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Not tales from the basement and I didn’t rope. I’ve been going hard on Tinder for the past month, basically meeting a new girl every other day. My issues in the past have always been anxiety-related, afraid that I was too nervous, too ugly, too boring etc.
First of all, I don’t even have good pictures on Tinder, no front photos, just ones that show that I’m doing something interesting or that show my shoulders. Obviously this isn’t ideal for matching with the best looking girls, but whatever I’m subhuman so why show my full face. I fucked 3 girls, 1 ugly fat one, and 2 roughly looksmatched. One of them is a short blonde submissive girl with big tits so the sex is insane, she still wants to see me again…
Second, you want to use good openers but not ones that look retarded and soyboy. I actually reuse the same openers usually so I'm not gonna share that shit or show screenshots. Figure this out on your own.
The most important thing I did was use chemicals to ease my anxiety and ensure good erections. This is what I used:
1. Xanax: Only used once. I stole 5mg from my uncle and used it before a date. Unfortunately the girl had a panic attack and escaped before we met. We met the next day though and fucked so
2. Phenibut: Most important drug I used, this stuff is insanely useful when used sparingly. First couple times I used it, I shit you not there was zero anxiety at all, I was saying whatever the fuck I wanted and things went much better than normal. I easily escalated sexually with the girls without worrying I was doing the wrong thing. You should NOT use this stuff too much, you will stop feeling it. Once a week, twice MAX is good. You may eventually require up to 2grams or more, start lower @500mg. Combine this with caffeine before meeting the girls or else you might be too tired and too sedated.
3. Cialias: When I was 19 I had serious performance anxiety and couldn’t stay hard when naked in front of a girl, so I didn’t want to risk that again. You gotta take this (or Viagra) if you want to have the best experience. I actually overdosed the first time, took 60mg cuz I was stupid and desperate, and got serious side effects (couldn’t lose erection for 3 hours, painful cumming, back pain, sore throat the next day, and extreme light-headedness). Start with 10mg honestly, NEVER go over 30mg it’s a fucking nightmare. This stuff made me get an erection just from seeing the girl in clothes jfl, I measured my dick and it was a bit bigger as well (went from 6.2x5.5 to 6.4x5.7 bonepressed). Don’t skip this dudes.
4. L-Theanine and Ashwagandha: I took this shit at high doses on days where I didn’t use anything else, I think it helped but not nearly like phenibut.
5. Testosterone. I’m on 500mg test E weekly, it’s making me not be able to focus on school or work anymore, so if that matters to you a lot you might have trouble in other aspects of life (idk if other people have the same issue but i do). All I can think of is meeting girls and fapping etc. tbh. A lot of the girls compliment me on my muscles so it definitely helps in that way. I don't believe my ED at 19 had to do with testosterone because I always had strong morning wood, it was almost certainly porn-induced, anxiety-related, or both.
Obviously, there are other anxiolytics you can try and I might experiment a bit (suggestions if you have any), but this definitely worked for me.
Tip: Don’t act asexual. Once you’re sitting with the girl, slowly get sexual if the topic arises. Talk about nipples, hard-ons, make up stories about ridiculous dates you’ve had in the past. Touch them when you can, if she’s resisting it, then it probably won’t go anywhere so just cut it short if you can.
Another tip: If a girl acts overly disagreeable with you, it’s not going to work. Leave her asap and don’t waste your time.
Another tip: Don’t invite yourself to her place. If she wants to fuck you then she will usually make it clear and invite you in.
Another tip: If you live with your parents you need to make up an excuse why you can’t bring them to your place. I just tell them my family is still visiting me and they’ll be gone in a few weeks and we own a house here etc. Make up some good reasons and if they wanna fuck you they’ll usually invite you to their place. Trust me lol.
Another tip: Some girls actually don’t fuck on the first date, a lot of them seem to religiously follow the third date rule, so if you want to feel those sugar walls then you might have to wait a week or so.
First of all, I don’t even have good pictures on Tinder, no front photos, just ones that show that I’m doing something interesting or that show my shoulders. Obviously this isn’t ideal for matching with the best looking girls, but whatever I’m subhuman so why show my full face. I fucked 3 girls, 1 ugly fat one, and 2 roughly looksmatched. One of them is a short blonde submissive girl with big tits so the sex is insane, she still wants to see me again…
Second, you want to use good openers but not ones that look retarded and soyboy. I actually reuse the same openers usually so I'm not gonna share that shit or show screenshots. Figure this out on your own.
The most important thing I did was use chemicals to ease my anxiety and ensure good erections. This is what I used:
1. Xanax: Only used once. I stole 5mg from my uncle and used it before a date. Unfortunately the girl had a panic attack and escaped before we met. We met the next day though and fucked so
2. Phenibut: Most important drug I used, this stuff is insanely useful when used sparingly. First couple times I used it, I shit you not there was zero anxiety at all, I was saying whatever the fuck I wanted and things went much better than normal. I easily escalated sexually with the girls without worrying I was doing the wrong thing. You should NOT use this stuff too much, you will stop feeling it. Once a week, twice MAX is good. You may eventually require up to 2grams or more, start lower @500mg. Combine this with caffeine before meeting the girls or else you might be too tired and too sedated.
3. Cialias: When I was 19 I had serious performance anxiety and couldn’t stay hard when naked in front of a girl, so I didn’t want to risk that again. You gotta take this (or Viagra) if you want to have the best experience. I actually overdosed the first time, took 60mg cuz I was stupid and desperate, and got serious side effects (couldn’t lose erection for 3 hours, painful cumming, back pain, sore throat the next day, and extreme light-headedness). Start with 10mg honestly, NEVER go over 30mg it’s a fucking nightmare. This stuff made me get an erection just from seeing the girl in clothes jfl, I measured my dick and it was a bit bigger as well (went from 6.2x5.5 to 6.4x5.7 bonepressed). Don’t skip this dudes.
4. L-Theanine and Ashwagandha: I took this shit at high doses on days where I didn’t use anything else, I think it helped but not nearly like phenibut.
5. Testosterone. I’m on 500mg test E weekly, it’s making me not be able to focus on school or work anymore, so if that matters to you a lot you might have trouble in other aspects of life (idk if other people have the same issue but i do). All I can think of is meeting girls and fapping etc. tbh. A lot of the girls compliment me on my muscles so it definitely helps in that way. I don't believe my ED at 19 had to do with testosterone because I always had strong morning wood, it was almost certainly porn-induced, anxiety-related, or both.
Obviously, there are other anxiolytics you can try and I might experiment a bit (suggestions if you have any), but this definitely worked for me.
Tip: Don’t act asexual. Once you’re sitting with the girl, slowly get sexual if the topic arises. Talk about nipples, hard-ons, make up stories about ridiculous dates you’ve had in the past. Touch them when you can, if she’s resisting it, then it probably won’t go anywhere so just cut it short if you can.
Another tip: If a girl acts overly disagreeable with you, it’s not going to work. Leave her asap and don’t waste your time.
Another tip: Don’t invite yourself to her place. If she wants to fuck you then she will usually make it clear and invite you in.
Another tip: If you live with your parents you need to make up an excuse why you can’t bring them to your place. I just tell them my family is still visiting me and they’ll be gone in a few weeks and we own a house here etc. Make up some good reasons and if they wanna fuck you they’ll usually invite you to their place. Trust me lol.
Another tip: Some girls actually don’t fuck on the first date, a lot of them seem to religiously follow the third date rule, so if you want to feel those sugar walls then you might have to wait a week or so.
