how does a 22 year old friendless kv ascend?

[Deleted member 1476]

no friends to meet girls through, girls at work show no interest, i don’t have instagram, tinder is a nonstarter, would take immense effort to get fat/ugly girls who would still likely reject me and wouldn’t be able to get it up with them anyway

is escorts really my only option? how would i live knowing i had my first kiss with an escort?

 

[sorrowfulsad]

Tinder and escort are your only options tbh
Have you ever approached a girl in real life? If not then dont even bother to start

 

[sorrowfulsad]

my first kiss with an escort

who actually kisses escorts. Yikes

 

[Deleted member 13094]

no friends to meet girls through, girls at work show no interest, i don’t have instagram, tinder is a nonstarter, would take immense effort to get fat/ugly girls who would still likely reject me and wouldn’t be able to get it up with them anyway

is escorts really my only option? how would i live knowing i had my first kiss with an escort?

if it's this over for you, your only option is discord dating servers sorry bud but it's over

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Tinder and escort are your only options tbh
Have you ever approached a girl in real life? If not then dont even bother to start

no, i have tried talking to girls sometimes but they are not receptive

 

[Deleted member 1476]

if it's this over for you, your only option is discord server servers sorry bud but it's over

yes i think i need to finally get it into my head that it’s over, i don’t know where my hope comes from

 

[Deleted member 6531]

no friends to meet girls through, girls at work show no interest, i don’t have instagram, tinder is a nonstarter, would take immense effort to get fat/ugly girls who would still likely reject me and wouldn’t be able to get it up with them anyway

is escorts really my only option? how would i live knowing i had my first kiss with an escort?

Befriend the girls at work to get access to more women.

Preselection theory.

It all depends on how bad your situation(looks, height, race) is that will determine how well you do with the new women you meet through ur friends.

Be upfront and tell your women colleagues that you don't want a relationship and you just want to be friends.

There's also other ways like tinder and cold approach and shit like that, but honestly I would start with expanding your social circle.

Once you get more experience then maybe cold approach and tinder

 

[Deleted member 13094]

yes i think i need to finally get it into my head that it’s over, i don’t know where my hope comes from

there is still some hope left, dye your hair black and get blue colored contacts and it just might not be over

 

[Deleted member 13094]

Befriend the girls at work to get access to more women.

Preselection theory.

It all depends on how bad your situation(looks, height, race) is that will determine how well you do with the new women you meet through ur friends.

Be upfront and tell your women colleagues that you don't want a relationship and you just want to be friends.

There's also other ways like tinder and cold approach and shit like that, but honestly I would start with expanding your social circle.

Once you get more experience then maybe cold approach and tinder

chad response.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Looksmax.


Then use tinder + bar/clubbing/festival with friends. Also join some social/hobby club to meet more people. Approach girls at ur gym/grocery store/local coffeebar during daylight.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Befriend the girls at work to get access to more women.

Preselection theory.

It all depends on how bad your situation(looks, height, race) is that will determine how well you do with the new women you meet through ur friends.

Be upfront and tell your women colleagues that you don't want a relationship and you just want to be friends.

There's also other ways like tinder and cold approach and shit like that, but honestly I would start with expanding your social circle.

Once you get more experience then maybe cold approach and tinder

i will try but conversation is so hard with them, one word answers and shit. there is one girl that at least tries to respond though, weirdly she’s the best looking girl there. maybe i will talk to her more

 

[Deleted member 6531]

chad response.

Not Chad, I'm just a 5'6 curry/5'7 who works hard for girls.

I try and spread positivity in this forum but also be realistic because I believe people on this forum are to negative and also don't go outside and actually interact with women

 

[Deleted member 13094]

@Aquiillaxo also can you rate me tbh

 

[Deleted member 6531]

@Aquiillaxo also can you rate me tbh

Sure send me pics of send me link

 

[Deleted member 13094]

Not Chad, I'm just a 5'6 curry/5'7 who works hard for girls.

I try and spread positivity in this forum but also be realistic because I believe people on this forum are to negative and also don't go outside and actually interact with women

deep down your a chad

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Looksmax.


Then use tinder + bar/clubbing/festival with friends. Also join some social/hobby club to meet more people. Approach girls at ur gym/grocery store/local coffeebar during daylight.

isn’t cold approaching just harassment unless you’re gl

 

[Deleted member 6531]

i will try but conversation is so hard with them, one word answers and shit. there is one girl that at least tries to respond though, weirdly she’s the best looking girl there. maybe i will talk to her more

I know what you mean, its because they probably aren't attracted to you/ have their guard up because they might have boyfriend's.

Don't ever date any work colleagues, somehow you'll have to communicate to them you just want to be friends, maybe like talk about some work related shit and then slowly try and build a connection.

Once it's strong enough, she will introduce you to her friends

Also you don't have to do this strategy with only women, you can use it with other guys who have a good social circle WITH WOMEN., befriend guys you'll get introduced to their social circle and then you'll meet women from there

 

[Deleted member 275]

isn’t cold approaching just harassment unless you’re gl

Nah it depends how you pull it off.

If you're in the grocery store, you can talk about a recipe you are making and buying stuff for. Start random small talk that way. If she is receptive, ask for her number and suggest to make some meals and exchange recipes some time.

If you are in the gym, you can make random smalltalk with women there. Whether it's about gym equipment, making fun of someone or something, exercise, etc. Then if she's receptive, ask for her number, that you can workout together sometime, etc.

At a coffeebar, can make a comment about a girl's outfit, or ask her: 'did you try this special cappucino they have here', ' what are you reading' idk just random smalltalk, judging receptiveness, and going from there.

It's not harassment if you don't keep on pushing when you notice she's not into it. If you are chilled about it 'have a nice day' and move on, nobody would consider that harassment unless they are severely mentally ill. Not your problem.

Chance that she's receptive goes up the better-looking you are ofcourse.

 

[Deleted member 6531]

isn’t cold approaching just harassment unless you’re gl

No.

Just don't be a creep and when she says no just leave,

 

[Jason Voorhees]

no friends to meet girls through, girls at work show no interest, i don’t have instagram, tinder is a nonstarter, would take immense effort to get fat/ugly girls who would still likely reject me and wouldn’t be able to get it up with them anyway

is escorts really my only option? how would i live knowing i had my first kiss with an escort?

Unless ur repulsive to look at. U shouldn't have a lot of problem making friends imo. I know truecels who have good social circles as for the other part yes if you truly believe its over for you. It's best to cut ur loses and cope with escorts or just forget everything from this forum and go find some ugly chick, marry her and live in illusion for the rest of your life, you will thank yourself when you get old.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Unless ur repulsive to look at. U shouldn't have a lot of problem Making freinds imo. I know truecels who have good social circles as for the other part yes if you truly believe its over for you. It's best to cut ur loses and cope with escorts or just forget everything from this forum and go find some ugly chick, marry her and live in illusion for the rest of your life, you will thank yourself when you get old.

Problem with truecel social circles is that they are often social circles filled with other ugly truecel virgins that have 0 contact with women.

I used to have quite big social circles, but they were filled with nerds. So every social gathering was always 99% male, pointless to get women.

But it's still oke. Most likely, one or two nerdy virgins also want to do better with women. You can probably convince them to go to a festival or bar with you and try hit on chicks tbh.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

yes i think i need to finally get it into my head that it’s over, i don’t know where my hope comes from

From instincts to fuck.

 

[Deleted member 6531]

Problem with truecel social circles is that they are often social circles filled with other ugly truecel virgins that have 0 contact with women.

I used to have quite big social circles, but they were filled with nerds. So every social gathering was always 99% male, pointless to get women.

But it's still oke. Most likely, one or two nerdy virgins also want to do better with women. You can probably convince them to go to a festival or bar with you and try hit on chicks tbh.

The key to being ugly male that's often overlooked is to unironiclally be confident and outgoing.

If you're outgoing and you are neurotypical and a good guy to be around, you'll get good mates who you can go clubbing/ social activities with

Before people tell me I'm bluepilled, ofc going out with your mates if your ugly won't make you some Chad, but think about it like this, are your chances of getting laid better rotting on .org / big gatherings of nerdy guys with virtually no women around or are you chances of getting laid higher with a good group of guys who constantly go outside in social environments and meet women.

0x 2 =0
1x2=2, your chances of getting laid will be better no matter what if you have a good social circle and you go outside and are confident and outgoing.

But people on this forum will have to change their autistic, over analysing, brainwashed ways to even become Neurotypical and go outside

 

[Deleted member 4332]

no friends to meet girls through, girls at work show no interest, i don’t have instagram, tinder is a nonstarter, would take immense effort to get fat/ugly girls who would still likely reject me and wouldn’t be able to get it up with them anyway

is escorts really my only option? how would i live knowing i had my first kiss with an escort?

This is brutal as fuck man.

As a 19yo khhv with autism and no social circle, I just cope with volceldom.

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Get a girlfriend

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Get a girlfriend

i can’t, that’s why i’m here

 

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[Deleted member 7044]

same!

 

[Deleted member 1476]

same!

 

[Deleted member 6273]

softmax+RTT then run numbers game on several dating apps, going to clubs alone is autistic ngl wouldn't recommend that.

 

[thecel]

Mogs me. I’m handholdless. I never had a romantic hug or any romantic/sexual experiences.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Mogs me. I’m handholdless. I never had a romantic hug or anything remotely romantic/sexual.

me neither, i forgot the handholding

 

[Deleted member 275]

The key to being ugly male that's often overlooked is to unironiclally be confident and outgoing.

If you're outgoing and you are neurotypical and a good guy to be around, you'll get good mates who you can go clubbing/ social activities with

Before people tell me I'm bluepilled, ofc going out with your mates if your ugly won't make you some Chad, but think about it like this, are your chances of getting laid better rotting on .org / big gatherings of nerdy guys with virtually no women around or are you chances of getting laid higher with a good group of guys who constantly go outside in social environments and meet women.

0x 2 =0
1x2=2, your chances of getting laid will be better no matter what if you have a good social circle and you go outside and are confident and outgoing.

But people on this forum will have to change their autistic, over analysing, brainwashed ways to even become Neurotypical and go outside

Problem is that you still have to enjoy going out. Not many people do when you've had mostly negative experiences before. I've forced myself to go clubbing and go to bars a lot of times, despite not enjoying it and not slaying. Wouldn't say it was worth it tbh.

Better to find something you like: your fav band playing, a music festival with your genre of music, or other social activities, other than clubbing/going to bars tbh. You can meet new people, women, there too. Clubs/bars are kinda overrated. Youre right.

 

[Deleted member 275]

i can’t, that’s why i’m here

His advice is good though. If you are a virgin, it can be good to go for a girlfriend to get your first experiences with. Instead of going for ONS/hookup, drunk club slut, etc.

getting a gf requires a slightly diff approach. Getting to know her better over a longer period of time, going on a few dates, slowly getting comfortable.

 

[lonemaxxer13]

How tall are you? Autistic? Or any other disorders?

 

[Deleted member 1476]

How tall are you? Autistic? Or any other disorders?

not autistic but introverted and about average or slightly above height

 

[whiteissuperior]

rope and ascend to heaven

 

[lonemaxxer13]

not autistic but introverted and about average or slightly above height

Any what do you consider slightly above? without seeing your looks can’t help you w that. But really need to just keep trying w tinder and find a gf. Def don’t want escort to be your first time if you can avoid it.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

rope and ascend to heaven

i will not do that while my mum is alive

 

[Deleted member 7725]

I'm in the same boat as you. 6'7" 22 y/o KHHV with 0 friends for the past 8 years. I think it's over tbh unless you get approached. I've been approached 3 times throughout high school and blew it every time. Haven't been approached in 3 years so the future looks bleak. I can't even hold conversations through voice chat or with my barber due to social anxiety. It's over.

 

[Slayer]

I'm in the same boat as you. 6'7" 22 y/o KHHV with 0 friends for the past 8 years. I think it's over tbh unless you get approached. I've been approached 3 times throughout high school and blew it every time. Haven't been approached in 3 years so the future looks bleak. I can't even hold conversations through voice chat or with my barber due to social anxiety. It's over.

Same for me on all counts except I'm KV and only 6'0.

So many missed opportunities in high school it makes me want to jump off a bridge the longer I dwell on it. It's so frustrating how we could have these chances not even that long ago but absolutely nothing since.

no friends to meet girls through, girls at work show no interest, i don’t have instagram, tinder is a nonstarter, would take immense effort to get fat/ugly girls who would still likely reject me and wouldn’t be able to get it up with them anyway

is escorts really my only option? how would i live knowing i had my first kiss with an escort?

I don't know bro. All I can think of at this point is to somehow put yourself in public around as many girls as possible (maybe find a new job) and hope at least one gives you a hint of an ioi or some excuse to speak to her, but last time this happened to me personally was like a year ago so it's basically lottery odds that it's a real ioi or a high quality girl.

 

[Mouthbreath]

The key to being ugly male that's often overlooked is to unironiclally be confident and outgoing.

If you're outgoing and you are neurotypical and a good guy to be around, you'll get good mates who you can go clubbing/ social activities with

Before people tell me I'm bluepilled, ofc going out with your mates if your ugly won't make you some Chad, but think about it like this, are your chances of getting laid better rotting on .org / big gatherings of nerdy guys with virtually no women around or are you chances of getting laid higher with a good group of guys who constantly go outside in social environments and meet women.

0x 2 =0
1x2=2, your chances of getting laid will be better no matter what if you have a good social circle and you go outside and are confident and outgoing.

But people on this forum will have to change their autistic, over analysing, brainwashed ways to even become Neurotypical and go outside

its unironically easier to become good looking than it is to become NT if you have the autism