How dose one obtain a friend group?

[louismaxxed]

I’ve never had one, throughout most of high school and all of middle school I was bullied. Either directly or passive aggressively. Now I’m able to act nt enough for people not to think I’m autistic. But i still don’t have friends to hang out with and stuff. My girl always asks about my friends and i always have to lie

 

[stalk]

I created mines ig just go around looking for people with similar hobbies or interests

 

[louismaxxed]

I created mines ig just go around looking for people with similar hobbies or interests

Acting like it’s that easy

 

[HappyChud]

I’ve never had one, throughout most of high school and all of middle school I was bullied. Either directly or passive aggressively. Now I’m able to act nt enough for people not to think I’m autistic. But i still don’t have friends to hang out with and stuff. My girl always asks about my friends and i always have to lie

In my personal experience when high school started I just made friends with a few guys from class and stuck with them

 

[stalk]

Acting like it’s that easy

it was pretty easy for me maybe you just lack social skills and can’t talk normal with people

 

[louismaxxed]

it was pretty easy for me maybe you just lack social skills and can’t talk normal with people

The thing is I’m described as charismatic by people and can for conversations. It’s just hard to elevate the connection to hangout and stuff yk. It’s weird like it’s easier for me to get a relationship with a girl than a good friendship with a guy. I’ve been to more girls houses than guys houses.

 

[russiangirlsmog]

Idk I had a Best friend since 5th grade and we just stayed together, mostly because we have the Same Humor, same interrests, same other friends etc, we also Like Are in a friend group with 3-4 other guys so Yeah Thats nice its important to be Social during teenage years, and lmao You have a gf so This is Most likely in Your Head idrk your Situation But If You Can get a gf then you can also have Friends

 

[soapbubble]

are you in high school?

 

[H72]

I’ve never had one, throughout most of high school and all of middle school I was bullied. Either directly or passive aggressively. Now I’m able to act nt enough for people not to think I’m autistic. But i still don’t have friends to hang out with and stuff. My girl always asks about my friends and i always have to lie

chaturbate

 

[louismaxxed]

Idk I had a Best friend since 5th grade and we just stayed together, mostly because we have the Same Humor, same interrests, same other friends etc, we also Like Are in a friend group with 3-4 other guys so Yeah Thats nice its important to be Social during teenage years, and lmao You have a gf so This is Most likely in Your Head idrk your Situation But If You Can get a gf then you can also have Friends

My situation is weird ik I’ve never had a best friend well I had one a guy who’s 23. But he is away for seal training right now so I’m just missing that male connection. Me and him were real friends. We’d go to the city and eat at restaurants tg and watch movies plus workout. Missing that nigga

 

[louismaxxed]

are you in high school?

Nah starting college next week thankfully my girl goes to the same university

 

[ankyu]

Do you actually want to have friends, or do you not want to not have any friends?

Because if you genuinely want friends, then you should put yourself out there and actually try to make some. But if you are only doing it so you can tell your gf you have friends and don’t have to lie to her, then there’s really no point in forcing friendships that you don’t actually want.

 

[louismaxxed]

Do you actually want to have friends, or do you not want to not have any friends?

Because if you genuinely want friends, then you should put yourself out there and actually try to make some. But if you are only doing it so you can tell your gf you have friends and don’t have to lie to her, then there’s really no point in forcing friendships that you don’t actually want.

I definitely want them lol just added that in because I feel bad abt lying. I’ve been given some opportunities to get involved in Greek life hopefully I can become friends with those guys

 

[AryanTrvecel]

I’ve never had one, throughout most of high school and all of middle school I was bullied. Either directly or passive aggressively. Now I’m able to act nt enough for people not to think I’m autistic. But i still don’t have friends to hang out with and stuff. My girl always asks about my friends and i always have to lie

How tf do you have a girl but no friends

 

[louismaxxed]

How tf do you have a girl but no friends

I DONT know nigga like I have people I text sometimes and I see guys who I know at the gym and we talk. But I don’t hang out with any guys yk

 

[zombi3]

I’ve never had one, throughout most of high school and all of middle school I was bullied. Either directly or passive aggressively. Now I’m able to act nt enough for people not to think I’m autistic. But i still don’t have friends to hang out with and stuff. My girl always asks about my friends and i always have to lie

Im sorry you had to go through allat. I hope you find some good friends through time. Being autistic is really hard ive heard.

 

[louismaxxed]

Im sorry you had to go through allat. I hope you find some good friends through time. Being autistic is really hard ive heard.

Oh it’s awful I’m not even sure if I have it tbh because no one really thinks I am anymore because I tone down my personality. But when I was younger I’d just be myself and everyone from my old life still thinks of me as autistic. Like my girls co worker went to my hs and. My girl asked her abt me and she said “oh isn’t he autistic”. I genuinely felt my heart drop after hearing that news thankfuly I came up with a story to get out of it

 

[zombi3]

Oh it’s awful I’m not even sure if I have it tbh because no one really thinks I am anymore because I tone down my personality. But when I was younger I’d just be myself and everyone from my old life still thinks of me as autistic. Like my girls co worker went to my hs and. My girl asked her abt me and she said “oh isn’t he autistic”. I genuinely felt my heart drop after hearing that news thankfuly I came up with a story to get out of it

At the very least you have a loving girlfriend :3

 

[louismaxxed]

At the very least you have a loving girlfriend :3

Well we aren’t even technically officially dating yet… just exclusive but she trusted me enough to meet the family and see her every day. Plus she only had 1 body before me and 2 kisses and. I had 2 bodies snd 8 kisses. But even with that knowledge she chose me. I just hope I get the courage to ask her to be my gf when the time is right.

 

[zombi3]

I just hope I get the courage to ask her to be my gf when the time is rig

Idk maybe thats not entirely necessary. Usually it all plays out naturally rather then having to manually ask her to be official.

I guess if you two are always together, cuddling or kissing, you are a couple by default, so asking her to be official is just sorta overdoing it, no?

 

[louismaxxed]

Idk maybe thats not entirely necessary. Usually it all plays out naturally rather then having to manually ask her to be official.

I guess if you two are always together, cuddling or kissing, you are a couple by default, so asking her to be official is just sorta overdoing it, no?

To be honest I’m lost my past 3 relationships were so weird like she’s the first girl I met naturally in person. Went from first convo to talking to dates and to everything else. I genuinely met the other 3 on snap hooked up with them and than we were just “dating”