u shell take it as a sign n do the same and will show interest in u and make it obvi if not then ngl bro :forcedsmile:
 
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JustCallMeKash said:
alr cool jst tlk to her everytime u see her, if she likes u shell take it as a sign n do the same and will show interest in u and make it obvi if not the ngl bro :forcedsmile:
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Lwk I should just ascend, shoot a shot and if it don’t work I’ll just be back to being forever alone
 
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