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I've heard some people here say they see a lot of LTN getting laid, that they saw that every place around the world they visited. Though, they didn't mention if they were like short as 5'3. Also if a guy's 5'3 and average height is 5'7, its not as bad as in USA.
What should one do at 5'3? Is it even worth going to clubs or cold approaching?
For me, I approached like 3 girls at work and one of them started coming to talk to me multiple days. That's already 33% success chance based off my small sample size which def skews it. But that indicates it isn't over. The girl was a 6-7.5, not sure. But pretty enough. But at that time my standards were too high, I was chasing 8s+ like Elliot and getting jealous seeing chads and tyrones with them.
I became more depressed since then, maybe that's why so I'm not sure, but whenever I go outside, if I were to go to a bar, I just became so insecure of my height and depressed, started feeling fear, after seeing I was the only guy who went alone. I think its more fear like if you woke up and suddenly found both your arms are gone, and so your life is over now, rather than social anxiety. There was SA too, but there was this existential fear feeling where I thought I should just kms and its over. Like, just seeing how very small I am compared to others walking around is a blackpill every second.
I would feel more comfortable if I could keep my mind off it and was walking with a friend, but I don't have any. I'm hoping to find a loser and befriend him as he's at my level, and convince him to work with me here on this, as far as approaching goes. Still haven't met a guy like that who's my age.
My best option so far is at work since that's where I've gotten the most positive reception.
What should one do at 5'3? Is it even worth going to clubs or cold approaching?
For me, I approached like 3 girls at work and one of them started coming to talk to me multiple days. That's already 33% success chance based off my small sample size which def skews it. But that indicates it isn't over. The girl was a 6-7.5, not sure. But pretty enough. But at that time my standards were too high, I was chasing 8s+ like Elliot and getting jealous seeing chads and tyrones with them.
I became more depressed since then, maybe that's why so I'm not sure, but whenever I go outside, if I were to go to a bar, I just became so insecure of my height and depressed, started feeling fear, after seeing I was the only guy who went alone. I think its more fear like if you woke up and suddenly found both your arms are gone, and so your life is over now, rather than social anxiety. There was SA too, but there was this existential fear feeling where I thought I should just kms and its over. Like, just seeing how very small I am compared to others walking around is a blackpill every second.
I would feel more comfortable if I could keep my mind off it and was walking with a friend, but I don't have any. I'm hoping to find a loser and befriend him as he's at my level, and convince him to work with me here on this, as far as approaching goes. Still haven't met a guy like that who's my age.
My best option so far is at work since that's where I've gotten the most positive reception.
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