How exactly do you get a whole new friend group at 24? Are you just cooked if your friendless at 24?

[ZoomerAmerican]

I'm 24. I either lost contact or had a falling out with all my friends from HS and College

Didn't have many friends in HS and College to begin with, but I see almost none of them now. In the past 2 months, the only texts in my imessages is with my Mom and Dad. How fucking pathetic

Am I just absolutely cooked?

The good news is I'm going to Grad School in August and its a big party school. But even then... establishing a friend group at 24 in Uni will be a huge uphill battle

 

[Heightpilldealer]

I'm 24. I either lost contact or had a falling out with all my friends from HS and College

Didn't have many friends in HS and College to begin with, but I see almost none of them now. In the past 2 months, the only texts in my imessages is with my Mom and Dad. How fucking pathetic

Am I just absolutely cooked?

The good news is I'm going to Grad School in August and its a big party school. But even then... establishing a friend group at 24 in Uni will be a huge uphill battle

Join the Military everyone there are friends regardless of age

 

[Imaloser7754]

Do you not keep in touch with your childhood friends?

 

[160cmcurry]

yeah, college is basically your last chance to make friends. high school is supposed to build that “foundation” somewhat to prep you, if you didn’t succeed in high school, it’s not like things will change in college. it's even harder actually. there's probably other guys like you in bars, look into that if you haven't already. to think grad school regardless of whether or not it's a party school, will change anything? obviously not

 

[SeiGun]

no prob, you can make new friend on looksmax....

 

[stamaster21]

yeah, college is basically your last chance to make friends. high school is supposed to build that “foundation” somewhat to prep you, if you didn’t succeed in high school, it’s not like things will change in college. it's even harder actually. there's probably other guys like you in bars, look into that if you haven't already. to think grad school regardless of whether or not it's a party school, will change anything? obviously not

You can always socialize and make friends at any age, but highschool and college years are drastically easier, like 3x easier. Less responsibility you can be living at home, less bills to pay and stress. You can just focus on being in shape and going to your part-time job while you live with room-mates or live with your parents, money is less of a factor. Other people are more accepting at younger ages because their still finding themselves and growing. College is harder then higher-high school. High school is basically a foundation were you practice and prep you for college in terms of socializing making friends and dating.


And yes if you didnt do well in highschool chances are you wont do well in college either. Remember its about experience, results and momenteum. People in college will size you up, and ask around if you know people or ask if you already have friends, they will check your social media also. Another thing your ability to date women will have a social impact on you to and effect your abilities to make friends.