How many dates should you go on a girl with before you ask her to be your girlfriend?

[5OuttaTen]

Been seeing a girl a few times and I’m extremely possessive and don’t want her seeing other guys so I’m wondering how many dates is right before I ask her to go steady

 

[Deleted member 8608]

0

 

[5OuttaTen]

0

Now how on earth

 

[Deleted member 12330]

Idk we're both inkel @Übermogger

 

[Deleted member 18522]

Depends

 

[badamj]

within the first few dates probably

 

[andy9432]

First date. If its not by first date, ur just an another option for her.

 

[Gonthar]

After you bang her...
But even so, "officializing" your relationship seems like a beta move, you should act and make it look like things just happen spontaneously between you two - you go out, have fun, you touch, kiss, cuddle, have sex eventually, etc...
Asking her to become your "girlfriend" before sex, puts you in a unfavorable position - she basically has you by the balls now, and will use that to squeeze advantages from you.

 

[5OuttaTen]

After you bang her...
But even so, "officializing" your relationship seems like a beta move, you should act and make it look like things just happen spontaneously between you two - you go out, have fun, you touch, kiss, cuddle, have sex eventually, etc...
Asking her to become your "girlfriend" before sex, puts you in an unfavorable position - she basically has you by the balls now, and will use that to squeeze advantages from you.

I want her but I dont need her, if she tries any manipulative crap like that I’ll cut her off

 

[5OuttaTen]

within the first few dates probably

Yeah I was thinking maybe I’ll do it on like the 4th or 5th depending on how things go

 

[DoctorPMA]

I would officially only do it after we smash. Just tell her you don't want her to see other guys and see how she reacts