How i fixed my high inhibness

[Deleted member 23772]

Honestly, I finally realized that it doesn't mean shit what people think. I realized that most people I meet won't be around for life and if they are it means they found nothing wrong with me in the first place. You wouldn't care that much about what people think of you if you'd realize how rarely people actually think. Oh they might have been thinking things about you, but the next moment they're thinking things about someone else, and the next moment they're thinking about icecream and they've totally forgotten about you.

I figured out that constantly worrying that people would be thinking bad things about me was actually some sort of egocentrism - somehow I apparently thought I was important enough for other people to concentrate on. Realizing I'm not that important or interesting for other people to be focussing on me all the time - and how that's a good thing - made it all go away.