How Long Without Sex To Claim You're An Incel?

[Foreverbrad]

So what's the consensus here, is my 4 month dry spell valid for inceldom?

 

[khvirgin]

Virginity resets everyday

 

[Scammer]

Realistically virginity resets every month

 

[Foreverbrad]

Virginity resets everyday

I feel this, I almost added a "if you can't have sex on demand you're an incel" option but it didn't seem right.

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

3 years imo

 

[Deleted member 15099]

one hour

 

[sergeant blackpill]

If you're not a virgin then you aren't incel, simple as.

 

[Deleted member 1507]

It's not an accurate measurement for inceldom

 

[TrestIsBest]

It's not an accurate measurement for inceldom

What isn't?

 

[Deleted member 1507]

What isn't?

How long you spent without sex

 

[Deleted member 1507]

A guy who doesn't get laid for a few months because he doesn't try or is focused on an important project but still looks decent and is NT can't be considered incel.
A guy who tried dating for years and has to resort to hookers once a week is still an incel despite having sex regularly.

 

[metagross]

Incel means "Involuntary celibate". - Celibacy means that you don't get sexual activity for an extended period of time. I have read online that this can mean one year to a lifetime.


So I would say, 1 year no sex (and not avoiding it voluntarily) = incel

 

[Deleted member 11550]

i lost my virginity to a prostitute and glad I did. Sex is overrated imo, too overstimulating for me.

 

[Deleted member 11550]

escorts are great, idk how tf ppl willingly choose to be virgin if there is experienced girls that can give you head for a small amount of cash.

 

[Deleted member 1507]

i lost my virginity to a prostitute and glad I did. Sex is overrated imo, too overstimulating for me.

escorts are great, idk how tf ppl willingly choose to be virgin if there is experienced girls that can give you head for a small amount of cash.

Sounds like cope to me

 

[thereallegend]

6 - 12 months

 

[randomuser2407]

It's not about whether you're a virgin or not, it's about whether or not you have actually tried having no standards and just aiming to get laid, and if you even care that much about sex in the first place, or you just want a meaningful relationship instead (which is hard to come by nowadays).

In my case, I have seen that if I lower my standards, I can have sex with women of average looks but I'm not that desperate, so I'm a volcel, but only in the sense that I have standards and I'm not desperate enough to have sex with low quality women. I am patient enough to wait until I find women that I am actually attracted to.

I think that a lot of us are in that same situation, it's not that no women are attracted to us but the women that we want to sleep with are not interested, or they only want it within a relationship. If that meant we are incels, then the vast majority of men are incels so I guess it's a subjective thing.

TL;DR: To me, a true incel is someone who is so fat that even fat women don't want to have sex with him or date him.

 

[Foreverbrad]

It's not about whether you're a virgin or not, it's about whether or not you have actually tried having no standards and just aiming to get laid, and if you even care that much about sex in the first place, or you just want a meaningful relationship instead (which is hard to come by nowadays).

In my case, I have seen that if I lower my standards, I can have sex with women of average looks but I'm not that desperate, so I'm a volcel, but only in the sense that I have standards and I'm not desperate enough to have sex with low quality women. I am patient enough to wait until I find women that I am actually attracted to.

I think that a lot of us are in that same situation, it's not that no women are attracted to us but the women that we want to sleep with are not interested, or they only want it within a relationship. If that meant we are incels, then the vast majority of men are incels so I guess it's a subjective thing.

TL;DR: To me, a true incel is someone who is so fat that even fat women don't want to have sex with him or date him.

Honestly I have no standards but sometimes I struggle to get 300lb whales and sometimes 8/10 just fall into my lap. I'm currently in the struggling phase. The last time I got laid I fucked two other girls in the same night. It's nuts.

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

escorts are great, idk how tf ppl willingly choose to be virgin if there is experienced girls that can give you head for a small amount of cash.

Idk where to get them tbh

 

[Hueless]

Over if ur not a slayer by 15