How does one end up an oneitiscel?

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How do you not just move on right after finding out that your crush has a boyfriend and there's 0 hope of getting with her? How do you still talk to a girl you like after finding out you have no chance of LTRing her? How does one get to such point tbh? I had lots of crushes and whenever i found out that they had a boyfriend, i just cut off all contact. Any oneitiscel who can tell his story?

P.S : why not focus on moving on after getting rejected/ghosted?
 
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neither of my 4 oneitises have or had bf. even if they all got bfs id move on and find another 4 to torture my soul with
 
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neither of my 4 oneitises have or had bf. even if they all got bfs id move on and find another 4 to torture my soul with
Not really an oneitis if you have 4 of them. Oneitis = this one girl is the only one who's ever gonna be interested in me.
 
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Because you have no options, you saw her as special, you’re stuck in scarcity.

my oneitis was the only girl to ever really like me, things ended on kinda bad terms because I ignored her feeling I was unworthy although she kept chasing, never made it up or finished things with her.

And she was and is very special
 
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How do you still talk to a girl you like after finding out you have no chance of LTRing her?
ikr? It's pretty fucking pathetic. Dudes that know they have no shot just stay in the friendzone for months on end. Man up and leave bitch.
 
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ikr? It's pretty fucking pathetic. Dudes that know they have no shot just stay in the friendzone for months on end. Man up and leave bitch.
 
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my oneitis was the only girl to ever really like me, things ended on kinda bad terms because I ignored her feeling I was unworthy although she kept chasing, never made it up or finished things with her.

And she was and is very special
She gets creampied by chad and spat in the face, followed by a slap.

and she loves it
 
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because shes the one
 
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Oneitis is cope tbh
 
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i don't have oneitis, you end up having one when you'r low IQ.
 
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If your oneitis isn’t a virgin then you’re a cuck
 
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I had my first oneitis starting early last year. I'm in my late 20s. I always knew I was genetic garbage so I would just use escorts knowing that getting a girlfriend would be impossible for me and that a normal life wasn't possible for me.

I then met a girl and she would be very friendly to me, she would text me first and we would talk for hours, she would ask me to help her go shopping with her, she would also mimic my body language, look at me first when someone in a group made a joke, call me crying about problems in her life, she would also try to fish for information to see if I had a girlfriend, etc. I fell deeply in love with her.

All of my friends told me that she clearly liked me and that I should ask her out. At this point I was feeling good about myself and thought maybe I can have a normal life and that I wasn't absolute genetic garbage, and that she did genuinely like me. The amount of dopamine I felt the day before I was going to ask her out was through the roof.

She then brutally rejected me when I asked her on a date. It will be a day that will haunt me for the rest of my life. It was a brutal reminder that I was genetic garbage and that no women would ever love me. I almost killed myself but I just didn't have the energy I just fell down on the street crying later that day. This is also one of the main reasons I'm afraid of taking anti depressants because I'm afraid it will give me the energy I need to actually kill myself.

After this I started posting on PSL forums again after I've been off for a few years. The rejection motivated me to finally book consultations and surgeries, however this coronavirus situation is delaying all my plans.

I'm still in love with the girl though and I doubt I would ever stop being in love with her.
 
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Low testosterone.
 
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I had my first oneitis starting early last year. I'm in my late 20s. I always knew I was genetic garbage so I would just use escorts knowing that getting a girlfriend would be impossible for me and that a normal life wasn't possible for me.

I then met a girl and she would be very friendly to me, she would text me first and we would talk for hours, she would ask me to help her go shopping with her, she would also mimic my body language, look at me first when someone in a group made a joke, call me crying about problems in her life, she would also try to fish for information to see if I had a girlfriend, etc. I fell deeply in love with her.

All of my friends told me that she clearly liked me and that I should ask her out. At this point I was feeling good about myself and thought maybe I can have a normal life and that I wasn't absolute genetic garbage, and that she did genuinely like me. The amount of dopamine I felt the day before I was going to ask her out was through the roof.

She then brutally rejected me when I asked her on a date. It will be a day that will haunt me for the rest of my life. It was a brutal reminder that I was genetic garbage and that no women would ever love me. I almost killed myself but I just didn't have the energy I just fell down on the street crying later that day. This is also one of the main reasons I'm afraid of taking anti depressants because I'm afraid it will give me the energy I need to actually kill myself.

After this I started posting on PSL forums again after I've been off for a few years. The rejection motivated me to finally book consultations and surgeries, however this coronavirus situation is delaying all my plans.

I'm still in love with the girl though and I doubt I would ever stop being in love with her.
Okay this is way too brutal. How long has it been?
 
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its the most normal thing to have
 
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I had my first oneitis starting early last year. I'm in my late 20s. I always knew I was genetic garbage so I would just use escorts knowing that getting a girlfriend would be impossible for me and that a normal life wasn't possible for me.

I then met a girl and she would be very friendly to me, she would text me first and we would talk for hours, she would ask me to help her go shopping with her, she would also mimic my body language, look at me first when someone in a group made a joke, call me crying about problems in her life, she would also try to fish for information to see if I had a girlfriend, etc. I fell deeply in love with her.

All of my friends told me that she clearly liked me and that I should ask her out. At this point I was feeling good about myself and thought maybe I can have a normal life and that I wasn't absolute genetic garbage, and that she did genuinely like me. The amount of dopamine I felt the day before I was going to ask her out was through the roof.

She then brutally rejected me when I asked her on a date. It will be a day that will haunt me for the rest of my life. It was a brutal reminder that I was genetic garbage and that no women would ever love me. I almost killed myself but I just didn't have the energy I just fell down on the street crying later that day. This is also one of the main reasons I'm afraid of taking anti depressants because I'm afraid it will give me the energy I need to actually kill myself.

After this I started posting on PSL forums again after I've been off for a few years. The rejection motivated me to finally book consultations and surgeries, however this coronavirus situation is delaying all my plans.

I'm still in love with the girl though and I doubt I would ever stop being in love with her.
she rejected you brutally enough to leave you almost wanting to die but you still love her?
u gotta share the rejection story now, im intersted in hearing more
 
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I feel like I get a new oneitis every week
 
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You have amime pfp jfl
Tlev
 
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Steps to being a oneitiscel

1: Being attracted to a girl

2: Not being GL enough to get her

3: Being bluepilled and not understanding that AWALT so putting her in a pedestal and obsessing over her

4: Coping that one day in the future she will realize that he was the good guy she needed all along (Never gonna happen)
 
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this also.
having an oneitis is too imo.
If she gave you some sort of sexual interest and then lost it because you acted like a clown then that’s the only time I’d understand if one were to have a oneitis. I.e my situation 😞😞☹️☹️
 
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I'm guessing your testicles and hair are non-existent.
I started balding when I was 16. There's not much steroids can do to my hair that nature hasn't done already.
 
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I started balding when I was 16. There's not much steroids can do to my hair that nature hasn't done already.
Brutal. Are you a KHHV? To what extent exactly...excluding escorts.
 
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My skin is shit naturally too jfl


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Damn i was gonna say that you can at least cope by being physically strong and bullying couples at the gym but you're a manlet. Why even gymcel tbh?
 
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How do you not just move on right after finding out that your crush has a boyfriend and there's 0 hope of getting with her? How do you still talk to a girl you like after finding out you have no chance of LTRing her? How does one get to such point tbh? I had lots of crushes and whenever i found out that they had a boyfriend, i just cut off all contact. Any oneitiscel who can tell his story?

P.S : why not focus on moving on after getting rejected/ghosted?

Do you mog him (her bf) to oblivion?

Yes ---> Be a Lowinhib dark triad and steal

No ---> It's OVER JFL, MOVE ON
 
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To answer your title

Low T
 
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Damn i was gonna say that you can at least cope by being physically strong and bullying couples at the gym but you're a manlet. Why even gymcel tbh?
It's something to do. Plus 80% of other men would obliterate me in my default skinny-fat state, so not gymcelling would make going out in public unbearably stressful.
 
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It's something to do. Plus 80% of other men would obliterate me in my default skinny-fat state, so not gymcelling would make going out in public unbearably stressful.
Do you plan on roping? Ever had a few failed suicide attempts? Also do you rot on wizchan or 8chan or 4chan as well because your posting style doesn't seem so PSL-esque.
 
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Do you plan on roping? Ever had a few failed suicide attempts? Also do you rot on wizchan or 8chan or 4chan as well because your posting style doesn't seem so PSL-esque.
I'll probably kill myself by accident of some form of drug abuse like my father. If I do it deliberately, it'll be with a 10mm hollow point bullet through the right temple.

My first suicide attempt was at six years old, through an overdose of (try not to laugh) Zyrtec. I have a few other suicide attempts that I don't remember as clearly.

I don't rot on chan sites generally, though sometimes I'll pop onto 4chan to shitpost on /fit/ or peruse hentai on /d/.
Tretinoin bro
My skeleton is fucked. It's over.
 
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I'll probably kill myself by accident of some form of drug abuse like my father. If I do it deliberately, it'll be with a 10mm hollow point bullet through the right temple.

My first suicide attempt was at six years old, through an overdose of (try not to laugh) Zyrtec. I have a few other suicide attempts that I don't remember as clearly.

I don't rot on chan sites generally, though sometimes I'll pop onto 4chan to shitpost on /fit/ or peruse hentai on /d/.

My skeleton is fucked. It's over.
Honestly, i don't see the point of being anti-suicide so just do whatever you know will give you peace. Did you EVER get an IOI from a whore in HS or college or middle school? Ever had a female show interest or have you ever tried to get a GF?
 
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Okay, to provide a legit answer.
I can see how someone can be a oneitiscel for a little bit, but I don't understand how people don't get over it quickly.
In my case with my last oneitis, which I got over a few weeks ago, lasted like a 3 weeks... I got over it by finally just venting to some close friends of mine, and going on a Alizee Jacotey (my avi) video marathon and telling myself "Alizee mogs her (my then oneitis) to OBLIVION", and like you said cutting off contact works.

So I guess you just have to have ideals and willpower to enact the cutting off, in order to break free from your oneitis. And oneitiscels don't have those ideals and willpower.

>JFL idfk m8 :lul: I'm just theorizing
>Something like that i guess
 
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Personally one gets attached too much that they start imagining they're in a relationship with the tiny bit of attention they get so they don't see other girls that are interested in them and thus repeat the cycle again for years and years. I can vouch for it because I usually catch feelings hard before I finally snap out of it the next day.
 
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Honestly, i don't see the point of being anti-suicide so just do whatever you know will give you peace. Did you EVER get an IOI from a whore in HS or college or middle school? Ever had a female show interest or have you ever tried to get a GF?
I'm not being anti-suicide, I just don't care enough to do it anymore. The worst of my life is over, and I'm more or less content with cruising on vidya, porn, hookers, and drugs.

Never got an IOI from any female at any point ever. I could probably count on one hand the number of halfhearted attempts I've tried at getting a gf because I and everyone else knew it was over for me since I was very young.
 
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oneitis=pretty girl you think you get along with personality/hobby etc wise.
just ,,heartrob'' but with vagina and for guys
 
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Okay this is way too brutal. How long has it been?
Just a few months, she rejected me earlier this year. Then I created this account after being off PSL forums for roughly 3 years, I thought I could stop posting on PSL forums and forget the blackpill, but I can never escape from the brutal reality of the black pill.
 
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