How important is social life?

[V_289]

I have improved a decent bit and got my areas of life in good order. Now how important is it to have a social life? being a maturecel has greatly reduced the amount of fun I used to have and the number of girls I could meet earlier.

 

[Sushifart]

It's the main way to get women, primarily LTRs. If you know no one, no one will know you type shit.

 

[V_289]

It's the main way to get women, primarily LTRs. If you know no one, no one will know you type shit.

Ik that but how to get into secure social circles? Majority of them are insecure or toxic af. The one's which aren't only have guys lmao

 

[Charm]

Not important, being a lone wolf is the only way to ascend

 

[V_289]

Not important, being a lone wolf is the only way to ascend

Ok but what if you have ascended and have no social life lmao

 

[Sushifart]

Ik that but how to get into secure social circles? Majority of them are insecure or toxic af. The one's which aren't only have guys lmao

Idk how either ngl. It's kinda hard to find those that aren't shitty. I'm in a good position rn, but that's because I've maintained my circle. If you already cultivated a good circle, I noticed bringing people in also brings their connections. Maybe do that unless you really are alone

 

[Charm]

Ok but what if you have ascended and have no social life lmao

Youll know if you ascended if foids start staring at you in public (or if you just made yourself horribly disfigured)

 

[V_289]

Youll know if you ascended if foids start staring at you in public (or if you just made yourself horribly disfigured)

I get a lot of compliments from foids who have seen me after a while. Only problem is they're not a part of my everyday life, so no LTR's with them.

 

[V_289]

Youll know if you ascended if foids start staring at you in public (or if you just made yourself horribly disfigured)

Also majority of them are insecure af and date ugly dudes, so they think I'm self absorbed or a narcy when they see I'm jacked.

 

[Charm]

Also majority of them are insecure af and date ugly dudes, so they think I'm self absorbed or a narcy when they see I'm jacked.

Very Patric Bateman coded

 

[V_289]

Idk how either ngl. It's kinda hard to find those that aren't shitty. I'm in a good position rn, but that's because I've maintained my circle. If you already cultivated a good circle, I noticed bringing people in also brings their connections. Maybe do that unless you really are alone

Yeah I have a good social circle back home, it's just that I'm facing troubles as I am currently in another city for a while.

 

[V_289]

Very Patric Bateman coded

haha I wish that was not the truth, but it really is.

 

[V_289]

Y

Very Patric Bateman coded

You ever experience the same?

 

[Charm]

Y

You ever experience the same?

No not really lol only ltb are interested in me

 

[V_289]

No not really lol only ltb are interested in me

yeah but even ltb's want relationships with subhumans, not other ltn's

 

[Iooksmax]

bro that is literally the only life you should care about unless you're hunting for food

 

[V_289]

bro that is literally the only life you should care about unless you're hunting for food

didn't get you?

 

[Iooksmax]

didn't get you?

Unless you're schizoid or very autistic, having quality interpersonal relationships is highly important.

 

[V_289]

Unless you're schizoid or very autistic, having quality interpersonal relationships is highly important.

well I did not pay enough attention to that when I became a self improvementcel, I was only focused on getting jacked, earning money and getting good grades. Now how do I fix that?

 

[Quiteaspy]

Having a network basically a net from unemployment, being single, being lonely, being in an echo chamber for a long enough period of time to where it may alter your mind negatively

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I have improved a decent bit and got my areas of life in good order. Now how important is it to have a social life? being a maturecel has greatly reduced the amount of fun I used to have and the number of girls I could meet earlier.

Why has being a maturecel reduced your fun? How old are you?

 

[V_289]

Having a network basically a net from unemployment, being single, being lonely, being in an echo chamber for a long enough period of time to where it may alter your mind negatively

I meet a lot of people at work, the gym and at uni, it's just that forming something actual with them is so hard.

 

[V_289]

Why has being a maturecel reduced your fun? How old are you?

I meant maturing a lot for my age has reduced fun for me. I'm 23.

 

[Quiteaspy]

I think Jim Rohn puts it best when it pertains to relationships, you have to tend your relationships like tending to a garden. Most people at your age will already have like a friend group already, so they are not actively trying to be friendly, because as you can tell, it take effort. I find the best way to break in is to either be high energy or be personable (which requires you to take the risk of not being PC).

RN I am kind of in the same boat as well. I am in the middle of career transition so I don't know anyone from work and I am old enough to where me and my high school friends grew apart.

 

[V_289]

I think Jim Rohn puts it best when it pertains to relationships, you have to tend your relationships like tending to a garden. Most people at your age will already have like a friend group already, so they are not actively trying to be friendly, because as you can tell, it take effort. I find the best way to break in is to either be high energy or be personable (which requires you to take the risk of not being PC).

RN I am kind of in the same boat as well. I am in the middle of career transition so I don't know anyone from work and I am old enough to where me and my high school friends grew apart.

What does being PC mean? Luckily I am still good friends with people from high school.

 

[Quiteaspy]

What does being PC mean? Luckily I am still good friends with people from high school.

I mean't possibly being politically incorrect, basically making the first move away from small talk topics. If you still connect with the high school friends then you should just work from that social circle standpoint especially if you guys have not grown apart.