Gustav20
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Last Wednesday, I had homecoming. The homecoming setup by the school was already finished, so when I went home to grab the alcohol, I ran into my dad. He had a bouquet of flowers that he was supposed to give to my mother, but instead he gave them to me and told me to make a girl happy.
Later, at the after-party, I carried the flowers around for about 20–30 minutes. I got extremely drunk and ended up giving them to a cute girl who I already knew had a crush on me. She was incredibly happy and hugged me nonstop. She was a little drunk as well, but she could still stand straight, so she was still mostly thinking clearly.
I blacked out and woke up to a drunk call, but I also saw pictures of her kissing me, hugging me constantly, and looking super happy. I even woke up to a message saying, “Are you okay? And thanks so much for the flowers
.”
Now I’m wondering: how long should you wait, in a situation like this and in general, before giving flowers to a girl if you want them to have a big effect like this? And no, I’m not a lover boy—I had never really spoken to this girl before. But after seeing how effective flowers can be, I’m curious: how much time should there be between giving flowers to different girls?
Later, at the after-party, I carried the flowers around for about 20–30 minutes. I got extremely drunk and ended up giving them to a cute girl who I already knew had a crush on me. She was incredibly happy and hugged me nonstop. She was a little drunk as well, but she could still stand straight, so she was still mostly thinking clearly.
I blacked out and woke up to a drunk call, but I also saw pictures of her kissing me, hugging me constantly, and looking super happy. I even woke up to a message saying, “Are you okay? And thanks so much for the flowers

.”Now I’m wondering: how long should you wait, in a situation like this and in general, before giving flowers to a girl if you want them to have a big effect like this? And no, I’m not a lover boy—I had never really spoken to this girl before. But after seeing how effective flowers can be, I’m curious: how much time should there be between giving flowers to different girls?