How do you stop comparing your mediocre life to others?

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I can chill whenever I surround myself with similar people or guys who have it even worse than me, but that's just not enough. Their misery doesn't make my own any better.

How do you guys cope when u look at people who have the looks, money, location, status, etc. People who never had to care about anything we do, they always had it all.

Now I gotta focus on my studies, but I just feel so lame and pathetic putting effort to be a nobody. Seeing people on social media living the life just makes me feel bad
 
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I can chill whenever I surround myself with similar people or guys who have it even worse than me, but that's just not enough. Their misery doesn't make my own any better.

How do you guys cope when u look at people who have the looks, money, location, status, etc. People who never had to care about anything we do, they always had it all.

Now I gotta focus on my studies, but I just feel so lame and pathetic putting effort to be a nobody. Seeing people on social media living the life just makes me feel bad
u dont stop but u try to get out of your medicore life by all means otherwise u r low t
 
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I can chill whenever I surround myself with similar people or guys who have it even worse than me, but that's just not enough. Their misery doesn't make my own any better.

How do you guys cope when u look at people who have the looks, money, location, status, etc. People who never had to care about anything we do, they always had it all.

Now I gotta focus on my studies, but I just feel so lame and pathetic putting effort to be a nobody. Seeing people on social media living the life just makes me feel bad
feel the exact same way. I find it hard wanting to study whilst being a 5 foot 4 thrbomanlet no matter how much I study I’m still a manlet
 
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physical presence
get huge and strong as fuck
 
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I am very secure in myself and confident in my inherent superiority.
 
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feel the exact same way. I find it hard wanting to study whilst being a 5 foot 4 thrbomanlet no matter how much I study I’m still a manlet
exactly
 
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I can chill whenever I surround myself with similar people or guys who have it even worse than me, but that's just not enough. Their misery doesn't make my own any better.

How do you guys cope when u look at people who have the looks, money, location, status, etc. People who never had to care about anything we do, they always had it all.

Now I gotta focus on my studies, but I just feel so lame and pathetic putting effort to be a nobody. Seeing people on social media living the life just makes me feel bad
Not getting distracted and compare myself to others if i do I limit myself. Better if I just focus on myself because I know i will get results
 
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By not being mediocre anymore
 
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By not being mediocre anymore
That's not something that fixes itself easily lol, it's about genetics and the life you've had

I've never been treated with the respect other guys get, and that's because of my genetic makeup
 
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