How long after you have sex, should you contact a girl?

[delta7]

Met a girl from Okcupid 12 days ago and we fucked in my car. She was petite and really feminine and submissive, sexy body. It's been 12 days of no contact from neither me or the girl. She still hasn't unmatched me from Okcupid which leads me to this.... If I was bad at fucking her or she did'nt like the sex, wouldn't she have already unmatched? I'm pretty sure I dicked her down pretty good. I watched some yt videos and researched on what one should usually do and just followed some redpilled shit on not contacting and letting the girl contact first. Is this the correct approach? @Amnesia help me out broski

 

[Deleted member 5683]

Go mgtow

 

[delta7]

Go mgtow

I'm basically MGTOW except I have no contact with the opposite sex except for sex

 

[Deleted member 5683]

I'm basically MGTOW except I have no contact with the opposite sex except for sex

Go monk mode

 

[delta7]

Go monk mode

It's been a week since I jerked off. I want to release my cum.. don't know if I should booty call the girl again

 

[Roping Subhuman]

50 years.

 

[SMVbender]

12 days is way too long you

 

[BigBiceps]

Wtf just contact her. Don't think too much in to it.

 

[Deleted member 5683]

It's been a week since I jerked off. I want to release my cum.. don't know if I should booty call the girl again

Cut off ur dick

 

[Amnesia]

12 days wtf

Guess u both thought it was just a one time thing. That or just strictly hit each other up every so often for sex. Try hitting her up next time you're horny and set up a bangout if she's receptive then you both are ok with it being FWB

 

[delta7]

12 days wtf

Guess u both thought it was just a one time thing. That or just strictly hit each other up every so often for sex. Try hitting her up next time you're horny and set up a bangout if she's receptive then you both are ok with it being FWB

I did'nt want to come off as desperate contacting her so fast. I kinda wanted to turn it into a FWB type situation. idk what's on her mind. For it to last longer, wouldnt taking longer gaps work better?

 

[Amnesia]

I did'nt want to come off as desperate contacting her so fast. I kinda wanted to turn it into a FWB type situation. idk what's on her mind. For it to last months, wouldnt taking longer gaps work better?

You're overthinking this man, it wont last at ALL if u take too long to contact her. In fact she might not even respond at this point i u hit her up. Women have such amazingly short attention spans that she might have already forgotten or lost interest in u

 

[delta7]

You're overthinking this man, it wont last at ALL if u take too long to contact her. In fact she might not even respond at this point i u hit her up. Women have such amazingly short attention spans that she might have already forgotten or lost interest in u

Iv'e gained 8 lbs since I last saw her. Another reason why I hesitated to contact. Feel like a bloated fat fuck in my face. Need to fast before I contact her again

 

[Amnesia]

Iv'e gained 8 lbs since I last saw her. Another reason why I hesitated to contact. Feel like a bloated fat fuck in my face. Need to fast before I contact her again

Haha I know that feel dude, I want to lock myself away and avoid girls if I know I have gained a few pounds since seeing them

 

[anthropology pill]

You already fucked up by waiting this long
You can only come back now with an insanely nt chat convo if you are not out-gling her that is

 

[delta7]

You're overthinking this man, it wont last at ALL if u take too long to contact her. In fact she might not even respond at this point i u hit her up. Women have such amazingly short attention spans that she might have already forgotten or lost interest in u

Wouldn't me contacting her first put me in the submissive position? IMO, the girl should always contact first after sex that is. This puts her in the submissive position which allows you to fuck her brains out even better. If she doesn't contact, than fuck her... move on to the next

 

[Amnesia]

Wouldn't me contacting her first put me in the submissive position? IMO, the girl should always contact first after sex that is. This puts her in the submissive position which allows you to fuck her brains out even better. If she doesn't contact, than fuck her... move on to the next

Women have a trillion options at all times, even GL guys have to initiate most the time nowadays. But if u want to hold out thats fine too, just accept that u might and prob wont ever hear from her again

 

[jackthenerd]

12 days is too long, she's already forgot you at this point.

 

[Finalchad]

Ask her about a meeting. Maybe too late though. Shouldve contacted her like 4 days later max

 

[delta7]

Women have a trillion options at all times, even GL guys have to initiate most the time nowadays. But if u want to hold out thats fine too, just accept that u might and prob wont ever hear from her again

Thoughts on this advice?

12 days is too long, she's already forgot you at this point.

It's the opposite. Girls think about you more during silence because they're more emotion based than us men who are logical. This is a game at this point to see who loses and contacts first I think.

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