Jason Voorhees
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As you niggas know. I willingly live with my parents house. Not out of compulsion. I can move anytime I want but because I like to. I'll tell you something that happened last year. My dad has always been the chill type and allowed me to be independent and make my moves. Only intervened when he had to. It's my mom that has always been a problem. Typical overbearing Indian mom. When I was in college, coming home after a long semester felt like entering a zoo cage,
She legit never allowed me to be independent. She had a problem with literally everything. When she saw me taking whey protein. She immediately disapproved of it because she didn't know what it was, she had a problem with me working late at night on my assignments. Gaming + rotting on my phone on this forum to unwind. Instant side eye and complaints instantly
I was feeling suffocated in my own home so last year after I came home from my summer internship in the US. She asked me to not take that supplement and that was it. I exploded at her.
Told her that after November once my PPO gets converted into full time offer. I'll be at the porch with my suitcase, she'll never seen my face ever again. Idc if she thinks it's poison. I'll have that poison and die my own death. And once I leave I'll see how you'll stop me and then she started crying. My dad then came home to this mess.
Then had a talk with my mom. He told her calmly. Our boy is no longer a boy now. He is all grown up now. He is now a man, he now earns, he's responsible for his own decisions and consequences that comes with them. We have no right to stop him. And then she argued with him and after back and forth. Then he told her this. No that's where you are wrong. He merely came through us, our boy never belonged to us. Becoming his parents was our privilege, giving him a good life and setting him up for success was our responsibility. He doesn't owe us anything.
And then he scolded me for talking harshly to her and then from them on. But from that day on. things changed. Mom still worries but she backed off a lot. No more constant interference. She only gives slight nudges and suggestions and opinions. Doesn't force me to follow them. I got my space, she got her peace of mind.
She legit never allowed me to be independent. She had a problem with literally everything. When she saw me taking whey protein. She immediately disapproved of it because she didn't know what it was, she had a problem with me working late at night on my assignments. Gaming + rotting on my phone on this forum to unwind. Instant side eye and complaints instantly
I was feeling suffocated in my own home so last year after I came home from my summer internship in the US. She asked me to not take that supplement and that was it. I exploded at her.
Told her that after November once my PPO gets converted into full time offer. I'll be at the porch with my suitcase, she'll never seen my face ever again. Idc if she thinks it's poison. I'll have that poison and die my own death. And once I leave I'll see how you'll stop me and then she started crying. My dad then came home to this mess.
Then had a talk with my mom. He told her calmly. Our boy is no longer a boy now. He is all grown up now. He is now a man, he now earns, he's responsible for his own decisions and consequences that comes with them. We have no right to stop him. And then she argued with him and after back and forth. Then he told her this. No that's where you are wrong. He merely came through us, our boy never belonged to us. Becoming his parents was our privilege, giving him a good life and setting him up for success was our responsibility. He doesn't owe us anything.
And then he scolded me for talking harshly to her and then from them on. But from that day on. things changed. Mom still worries but she backed off a lot. No more constant interference. She only gives slight nudges and suggestions and opinions. Doesn't force me to follow them. I got my space, she got her peace of mind.
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