How has your life changed since swallowing the blackpill?

[mojopin]

I basically went through the five stages of grief jfl and didn’t go out for weeks but now I’ve learnt to accept my current state and improve with each day.

 

[Deleted member 281]

Got mildly depressed for 3 weeks and then decided to make a change.

 

[Blitz]

Blackpill would've driven me batshit insane if looksmaxxing wasn't an option. Nonetheless, blackpill helped me a lot as a person.

 

[11gaijin]

Blackpill would've driven me batshit insane if looksmaxxing wasn't an option. Nonetheless, blackpill helped me a lot as a person.

 

[mybrainabusesme]

stopped going on dates.

 

[mojopin]

Blackpill would've driven me batshit insane if looksmaxxing wasn't an option. Nonetheless, blackpill helped me a lot as a person.

Don't know how people can cope that are blackpilled but do nothing @itsOVER

stopped going on dates.

What were the dates like before?

 

[Unknownjpg]

Amazing ngl, Yea there are some hard truths you gotta face but life is cuntish, its helped me improve confidence being lower inhib etc, I hope to ascend late 2020.

 

[mybrainabusesme]

Don't know how people can cope that are blackpilled but do nothing @itsOVER

What were the dates like before?

i been on 50 dates and only had few lays and one short relationship

 

[Deleted member 611]

I went from being a leftist woman defending cuck to being an aware blackpilled elite. How it has changed my life? There's no difference I just have a different perspective on everything.

 

[kantero]

It became worse tbh. It would (and it was, actually) enough to use some PUA/dark triad tactics and start becoming as better as possible (at least, for some degree). After becoming blackpilled, you legit feel like you're intoxicated, despite having GF i always argue with her and cant relax, act like closed person instead of just not giving a fuck and having fun. I became much more depressed, like permanent microdepression is always with me here and i cant have genuine human relationship anymore without forcing myself to close blackpill somewhere deep in my mind.

 

[sorrowfulsad]

I feel like everyone who seems to deny the blackpill (roughly ~90% of the people I encounter) is retarded or more like an NPC (fuck this meme)

 

[CupOfCoffee]

stopped going on dates.

 

[Final82]

Blaxckpill made a huge change in my life . I used to value women and look at them as nice , caring , sweet people who care about personality , character etc . In reality ??? Women are way way more superficial and all they care is looks / money or both . At least now I can explain my tinder and bumble failures and real life rejections . Looks maxing and last attempt to ascend by 12/31/2019. Gym maxing , hair transplant and bunch of plastic work ( nose , gyno and jawline tightening to make a few ) . Will keep maxing till 2020 and if don’t see results in social / dating life , that point - completely give up on women , continue to work out and look good for yourself and do escorts . Simple . No more pussy chasing .

 

[Sub5virgin]

It makes you feel like a third class human being.

 

[CopeMaxxer]

I realize I'm invisible to most women.

But I realized it's ok, because it's not my fault and I have little control over it, and what control I do have, I exert it through looksmaxing/lifemaxxing. Ergo, I shouldn't feel bad about it. I dump the rest of my energy into math and gym.

 

[Final82]

I agree . Most of us are average looking . If this was even early 2000s or even 2010 , most of us would be fine finding a girl with SMV of our league . If you are 5, you get a girl who is 5. And that’s how it should be . Now only top 20 p guys are slaying all girls over 5. After realizing this , it was a shock . But it’s a reality . I used to feel bad about myself but I don’t anymore . Looks maxing and ascension in our control is must for all of us . If it works , great . ( it prob helps only 10 percent of us - we can never be chad - but at least a chad lite lite . Able to match a girl of 5 if you ascend to 7. If it doesn’t work , at least we have satisfaction of trying it and giving our best shot . Also , other thing I learnt is chasing women never helps . You initiate interest . If she likes you , she will make it obvious and easy for you . Learnt it via a number of tinder / bumble experiments . Online dating apps killed it for us - by giving unlimited choices and access to all top guys in the area . Plus over inflated egos due to simps and beta orbiters praising them and liking their insta etc . That’s black pill . Human attraction , sex and reproduction should not be a Olympic level task . It should be fairly simple process . If it’s not happening with you , you better accept that you are not part of the team that women love . Try to be in the team by looks max. Otherwise , gym, career , pets , hobbies and escorts . No rope or dope . It doesn’t help .

 

[Deleted member 39]

Kind of calmed me down. I'm not so nervous around girls and don't put them on a pedestal anymore because I realize that I am dirt to them and that I have no chance anyways. False expectations made me very anxious and eventually, when they weren't fulfilled, temporarily depressed.
I accepted that I'll always be a loner.

 

[CopeMaxxer]

I agree . Most of us are average looking . If this was even early 2000s or even 2010 , most of us would be fine finding a girl with SMV of our league . If you are 5, you get a girl who is 5. And that’s how it should be . Now only top 20 p guys are slaying all girls over 5. After realizing this , it was a shock . But it’s a reality . I used to feel bad about myself but I don’t anymore . Looks maxing and ascension in our control is must for all of us . If it works , great . ( it prob helps only 10 percent of us - we can never be chad - but at least a chad lite lite . Able to match a girl of 5 if you ascend to 7. If it doesn’t work , at least we have satisfaction of trying it and giving our best shot . Also , other thing I learnt is chasing women never helps . You initiate interest . If she likes you , she will make it obvious and easy for you . Learnt it via a number of tinder / bumble experiments . Online dating apps killed it for us - by giving unlimited choices and access to all top guys in the area . Plus over inflated egos due to simps and beta orbiters praising them and liking their insta etc . That’s black pill . Human attraction , sex and reproduction should not be a Olympic level task . It should be fairly simple process . If it’s not happening with you , you better accept that you are not part of the team that women love . Try to be in the team by looks max. Otherwise , gym, career , pets , hobbies and escorts . No rope or dope . It doesn’t help .

yeah, i think if there was no online dating incelism would not be as widespread a phenomenon as it is today.

 

[Final82]

Online dating apps ( especially tinder and bumble who are only focused on looks ) are 90 percent reason why incels and TFL community is growing so rapidly .
Before online dating apps , even a good looking girl will only have a limited access pool of men to choose from - work , school , grocery stores , gym , social circle and hobby circle , may be bars / clubs . So expectations were realistic . Now? The chick has access to all top men in 100 mile radius ( some of them married or having hot GFs too - which was harder back pre tinder era ). We think chad has best tinder experience ? Wrong ! An above average girl ( 7/10) has far more options than a chad . Fact. Then why would she look at you in person ? For slaying 8/10 and above , you better be an ultra chad , or chad with great money or a multi millionaire or ( billionaire in big city context like New York ). I am not even exaggerating . Back in the day , an average looking young male doctor in the hospital can easily slay or date 7/10 or 8/10 nurses . Since back then . His status was huge and she had limited access . Now ? Why would she look at that doc when she can sleep with multi millionaire chad on Wall Street ? ( through tinder - who will def use her as a side chick or ONS) but women keep on chasing the top 20 p men who use them for pump and dump . ONS or as side chicks ( other than their hot GFs or wives ). 80/20 was less pronounced back in the day due to limited options and social norms on women . Today , an average looking man is completely finished in the west .

 

[IntolerantSocialist]

I think everyone is a living target, including myself.

 

[SuperCheatBros]

I feel WAY more intelligent and I don't orbit or flirt with women anymore

 

[itsOVER]

Don't know how people can cope that are blackpilled but do nothing @itsOVER

What were the dates like before?

Don't know why you're tagging me, I've done more to try and ascend than 99% of PSL.

(Not that hard since 90% take no action whatsoever, mind).

 

[mojopin]

Don't know why you're tagging me, I've done more to try and ascend than 99% of PSL.

(Not that hard since 90% take no action whatsoever, mind).

You should do a post about what you’ve done to ascend then because right now it’s just telling other people looksmaxxing won’t work

 

[itsOVER]

You should do a post about what you’ve done to ascend then because right now it’s just telling other people looksmaxxing won’t work

It's telling people gym won't work. If looksmaxing for you = just go to the gym bro, then bodybuilding.com is that way --->

 

[Final82]

Gym maxing will work only if you have facial structure that can be redeemed with plastics to at least a 7. Then ripped physique may add to your attraction quotient . Mere gym maxing without height or face is useless .

 

[Deleted member 611]

Blackpill might have made my life worse honestly now that I think about it, because I lost all confidence in myself and receded into the comfort of my home, becoming a NEET hermit. At least I'm not a cuck anymore I suppose

 

[mojopin]

It's telling people gym won't work. If looksmaxing for you = just go to the gym bro, then bodybuilding.com is that way --->

That’s a pretty huge part of it pal even if you go from a 2/10 to a 3/10 it’s worth it. Besides it’s good for low inhib maxxing and increases bone density. Let’s not forget it increases testosterone too.

 

[itsOVER]

That’s a pretty huge part of it pal even if you go from a 2/10 to a 3/10 it’s worth it. Besides it’s good for low inhib maxxing and increases bone density. Let’s not forget it increases testosterone too.

I'm not getting into yet another 'is gym legit' thread. But you were factually incorrect in saying that I tell people looksmaxing doesn't work, I've only ever said gym doesn't. And if your idea of looksmaxing really is going to the gym, you will honestly find better information concerning that on bodybuilding.com and a ton of other forums.

 

[mojopin]

I'm not getting into yet another 'is gym legit' thread. But you were factually incorrect in saying that I tell people looksmaxing doesn't work, I've only ever said gym doesn't. And if your idea of looksmaxing really is going to the gym, you will honestly find better information concerning that on bodybuilding.com and a ton of other forums.

Nah I just said that’s all I’ve seen. Let’s leave it at that then mate

 

[FatmanO]

Gym is working for me, doesent matter if u belive it or not. I attract mostly uggos and landwhales but I can attract some normie 6a aswell

I'm not getting into yet another 'is gym legit' thread. But you were factually incorrect in saying that I tell people looksmaxing doesn't work, I've only ever said gym doesn't. And if your idea of looksmaxing really is going to the gym, you will honestly find better information concerning that on bodybuilding.com and a ton of other forums.

 

[itsOVER]

Gym is working for me, doesent matter if u belive it or not. I attract mostly uggos and landwhales but I can attract some normie 6a aswell

If your current body is what you regard as gym 'working', I'd hate to see your idea of 'not working'

 

[FatmanO]

If your current body is what you regard as gym 'working', I'd hate to see your idea of 'not working'

I was very fat as a kid, but I work very hard to change my body, even tho I was sedentary my whole life


This is after fat loss, you can call my body shit due to loose skin, but you have to give me credit for being consistent and still lifting hard. I still put a lot of work last 5 months hard and you cant really deny that

 

[Unknownjpg]

itsOVER hands down biggest troll.

90% of you guys dont even know what it feels like to be over 50-100lbs overweight how invisable you are, dirty looks, treating you badly etc. After you lose the weight obviously there is a big change why? because of your body, and face has gone down. This is what FatmanO is on about to you twinks, he looks bad which yea if he started underweight and had a 5 month gym under his belt I would call that bad progress, but since he started overweight and has gone down to a good weight, maybe can cut some more, then bulk, people like itsOVER get fucking laughs making fun of ppl, when they are legit fucking subhumans, I like this community we have here, other than that prick bringing people down every chance.

 

[itsOVER]

I was very fat as a kid, but I work very hard to change my body, even tho I was sedentary my whole life


This is after fat loss, you can call my body shit due to loose skin, but you have to give me credit for being consistent and still lifting hard. I still put a lot of work last 5 months hard and you cant really deny that

Here's the thing though: hard work by itself means nothing. I don't consider bulking and lifting as hard work mind you - losing weight is though, so well done for that. You looked BETTER in the above pic than you did after lifting.

itsOVER hands down biggest troll.

90% of you guys dont even know what it feels like to be over 50-100lbs overweight how invisable you are, dirty looks, treating you badly etc. After you lose the weight obviously there is a big change why? because of your body, and face has gone down. This is what FatmanO is on about to you twinks, he looks bad which yea if he started underweight and had a 5 month gym under his belt I would call that bad progress, but since he started overweight and has gone down to a good weight, maybe can cut some more, then bulk, people like itsOVER get fucking laughs making fun of ppl, when they are legit fucking subhumans, I like this community we have here, other than that prick bringing people down every chance.

You've got the timeline back to front boyo. The guy slimmed down and THEN decided to start bulking like an idiot.

Yeah yeah, muh twink, muh basement, whatever boyo, I'd much much rather be a 'twink' than some bloated up gymcel.

Go on, tell me how you could beat me up IRL, and finish off with how much you squat and deadlift. We both know you want to.

 

[FatmanO]

Here's the thing though: hard work by itself means nothing. I don't consider bulking and lifting as hard work mind you - losing weight is though, so well done for that. You looked BETTER in the above pic than you did after lifting.

I look better in clothes now, atleast the amount of attention I get

I woudnt say I looked good like this:

-You've got the timeline back to front boyo. The guy slimmed down and THEN decided to start bulking like an idiot. I definitly bulked too much but Im 10 times happier than I was before.

I agree to be more attractive be more lean, and I would be more attractive if I was lean (not skinny with just bones), but If we met someday you will realise how NT and happy I became in a big guy mode. I just dont feel confident being a twink, its not me, when you are fat for 11 years you want to be a bit bigger, not fat just not super skinny. I just didnt see it.

I agree I was semi dirty bulking, and could have gone better, but I still got nice gains. I also agree I will cut and look lean in summer, wish me luck tho.

I do like that you can make fair points without saying its over. I became more confident than I was skinny and I attract more women in school.

Here's the thing though: hard work by itself means nothing. I don't consider bulking and lifting as hard work mind you - losing weight is though, so well done for that. You looked BETTER in the above pic than you did after lifting.

Also, thanks! It wasnt easy losing 70lbs, but people respect me more.
Id say lifting and staying consistent is hard work too. Bulking is hard work if your skinny and dont have apetietie which wasnt problem for me

Here's the thing though: hard work by itself means nothing. I don't consider bulking and lifting as hard work mind you - losing weight is though, so well done for that. You looked BETTER in the above pic than you did after lifting.



You've got the timeline back to front boyo. The guy slimmed down and THEN decided to start bulking like an idiot.

Yeah yeah, muh twink, muh basement, whatever boyo, I'd much much rather be a 'twink' than some bloated up gymcel.

Go on, tell me how you could beat me up IRL, and finish off with how much you squat and deadlift. We both know you want to.

Id say I got face gains aswell, I look a bit bigger but also feel more confident