How important is kiss on first date?

[Ken]

Im gonna go out with a girl I met online. We are going bowling. Last time I went on a first date going for the kiss ruined everything. I also dont want to get friendzoned.

How important is it to go for a kiss on the first date? My goal is LTR

 

[hebbewem]

You need to do it otherwise the date have failed

 

[rand anon]

Are u attracted to this one?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Obviously essential- I never met a girl for a second time if we didn’t kiss

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

Not important i almost never kiss first date

 

[LightSkinNoob]

I always kiss on the first date, if you don’t, or she rejects you, it’s ovER

 

[Ken]

Are u attracted to this one?

If she looks like her pictures than yes. She will be the most attractive girl ive gone out with since my oneitis. They are about even lookswise.

 

[Ken]

Not important i almost never kiss first date

So you didnt kiss the girl you lost your virginity to on the first date? Did she know you were a virgin?

 

[Gonthar]

Blowjobs are the new kiss on the first date...

Why I Don't Kiss On The First Date ... I'd Rather Give Head

Kissing on the first date is as useless as having just one glass of wine.

www.yourtango.com

 

[Ken]

Blowjobs are the new kiss on the first date...

Why I Don't Kiss On The First Date ... I'd Rather Give Head

Kissing on the first date is as useless as having just one glass of wine.

www.yourtango.com

I wouldnt even know how to initiate that.

 

[Deleted member 20056]

Not that important but it depends on where you are going to meet them, also a peck type of kiss doesn't count. If you are meeting daytime for coffee or sth in a densely populated area you probably won't but if you are going for an activity or nightlife activities then it happens most of the time

 

[Ken]

Not that important but it depends on where you are going to meet them, also a peck type of kiss doesn't count. If you are meeting daytime for coffee or sth in a densely populated area you probably won't but if you are going for an activity or nightlife activities then it happens most of the time

We are going bowling at night. She's 18 so we probably wont drink alcohol.

 

[Deleted member 20056]

We are going bowling at night. She's 18 so we probably wont drink alcohol.

not bad if there aren't too many people around you should take the first step, probably when you are about to leave, at that point you will know if she'd into you or not.

 

[Deleted member 4060]

For me if I am not smashing first date then they ain't calling back, thats why I do the dick pic test to see if they actually dtf.

 

[Virgin at 29 😔]

So you didnt kiss the girl you lost your virginity to on the first date? Did she know you were a virgin?

Kissing is haram

 

[Ken]

You need to do it otherwise the date have failed

Obviously essential- I never met a girl for a second time if we didn’t kiss

I always kiss on the first date, if you don’t, or she rejects you, it’s ovER

For me if I am not smashing first date then they ain't calling back, thats why I do the dick pic test to see if they actually dtf.

This is a lot of pressure. Im about to go see her

Im a kissless virgin. Do I use tongue? Where do I put my hands? Will it come naturally?

 

[Salieri]

This is a lot of pressure. Im about to go see her

Im a kissless virgin. Do I use tongue? Where do I put my hands? Will it come naturally?

just put ur hands on her waist my guy

dont use tongue

 

[Ken]

just put ur hands on her waist my guy

dont use tongue

So just a quick peck on the lips? She probably expects me to be a pro since im older than her.

 

[Salieri]

So just a quick peck on the lips?

depends

if she is looking normal and aware when she goes for the kiss she isnt super excited and she will probably just go for a peck

if she has those dead eyes and is going in slowly then just hold for as long as she does

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

So just a quick peck on the lips?

It depends on why you don't get the kiss

If she is clearly into you (you will know if this is the case if there is even a little doubt then lol nope) and you don't want to kiss her, that is fine If she doesn't otherwise or if she is the one that rejects and isn't a super conservative traditional girl/complete virgin then over

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Do I use tongue? Where do I put my hands? Will it come naturally?

No, waist, should do assuming you just do it

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Kiss is bare minimum for succesful date. Minimum

Otherwise you’re just on hang out with a friend

 

[Salieri]

Anyways I guess does this mean ur officially over ur oneitis?

 

[Ken]

Anyways I guess does this mean ur officially over ur oneitis?

Mostly. I still think about her daily and check her social media daily. I just dreamt about her last night.

If I actually manage to kiss this girl, she would instantly become my new oneitis.

 

[Salieri]

Mostly. I still think about her daily and check her social media daily. I just dreamt about her last night.

If I actually manage to kiss this girl, she would instantly become my new oneitis.

baby steps

did u looksmax? did u fix ur acne? i hope u kiss this girl bro. im 18 and still never even held hands, so ik what is it like to be kissless virgin

 

[Ken]

baby steps

did u looksmax? did u fix ur acne? i hope u kiss this girl bro. im 18 and still never even held hands, so ik what is it like to be kissless virgin

Yes ive been gymcelling and cleared up my 99% of my acne. I just have some hyperpigmentation that is slowly fading.

You need to hurry up. Looksmax and get on all the dating apps.

 

[Salieri]

Yes ive been gymcelling and cleared up my 99% of my acne. I just have some hyperpigmentation that is slowly fading.

You need to hurry up. Looksmax and get on all the dating apps.

still cant move on i have 100 snap streak with oneitis

 

[kalefartbomb]

Not important at all don't overthink it. But it depends on the date. If you meet for an hour over drinks then you probably won't get a kiss unless you are gigachad. If you end up spending a lot of time together, maybe going on a walk and time in private then a kiss is more likely.

 

[Deleted member 4060]

This is a lot of pressure. Im about to go see her

Im a kissless virgin. Do I use tongue? Where do I put my hands? Will it come naturally?

You're gonna suck at it at first and she will not stay around cuz of it but at least you get experience ig.

 

[Ken]

She cancelled on me last minute . She offered to reschedule.

I have a date with another 18 year old later this week. Hopefully at least one shows up

 

[Meteor21]

If she wont even kisd you at the end you probably wont get a 2nd date

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

If she doesn't beg you with her eyes to kiss her, it's done and over with. MOVE THE FUCK ON!