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Zev
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DISCLAIMER: This is solely based on personal experience, note that genetics gifted me with good height 6ft3 (192 cm) and no visible balding at 26yo.
I came here after getting dumped, reality started hitting hard when I got back on the dating market.
I started rotting here and learned everything that made me ascend in an insane way, I get constantly complimented about my "insane glow up".
Here are the things that had the biggest impact:
Now I'm dating one of the hottest chick in my neighborhood, it's a lot of pressure and even if everybody validated my glow up and my physical appearance I still don't feel confident, and I came to learn that a lot of good looking dudes don't.
Dating a good looking chick is a lot of pressure, you never feel like you're enough and even when she says she loves you, it's impossible to feel at rest, I always imagine her leaving me.
Here is a list of thing I still need to fix:
If you have any questions I will answer them.
Ready for the dnrs
I came here after getting dumped, reality started hitting hard when I got back on the dating market.
I started rotting here and learned everything that made me ascend in an insane way, I get constantly complimented about my "insane glow up".
Here are the things that had the biggest impact:
- Workout
- Went from being a skinny bitch to an athletic body with low bodyfat, got a lot of compliments and way more respect.
- Choosing a haircut that fits
- Always had awful haircuts, I let my hair grow because it was a good fit for the shape of my face
- Grew a beard
- Anybody that see's a picture of me pre beard tells me that I should never shave it
- Fashionmaxxed
- I stopped wearing random clothes and started wearing nicer clothes, getting inspiration by looking around in the big city I live in. The clothes I wear aren't the ones I would instinctively find good looking but I went with the flow and started wearing thing I would have considerate degenerate back then.
- Got red/black pilled
- When I stopped believing what every npc was saying and started thinking by myself and standing by my beliefs in public.
Foids get very attracted to people who know how to contradict them and stand by their beliefs. They don't want to date a cuck that always agrees with them.
- When I stopped believing what every npc was saying and started thinking by myself and standing by my beliefs in public.
- Stopped giving attentions to females
- Stop pursuing em at all cost, you look desperate, try to be enough for yourself or at least look like it
- Became a bartender
- Huge halo
Now I'm dating one of the hottest chick in my neighborhood, it's a lot of pressure and even if everybody validated my glow up and my physical appearance I still don't feel confident, and I came to learn that a lot of good looking dudes don't.
Dating a good looking chick is a lot of pressure, you never feel like you're enough and even when she says she loves you, it's impossible to feel at rest, I always imagine her leaving me.
Here is a list of thing I still need to fix:
- Getting better in bed
- I cum too fast because we do it raw, it's making me very self conscious, she had around 10 different sexuals partners so she has several people to compare me to.
- Dick size
- My dick is around 6.2 inches (15.8cm), I know she's had bigger and I'm stressing about it
- Getting truly confident
- Even after ascending and getting female attention I'm scared to end up alone and that my gf is gonna leave me, I'm a bitch inside
- Stop being a poorcel
- She dated very rich guys before me, millionaires, one owning his own flat. I live with my dad jfl
- Huge forehead
- Don't think I can fix it
If you have any questions I will answer them.
Ready for the dnrs