How do you spot "husband hunters"?

[Xangsane]

Just asking out of curiosity. Do you also disqualify "husband hunters" for an LTR or not?

Husband hunter: A woman who is only looking for an LTR, with the sole intention of securing marriage.

 

[Xangsane]

@autistic_tendencies

 

[Xangsane]

@iloveboobs @Deusmaximus

 

[abuserr007]

Wtf is even a husband hunter , bull?

 

[ChadL1te]

PSL oscar leaking course

 

[Xangsane]

PSL oscar leaking course

Wtf is even a husband hunter , bull?

A woman who is only looking for an LTR with the intention of marriage.

 

[Xangsane]

@Deusmaximus it's a multiple choice poll


@Whatever @Always Stay You

 

[Xangsane]

@noonespecial thoughts?

 

[Chinacurry]

I now think it's >90% of women sadly. Unless they are genuinely attracted to u

 

[Xangsane]

I now think it's >90% of women sadly. Unless they are genuinely attracted to u

What makes you think over 90% of women are husband hunters?

 

[Xangsane]

@Charisma

 

[Xangsane]

0

 

[MoggerGaston]

any woman over age 25 is used goods not suitable for LTR

 

[Xangsane]

any woman over age 25 is used goods not suitable for LTR

why not?

 

[SoundnVision]

Loose fanny

 

[MoggerGaston]

why not?

used up
too old

 

[Xangsane]

Loose fanny

be serious

 

[SoundnVision]

be serious

I was fella

 

[Charisma]

What did you see in your wife before making a big step @Xangsane ?

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Over 25, interview style dates, wants to meet asap

 

[Mr.Proper]

Attributes which I think increase the chance of that:
Her being 25+yo.
Her being from countryside and/or poor family, having significantly lower income than you, being on low tier jobs or not working at all.
Her having sisters and best friends married.
Her being a single mom (tho such will be filtered out by you in the beginning I think).
Her putting a lot of emphasis on percieved status.
Hed thinking you won't cheat because of your appearance and character.
Her talking about getting kids a lot, put of suddenly, putting a lot of emphasis on them.

 

[Xangsane]

Attributes which I think increase the chance of that:
Her being 25+yo.
Her being from countryside and/or poor family, having significantly lower income than you, being on low tier jobs or not working at all.
Her having sisters and best friends married.
Her being a single mom (tho such will be filtered out by you in the beginning I think).
Her putting a lot of emphasis on percieved status.
Hed thinking you won't cheat because of your appearance and character.
Her talking about getting kids a lot, put of suddenly, putting a lot of emphasis on them.

why so?

 

[Klasik616]

Women become gold diggers as they age

 

[Xangsane]

Women become gold diggers as they age

y

 

[Whatever]

@Deusmaximus it's a multiple choice poll


@Whatever @Always Stay You

My sister is engaged currently. She met him when she was 27. My sister is (or was, she’s burning out already) very career oriented and independently minded and about the 180 degree opposite of a gold digger. But her mindset switched and she went on according to our mom over 100 interview style first dates.

The typical yuppie was nowhere near enough for her. She wanted an age gap, the guy is 11 years older than her. She wanted someone more exciting than just the typical office working millennial, that bores her, this guy was a commercial pilot and now a university professor, owns businesses and rental properties, makes like $400k per year. And perhaps most importantly he uses his money for her lifestyle wishes, this is what real buxxing is. I’m not gonna call it betabuxxing because they’re about looksmatched.

Now that I see this relationship, people here need to stop throwing around the term betabuxxing to describe any and every relationship that challenges their belief in hypergamy. Buxxing is something specific and you need way more money to really do it than some people here might think.

 

[Xangsane]

My sister is engaged currently. She met him when she was 27. My sister is (or was, she’s burning out already) very career oriented and independently minded and about the 180 degree opposite of a gold digger. But her mindset switched and she went on according to our mom over 100 interview style first dates.

The typical yuppie was nowhere near enough for her. She wanted an age gap, the guy is 11 years older than her. She wanted someone more exciting than just the typical office working millennial, that bores her, this guy was a commercial pilot and now a university professor, owns businesses and rental properties, makes like $400k per year. And perhaps most importantly he uses his money for her lifestyle wishes, this is what real buxxing is. I’m not gonna call it betabuxxing because they’re about looksmatched.

Now that I see this relationship, people here need to stop throwing around the term betabuxxing to describe any and every relationship that challenges their belief in hypergamy. Buxxing is something specific and you need way more money to really do it than some people here might think.

Why didn’t she want even a slightly younger man?
Was she willing to trade looks for status and money?