How fucked am I

[darodcel]

So I’m kind of lost, as i am not a complete incel but I think I still count. I’m doing a lot better than certain truecels on this site but I still feel invisible to girls

Sometimes I feel like a poser scrolling this site.

One one side:
I’ve had my first kiss, held hands, cuddles, made out a lot. I’ve had 2 girlfriends, like 6 talking stages that amount to nothing. I’ve gotten my dick sucked once by my first girl but still a virgin. Fingered a girl but no actual dick-in-vagina sex(my second girl asked me a week before we broke up to fuck and I said no that day cuz I had no condoms and I’m not going to be a dad at 19). Which pisses me off cuz I was so close to not being a virgin anymore

On the other side:
These days whenever I try and talk to girls it’s like it’s 10x harder, I literally cannot get a decent looking girl no matter how hard I try. I’m very low MTN, 6’0, but overweight with gyno. If I lean out my max potential is maybe mid to high mtn. Possibly low htn with one carefully placed surgery that I’m currently saving up for. But it seems even ugly LTB girls avoid my eyes in public

Any help figuring my situation out would be appreciated, I feel as if I’m situated in a weird limbo

 

[TheLeanmaxxer66]

If you were an actual 6'0 MTN you would easily be able to fuck some MTBs.

 

[darodcel]

If you were an actual 6'0 MTN you would easily be able to fuck some MTBs.

I’m 6’0 low MTN but overweight + ethnic + gyno poking through my shirt. I meant my facial ratios *alone* add up to being MTN but to make it clear: I am not softmaxxed in the slightest.

SMV wise I am an LTN.

I’ve been too focused on school this past year

 

[TheLeanmaxxer66]

I’m 6’0 low MTN but overweight + ethnic + gyno poking through my shirt. I meant my facial ratios *alone* add up to being MTN but to make it clear: I am not softmaxxed in the slightest.

SMV wise I am an LTN.

I’ve been too focused on school this past year

Then it should be obvious you arent fucked if you are just fat and unfit. Go lose wheight and get a decent physique and you wont post in this forum anymore

 

[darodcel]

Then it should be obvious you arent fucked if you are just fat and unfit. Go lose wheight and get a decent physique and you wont post in this forum anymore

You’re right, I’m losing weight rn. But I don’t know if there’s something else causing me to not be able to get girls or whether it’s me being fat and shit

 

[TheLeanmaxxer66]

You’re right, I’m losing weight rn. But I don’t know if there’s something else causing me to not be able to get girls or whether it’s me being fat and shit

Dont worry about that now, just get fit and then see how things go

 

[darodcel]

Dont worry about that now, just get fit and then see how things go

Alr, thank you bro