iblamericky
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story time
This all started on July 3rd when my homie decided to invite me over to his girls house to hangout w them for 4th of July, even tho it was the third there was a firework show goin on nearby so I just decided to tag along, now I had a little bit of a crush on my friends girlfriend prior to this but would I have ever stepped in between their relationship while it was going on? absolutely not.
we go to the firework show blah blah n that happens, I try to fake being NT the whole night but around the end of it I’m extremely fuckin plastered and can’t control my emotions, I start crying but my face is hidden so it just looks like I’m passed out drunk for the most part, the reason for this is I felt like if I could have something like he had then maybe life wouldn’t be as fucking shitty as it was, and that was the thought consistently in my head, everyone was too drunk to notice what was going on so I locked the fuck in and continued my nt larp n everyone was too drunk to realize anything so they bought it.
This woman he was with is low-mhtb and my friend is mid mtn for the most part, she’s extremely sweet and caring which is what I’ve longed for for a while now, for the longest time prior to this she made it seem a bit like she was practically coming onto me while she was in a relationship with my friend so of course I didn’t act on anything, or read into it as much until i developed my micro crush for a bit, and that’s where I got to the point of thinking about it more often, at any hangout between the 3 of us it was always me that she’d interact with more than her own boyfriend and she was awfully playful with me n chatty, in ways where if I had a girlfriend and she was doing that with another man I’d look at it suspiciously, maybe my friend did at the time too but just didn’t let me know it.
Back to the 3rd of July, me and him are hanging out both plastered drunk in said girlfriends room with a couple of her friends over and they’re nowhere to be seen, at some point she pops back into the room and asks her then boyfriend for his phone to play music (lie) my homie was too drunk to do anything about it so he handed his phone over willingly and thought nothing of it, neither did I, until I’m out scavenging for something to eat in her kitchen later on where the girlfriend of my friend walks over to me and starts a conversation, we get on the topic of him and what he’s like, and then she hits me with the question “is he cheating on me” and at this point I don’t really know what to say so I kinda dodge the question (I knew he was the whole time, but wasn’t gonna say anything) I play it off as very unknowing and oblivious until she reveals she went through his phone, and saw MULTIPLE pictures/videos spanning over a year and a half (they were in a relationship for 2 years) of girls, AND boys that he’s cheated on her with.
Fast forward to the next morning, we have a long talk and she sums it up that she’s gonna confront him about it that night, she does, and when she does around 30 minutes later after their talk he says we’re leaving and I go with him, end of the beginning.
Fast forward after a couple weeks, me and her start talking and I reveal a little bit about what I know, and she drops so much embarrassing shit about him that I never could’ve even guessed was true, and it was absurd.
Since this thread is long as fuck I’ll sum up a bit more, we talk over the span of a few weeks, which turns into months and we start developing a bit of a liking to eachother, (more than friends) which is all behind my homies back btw, which is fucked up of me for not consulting him before I did anything, in which I began pursuing her
a lot of beating around the bush with him, asking him if he still cared abt her without getting to the point, with every response I got from him he seemed more and more cold, and disregarding of her so I took it as a green light before I ACTUALLY went in and did anything.
Fast forward to August, shit slips, he finds out in the worst way, and our friendship is on the line currently, and I’m given the ultimatum of either her or him.
In my POV he made the decision on whether he cared about her or not when he cheated on her multiple times for a year out of their 2yr relationship, so there would be no reason for him to be upset, the only thing I can see him being reasonably mad at me for is the fact that I did not consult him about it before I did anything drastic.
all the friends I had found out, cut me off, and he is the only one I still talk to (the girls ex) and who is willing to rekindle things regarding our friendship, and the way I see it is I lose both ways, the ltr could possibly sink in a few months and I have no friends, or I leave her and my friend ends up dropping me due to trust issues, and I lose both of them, I lose either way.
Just looking for some thoughts, if anyone cares enough to ask any questions I’ll answer accordingly
DNR: best friend cheats on girl, after a few months I swoop in, friend gets mad, tells other friends, all of them drop me, friend wants to rekindle things on the term it’s her or him, unsure of what to do now.
This all started on July 3rd when my homie decided to invite me over to his girls house to hangout w them for 4th of July, even tho it was the third there was a firework show goin on nearby so I just decided to tag along, now I had a little bit of a crush on my friends girlfriend prior to this but would I have ever stepped in between their relationship while it was going on? absolutely not.
we go to the firework show blah blah n that happens, I try to fake being NT the whole night but around the end of it I’m extremely fuckin plastered and can’t control my emotions, I start crying but my face is hidden so it just looks like I’m passed out drunk for the most part, the reason for this is I felt like if I could have something like he had then maybe life wouldn’t be as fucking shitty as it was, and that was the thought consistently in my head, everyone was too drunk to notice what was going on so I locked the fuck in and continued my nt larp n everyone was too drunk to realize anything so they bought it.
This woman he was with is low-mhtb and my friend is mid mtn for the most part, she’s extremely sweet and caring which is what I’ve longed for for a while now, for the longest time prior to this she made it seem a bit like she was practically coming onto me while she was in a relationship with my friend so of course I didn’t act on anything, or read into it as much until i developed my micro crush for a bit, and that’s where I got to the point of thinking about it more often, at any hangout between the 3 of us it was always me that she’d interact with more than her own boyfriend and she was awfully playful with me n chatty, in ways where if I had a girlfriend and she was doing that with another man I’d look at it suspiciously, maybe my friend did at the time too but just didn’t let me know it.
Back to the 3rd of July, me and him are hanging out both plastered drunk in said girlfriends room with a couple of her friends over and they’re nowhere to be seen, at some point she pops back into the room and asks her then boyfriend for his phone to play music (lie) my homie was too drunk to do anything about it so he handed his phone over willingly and thought nothing of it, neither did I, until I’m out scavenging for something to eat in her kitchen later on where the girlfriend of my friend walks over to me and starts a conversation, we get on the topic of him and what he’s like, and then she hits me with the question “is he cheating on me” and at this point I don’t really know what to say so I kinda dodge the question (I knew he was the whole time, but wasn’t gonna say anything) I play it off as very unknowing and oblivious until she reveals she went through his phone, and saw MULTIPLE pictures/videos spanning over a year and a half (they were in a relationship for 2 years) of girls, AND boys that he’s cheated on her with.
Fast forward to the next morning, we have a long talk and she sums it up that she’s gonna confront him about it that night, she does, and when she does around 30 minutes later after their talk he says we’re leaving and I go with him, end of the beginning.
Fast forward after a couple weeks, me and her start talking and I reveal a little bit about what I know, and she drops so much embarrassing shit about him that I never could’ve even guessed was true, and it was absurd.
Since this thread is long as fuck I’ll sum up a bit more, we talk over the span of a few weeks, which turns into months and we start developing a bit of a liking to eachother, (more than friends) which is all behind my homies back btw, which is fucked up of me for not consulting him before I did anything, in which I began pursuing her
a lot of beating around the bush with him, asking him if he still cared abt her without getting to the point, with every response I got from him he seemed more and more cold, and disregarding of her so I took it as a green light before I ACTUALLY went in and did anything.
Fast forward to August, shit slips, he finds out in the worst way, and our friendship is on the line currently, and I’m given the ultimatum of either her or him.
In my POV he made the decision on whether he cared about her or not when he cheated on her multiple times for a year out of their 2yr relationship, so there would be no reason for him to be upset, the only thing I can see him being reasonably mad at me for is the fact that I did not consult him about it before I did anything drastic.
all the friends I had found out, cut me off, and he is the only one I still talk to (the girls ex) and who is willing to rekindle things regarding our friendship, and the way I see it is I lose both ways, the ltr could possibly sink in a few months and I have no friends, or I leave her and my friend ends up dropping me due to trust issues, and I lose both of them, I lose either way.
Just looking for some thoughts, if anyone cares enough to ask any questions I’ll answer accordingly
DNR: best friend cheats on girl, after a few months I swoop in, friend gets mad, tells other friends, all of them drop me, friend wants to rekindle things on the term it’s her or him, unsure of what to do now.
