how long after first date before reaching out to schedule the next one?

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and do i text her or wait until she texts me? how long do i wait? and can i invite her to my dorm straight up or how do i play it? i didn't get to fuck on the first date but she agreed to come back then changed her mind bc she apparently had some event she forgot abt. after looking on IG stories a bit it's possible her event was real and not made up, so how exactly should i proceed? im also not trying to pay any money this time in case nothing ever comes of it
 
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If u didn’t hit on the first date she isn’t attracted to u…?!?!
 
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If u didn’t hit on the first date she isn’t attracted to u…?!?!
but nigga she agreed to come back but apparently had something which couldve been legit (not 100% confirmed). also she doesn't rlly seem like a whore and doesn't go out much. sry if im being ignorant but idk much about this and what it all means

also she said we can reschedule but again idfk what any of this shit means thats why im asking here so if there is any chance she will fuck i dont wanna fuck it up by approaching it wrong
 
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but nigga she agreed to come back but apparently had something which couldve been legit (not 100% confirmed). also she doesn't rlly seem like a whore and doesn't go out much. sry if im being ignorant but idk much about this and what it all means

also she said we can reschedule but again idfk what any of this shit means thats why im asking here so if there is any chance she will fuck i dont wanna fuck it up by approaching it wrong
I wish u get her 👍
 
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wait for her to text, if she doesnt she didnt enjoy the date
 
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lmk how it goes g
 
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wait for her to text, if she doesnt she didnt enjoy the date
okay and how long should i wait before moving on with my life/how long will she wait before she texts (usually)
 
wait for her to text, if she doesnt she didnt enjoy the date
and yeah i think this is probably the way to go now that i think about it because she did say herself that we would reschedule so it's expected she at least sends a thank you over text for me taking her out and if shes serious asks me if i wanna hang out again some time
 
yes and also move on rn while she doesnt text. dont ever get attached bro. Goodluck!
 
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GUYS SHE ASKED ME TO HANG OUT WTFFFFFFFF SHE MESSAGED FIRST AND EVERYTHING HOWWWW
 
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JUST BE MTN THEORY NIGGERS
 
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@seroklite222
 
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wait wtf do i say now she just asked me if i wanna hang out this week and gave some days so i just invite her directly to my room? i honestly dont feel like fucking going through more shit again/going outside to do random bullshit
 
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wait wtf do i say now she just asked me if i wanna hang out this week and gave some days so i just invite her directly to my room? i honestly dont feel like fucking going through more shit again/going outside to do random bullshit
damn dont tell me u had no plan for what to do if she actually reached out 😭🙏
 
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GUYS SHE ASKED ME TO HANG OUT WTFFFFFFFF SHE MESSAGED FIRST AND EVERYTHING HOWWWW
Happy Yes It Is GIF
 
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damn dont tell me u had no plan for what to do if she actually reached out 😭🙏
well we were supposed to go to my room afterwards but she decided to delay after agreeing initially so now i have the opportunity to stick with the plan but im not sure if itll be weird to just straight up ask "so you wanna just come over and hang out in my dorm?" like what exactly do i say to play it off as chill
 
well we were supposed to go to my room afterwards but she decided to delay after agreeing initially so now i have the opportunity to stick with the plan but im not sure if itll be weird to just straight up ask "so you wanna just come over and hang out in my dorm?" like what exactly do i say to play it off as chill
If you got anything to actually do in your dorm besides fuckin u can invite her to come over and do that. Of course the implication is that y'all gon fuck but if you ain't hit yet you at least gotta try to keep it somewhat classy 💀
 
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6'1"-6'2" frauded but she thinks im 5'10" somehow so i guess 5'10"
height inflation so bad they are deflating actual heights 😢😢
 
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alr boys shes coming over @TerminatorGenisys9
 
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How did it go? Sunday night before finals I need the strategy bro
we are meeting in the coming days but i think we both know how it'll go. i mean why else would u come over to someones dorm tho if i dont slay i might be the biggest autist on here

the strategy is find a girl just as weird/awkward as you and maybe be urself too (only works if she likes u enough for your looks ofc). i was the most chill ass mf on the date, mostly through the help of baclofen, pregab, and semax/selank, so i could basically say whatever i wanted and it would just be taken at face value. i also hightrustmaxxed my coloring and features so that helped too.

inb4 she comes over and says some shit about how she only sees us as friends and that she genuinely just wanted to chill in my room. actual ropefuel but ill lyk fs
 
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we are meeting in the coming days but i think we both know how it'll go. i mean why else would u come over to someones dorm tho if i dont slay i might be the biggest autist on here

the strategy is find a girl just as weird/awkward as you and maybe be urself too (only works if she likes u enough for your looks ofc). i was the most chill ass mf on the date, mostly through the help of baclofen, pregab, and semax/selank, so i could basically say whatever i wanted and it would just be taken at face value. i also hightrustmaxxed my coloring and features so that helped too.

inb4 she comes over and says some shit about how she only sees us as friends and that she genuinely just wanted to chill in my room. actual ropefuel but ill lyk fs
How much were u flirting on the date?
 
How much were u flirting on the date?
Not much we just had a normal chat but I think implied that alone time in a dorm room = sex or at least something sexual unless there is some other way for her to interpret it
 
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Not much we just had a normal chat but I think implied that alone time in a dorm room = sex or at least something sexual unless there is some other way for her to interpret it
Do u have no roommate? Also what size is ur bed like ur genuinely my only hope for helping me slay in the dorms cause i have to climb to get onto my bed i have no tv for a girl to come cuddle and say we’re gonna watch something. The only slay is going to hers for me
 
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Wait one day
 
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Do u have no roommate? Also what size is ur bed like ur genuinely my only hope for helping me slay in the dorms cause i have to climb to get onto my bed i have no tv for a girl to come cuddle and say we’re gonna watch something. The only slay is going to hers for me
Nah none. Beds a twin size so it’s a tight fit but we can both fit on it if we rlly wanted to though yeah it’s a bit small to fuck her on. I got no tv so we gotta watch on my laptop on my desk then I guess transfer it over to the bed once it gets boring tho I should get a tv or monitor so we can watch from the bed
 
Nah none. Beds a twin size so it’s a tight fit but we can both fit on it if we rlly wanted to though yeah it’s a bit small to fuck her on. I got no tv so we gotta watch on my laptop on my desk then I guess transfer it over to the bed once it gets boring tho I should get a tv or monitor so we can watch from the bed
If ur bed isn’t high up then id say yeah buy a tv. But the laptop move is pretty smart idk why i didnt think of that 😭
 
Day after be like hey had fun lmk if you are down to have another one
 
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and do i text her or wait until she texts me? how long do i wait? and can i invite her to my dorm straight up or how do i play it? i didn't get to fuck on the first date but she agreed to come back then changed her mind bc she apparently had some event she forgot abt. after looking on IG stories a bit it's possible her event was real and not made up, so how exactly should i proceed? im also not trying to pay any money this time in case nothing ever comes of it
Niggas is asking on wrong forum
FUCKING RETARD

Watch situation and how it goes, IMO Wait at least 5 days, then see how she is feeling, make sure to catch if she is happy or on periods, you do not wanna go on date with women when they are on periods, observe and decide.
if you can not do this much its over
 
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and do i text her or wait until she texts me? how long do i wait? and can i invite her to my dorm straight up or how do i play it? i didn't get to fuck on the first date but she agreed to come back then changed her mind bc she apparently had some event she forgot abt. after looking on IG stories a bit it's possible her event was real and not made up, so how exactly should i proceed? im also not trying to pay any money this time in case nothing ever comes of it
She’s not gonna let you hit nigga just give up and ldar already 😂😂😂
 
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Not much we just had a normal chat but I think implied that alone time in a dorm room = sex or at least something sexual unless there is some other way for her to interpret it
Did you kiss her atleasr
 
Nah none. Beds a twin size so it’s a tight fit but we can both fit on it if we rlly wanted to though yeah it’s a bit small to fuck her on. I got no tv so we gotta watch on my laptop on my desk then I guess transfer it over to the bed once it gets boring tho I should get a tv or monitor so we can watch from the bed
IF SHE WAS INTERESTED IN YOU, SHE WOULD BE THE ONE REACHING OUT TO YOU TO MEET AGAIN.

God dudes are so desperate these days. Stop dating before you've looksmaxxed
 
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What would you say
He should slowly talk it out with her, to see if she liked it, indirectly.
Being direct will not be beneficial, he can go on another date after like 5-7days
 
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IF SHE WAS INTERESTED IN YOU, SHE WOULD BE THE ONE REACHING OUT TO YOU TO MEET AGAIN.

God dudes are so desperate these days. Stop dating before you've looksmaxxed
NIGGA YOU CAN LOOKSMAX ALL YOU WANT AND STILL GET NO BITCHES
LOOKSMAX AS IF YOU CAN MAX ANYTHING OTHER THEN FUCKING

HYGIENE
LEAN
AND MAYBE SOFTMAX YOUR BROWS AND COLORING :forcedsmile:

Ltn will always be ltn if he is not obese:hnghn:
 
The thing is if you didn't even kiss her on first she is playing games with you(bcos not attracted enough), if you wanna play along kiss her on second and sex on third, I think it's not gonna go well for you if you push for sex unless she makes it obvious she wants ir
 
NIGGA YOU CAN LOOKSMAX ALL YOU WANT AND STILL GET NO BITCHES
LOOKSMAX AS IF YOU CAN MAX ANYTHING OTHER THEN FUCKING

HYGIENE
LEAN
AND MAYBE SOFTMAX YOUR BROWS AND COLORING :forcedsmile:

Ltn will always be ltn if he is not obese:hnghn:
You're a dumbass, you can literally go pay $50k right now to become 6'5. Just because ur lazy and cba to do anything doesn't mean everyone else has to be
 
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