How many incels here have actually tried to self improve?

[user1728482728]

I’m not talking about shit like getting a haircut or showering (although that should obviously be done)

I’m talking actual hard self improving

Religious skincare routine and healthy diet with no fast food.

Going to gym for years, being muscular with 12% body fat.

Getting dripped out with a full new wardrobe.

Getting an valuable college degree.

Making 6 figures.

Nofap and norporn.

Waking up at 6 am and going for runs.

Picking up a new hobby where you can meet people (tennis, skateboarding, bowling, DnD, sailing)

 

[user1728482728]

My theory is that incels are just narcissists who want to get pussy with no effort.

It’s very unlikely that someone would be unable to get a girlfriend if they actually tried hard.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

My journey started 3 years ago. It's still ongoing. I have no more hope left tho.

 

[Allandro]

I’m not talking about shit like getting a haircut or showering (although that should obviously be done)

I’m talking actual hard self improving

Religious skincare routine and healthy diet with no fast food.

Going to gym for years, being muscular with 12% body fat.

Getting dripped out with a full new wardrobe.

Getting an valuable college degree.

Making 6 figures.

Nofap and norporn.

Waking up at 6 am and going for runs.

I cleared my acne and now I am debloating, I'll slay in summer 2023

 

[user1728482728]

My journey started 3 years ago. It's still ongoing. I have no more hope left tho

Have you tried everything I listed?

 

[Zer0/∞]

No self improvement for my lack of forward growth

 

[Deleted member 2507]

I’m not talking about shit like getting a haircut or showering (although that should obviously be done)

I’m talking actual hard self improving

Religious skincare routine and healthy diet with no fast food.

Going to gym for years, being muscular with 12% body fat.

Getting dripped out with a full new wardrobe.

Getting an valuable college degree.

Making 6 figures.

Nofap and norporn.

Waking up at 6 am and going for runs.

Picking up a new hobby where you can meet people (tennis, skateboarding, bowling, DnD, sailing)

No. Let me rot

 

[user1728482728]

I cleared my acne and now I am debloating, I'll slay in summer 2023

Good luck, diet is so important

I used to eat 3k calories of fast food every day and smoke a pack of cigs and drink a ton of monster and Red Bull

I am finally trying to hold myself accountable to live more healthily

 

[Deleted member 21340]

self improvement is such a meme

- surgery
- low bf%
- roids

thats all you have to do to "self improve" or ascend
its just whether you have the money to go through with it

 

[user1728482728]

No. Let me rot

Then why are you a LOOKSMAXXING site dedsrs

 

[Deleted member 2507]

Then why are you a LOOKSMAXXING site dedsrs

Bcz I still want a hot face

 

[Deleted member 22063]

The fact that you'd consciously need to do this is proof of being a low value inkwell. Most people in regard to girls aren't on some hardcore Bateman routine to ascend. Of course you'll have to do it if you're ugly. A major issue people have is being removed from any discernable incentive structure. So much of the self improvement you've described is just wasting time. Lack of success isn't strictly laziness at least among PSLers, it's just too much effort in the wrong places, not being able to find the right path.

 

[Deleted member 21766]

I’m not talking about shit like getting a haircut or showering (although that should obviously be done)

I’m talking actual hard self improving

Religious skincare routine and healthy diet with no fast food.

Leanmaxxed from 196 depressed LDAR fatcel to 138lb. Have yet to improve skin but will get tret this week.

Going to gym for years, being muscular with 12% body fat.

Getting dripped out with a full new wardrobe.

Getting an valuable college degree.

Intend to

Making 6 figures.

Nofap and norporn.

Not self improvement imo. I can’t contain myself when I see cute breedable dark skinned women.

Waking up at 6 am and going for runs.

In the morning and before I head to sleep

My obvious route now to being looksMAXXED is gym and hardmaxxes. I know my failos and what needs fixed.

 

[user1728482728]

self improvement is such a meme

- surgery
- low bf%
- roids

thats all you have to do to "self improve" or ascend
its just whether you have the money to go through with it

Giga cope

Getting an education and good job and social circle is so important

No girl wants to date a weird loner who browses fringe Internet forums until 3 am every night

 

[Deleted member 21766]

self improvement is such a meme

- surgery
- low bf%
- roids

thats all you have to do to "self improve" or ascend
its just whether you have the money to go through with it

 

[Allandro]

Good luck, diet is so important

I used to eat 3k calories of fast food every day and smoke a pack of cigs and drink a ton of monster and Red Bull

I am finally trying to hold myself accountable to live more healthily

I am not fat, I just have a lot of fat stored in my cheeks...

 

[user1728482728]

self improvement is such a meme

- surgery
- low bf%
- roids

thats all you have to do to "self improve" or ascend
its just whether you have the money to go through with it

Roids are the biggest cope on this forum. Narcissistic incels want to get muscular with no effort.

They make you bald, bloated, and age you 10+ years.

Natty lifting mogs so hard.

 

[Deleted member 2507]

OP is the dumbest and most autistic troll on this planet with (likely) hormonal issues. He flip flops between incels needing to be summarily executed for the greater good of humanity and they have zero chance at life & incels should take care of their skin so they can maybe get pussy.

 

[Deleted member 21340]

Giga cope

Getting an education and good job and social circle is so important

No girl wants to date a weird loner who browses fringe Internet forums until 3 am every night

You can do both

 

[Deleted member 23017]

Have you tried everything I listed?

Surgery is what Im getting soon

 

[Deleted member 22063]

OP is the dumbest and most autistic troll on this planet with (likely) hormonal issues. He flip flops between incels needing to be executed for the greater good and they have zero chance at life & incels should take care of their skin so they can maybe get pussy.

He's probably an inkwell himself. It's a common pattern of behavior to preemptively claim success after just trying or not even trying just PLANNING like fatcels shitting on other fatcels after dieting for like three days. Maybe OP will let us know when it all works out.

 

[user1728482728]

OP is the dumbest and most autistic troll on this planet with (likely) hormonal issues. He flip flops between incels needing to be summarily executed for the greater good of humanity and they have zero chance at life & incels should take care of their skin so they can maybe get pussy.

I’m a troll cause I’m trying to preach self improvement? How old are you?

I let blackpill theory rot my brain and I ended up being a friendless NEET I’m 25 and never had a gf and have done nothing with my life

Now I realize I have to start actually working hard to make my life better. You can’t expect things to fall in my lap. You need to go out and take it.

 

[Deleted member 2507]

I’m a troll cause I’m trying to preach self improvement? How old are you?

I let blackpill theory rot my brain and I ended up being a friendless NEET I’m 25 and never had a gf and have done nothing with my life

Now I realize I have to start actually working hard to make my life better. You can’t expect things to fall in my lap. You need to go out and take it.

I am 16. Thanks for the motivation though big bro. Let’s rise and grind and get this pussy.

 

[Deleted member 21340]

Narcissistic incels want to get muscular with no effort

yes

They make you bald, bloated, and age you 10+ years.

only if youre a retard who has no understanding of organic compounds/their side effects and injects the entire pharmacy

Natty lifting mogs so hard.

only if you want to look dyel in a shirt all year round

 

[user1728482728]

He's probably an inkwell himself. It's a common pattern of behavior to preemptively claim success after just trying or not even trying just PLANNING like fatcels shitting on other fatcels after dieting for like three days. Maybe OP will let us know when it all works out.

Im not a truecel because I’ve gotten casual sex once in a while from dating apps. But I have zero appeal as a romantic parter. No girl has ever wanted to see me for more than a few dates.

Right now I’m fat, bald, broke, bad hygiene, and lazy. But I still managed to pull a cute girl just a few months ago. It made me realize if I fix all these things in my life I actually can get a hot girl to wan to date me.

 

[Deleted member 21467]

I’m not talking about shit like getting a haircut or showering (although that should obviously be done)

I’m talking actual hard self improving

Religious skincare routine and healthy diet with no fast food.

Going to gym for years, being muscular with 12% body fat.

Getting dripped out with a full new wardrobe.

Getting an valuable college degree.

Making 6 figures.

Nofap and norporn.

Waking up at 6 am and going for runs.

Picking up a new hobby where you can meet people (tennis, skateboarding, bowling, DnD, sailing)

Self improvement is cope.

nothing you do will stop you from being ugly I do this self improvement shit as a hobby

 

[Deleted member 2507]

Im not a truecel because I’ve gotten casual sex once in a while from dating apps. But I have zero appeal as a romantic parter. No girl has ever wanted to see me for more than a few dates.

Right now I’m fat, bald, broke, bad hygiene, and lazy. But I still managed to pull a cute girl just a few months ago. It made me realize if I fix all these things in my life I actually can get a hot girl to wan to date me.

Hop on DNP, get a hairpiece, apply at a job, go to the dentist for a deep cleaning, & hop on adderall. Done all your problems are solved.


Too bad you’re still an incel & will never ever so much as even get the chance to smell a molecule of a females perfume you fucking incel faggot. Rot. Seethe. Kys. Round up all incels

 

[Deleted member 22063]

Im not a truecel because I’ve gotten casual sex once in a while from dating apps. But I have zero appeal as a romantic parter. No girl has ever wanted to see me for more than a few dates.

Right now I’m fat, bald, broke, bad hygiene, and lazy. But I still managed to pull a cute girl just a few months ago. It made me realize if I fix all these things in my life I actually can get a hot girl to wan to date me.

Ok that's great. I've tried much more than you and I've gotten nowhere. Few people are legitimately helpless and lazy, they just don't know where to start or they're wasting time. There is no clear incentive structure. All this effort for such a fleeting chance. After Lefort 5 I MIGHT ascend, after becoming a roided chad I might, I might I might I might. It's all so speculative.

 

[Deleted member 21340]

Im not a truecel because I’ve gotten casual sex once in a while from dating apps. But I have zero appeal as a romantic parter. No girl has ever wanted to see me for more than a few dates.

Right now I’m fat, bald, broke, bad hygiene, and lazy. But I still managed to pull a cute girl just a few months ago. It made me realize if I fix all these things in my life I actually can get a hot girl to wan to date me.

the stuff you listed in the op is the bare minimum retard
any incel with half a brain already has a skincare routine, goes to the gym frequently, studycels etc
but at the end of the day, its cope

hardmaxxing is the only viable way of ascension for alot of us

 

[rand anon]

I'm fully softmaxxed

 

[user1728482728]

I am 16. Thanks for the motivation though big bro. Let’s rise and grind and get this pussy.

You need to totally change your whole mindset unless you want to end up having a shitty lonely life.

Have you heard of a self fulfilling prophecy? It is a prediction that comes true as a result of a persons' belief or prediction.

If you tell yourself “it’s over”, then you have a convenient excuse to give up and not even try. And then it does actually end up being “over”. Thus fulfilling your prophecy.

But why not believe that your life can get better? Why not adopt that mindset instead? What do you have to lose by trying?

If you start to believe in the blackpill then you ironically end up dooming yourself.

 

[user1728482728]

Ok that's great. I've tried much more than you and I've gotten nowhere. Few people are legitimately helpless and lazy, they just don't know where to start or they're wasting time. There is no clear incentive structure. All this effort for such a fleeting chance. After Lefort 5 I MIGHT ascend, after becoming a roided chad I might, I might I might I might. It's all so speculative.

Do you have a job? Height? Dm me pics if you’re comfortable.

I find it hard to believe it’s truly over unless you legit have bottom 1% genetics.

Also, hard maxxing is an inefficient use of money. In my opinion it’s better to use money to geomax, a low tier normie in the west would be chad levels in Manila

 

[NordicMaxxer]

I’m a troll cause I’m trying to preach self improvement? How old are you?

I let blackpill theory rot my brain and I ended up being a friendless NEET I’m 25 and never had a gf and have done nothing with my life

Now I realize I have to start actually working hard to make my life better. You can’t expect things to fall in my lap. You need to go out and take it.

Mirin the mindset. You a virgin? Have you ever had a job or any subject from uni?

Good list for life success.

 

[user1728482728]

Hop on DNP, get a hairpiece, apply at a job, go to the dentist for a deep cleaning, & hop on adderall. Done all your problems are solved.


Too bad you’re still an incel & will never ever so much as even get the chance to smell a molecule of a females perfume you fucking incel faggot. Rot. Seethe. Kys. Round up all incels

I’m on finasteride I hope it can fix my diffuse thinning

DNP is unhealthy and shortcut. I won’t do it. I am trying to get a job but I’m too anxious about my looks now I think next year I will be able to start working.

 

[Deleted member 24444]

Dude 90% of this site are MTN-HTN+jacked this is the wrong place to write this type of stuff

 

[user1728482728]

Mirin the mindset. You a virgin? Have you ever had a job or any subject from uni?

Good list for life success.

I was incel until almost 21 years old. I was rejected by a girl I had a crush on in middle school and it destroyed my self esteem and though I was ugly. I also had an abusive neglectful family. I was so scared of girls. The whole time I was actually a prettyboy slayer. I had tons of girls in my high school thirsting for me but I was too autistic I never noticed their IOIs.

When I finally got on tinder I ended up slaying a lot. Then when I finally met a girl I loved I told her I loved her and I thought I finally had a girlfriend she brutally broke up with me and destroyed my life.

I fell even deeper into blackpill and thought I needed to roidmax and hardmax to get girls to date me, the whole entire time I was actually extremely attractive it’s just I was fat, and never showered, and had a horrible personality, jfl.

 

[Time]

I have autism which isn't something that goes away with self-improvement.

 

[Lawton88]

My theory is that incels are just narcissists who want to get pussy with no effort.

It’s very unlikely that someone would be unable to get a girlfriend if they actually tried hard.

Not sure how hard many are trying but very few females in the west want to mess with a 4/10 or lower looks guy.

 

[Deleted member 24586]

I could ascend easily if I committed myself to self improvement since I already do okay on tinder despite being out of shape and unkept since the lockdown. I'm already self improving (dickmaxxing and gymaxxing) but I'm in no rush to fuck a girl, maybe my hormones are fucked idk.

 

[Deleted member 24586]

Also jfl this site is mostly autistic mtn and htns, ask this on incels.is

 

[user1728482728]

Not sure how hard many are trying but very few females want to mess with a 4/10 or lower looks guy.

And yet most 4/10s end up getting laid and getting cute gfs

It’s very possible. Is it hard, sure. But if you really want something you won’t let a little challenge stop you.

I have autism which isn't something that goes away with self-improvement.

I guarantee I’m probably more autistic than you. The first 10 or so dates I ever went on, I was so awkward all the girls bailed after like 15 minutes cause I made them so scared with my autism. It really did hurt me. But I never really gave up.

Do you try to put yourself in uncomfortable situations? Try going on a solo trip. Staying at hostels. Going to bars and talking to people. Go on dates.

 

[Gargantuan]

I have done quite a bit, at least with regard to my looks.

Been going to the gym for roughly 3.5 years straight and got a good body out of it
Dropped down to 12% bf and been around that level for a few years now
Fixed my paleness/colouring by first taking beta carotene and eventually transitioning to tanning+MT2
Got a hair transplant 2 years ago
Been trying lots of stuff with regard to skincare as well but haven't acquired the desired results yet

I used to be below average, but I'm pretty sure I look acceptable now. Nothing spectacular, but not ugly.
Of course, had I managed to actually become attractive, a lot of issues in my life would be solved or at least, greatly reduced.

However, there's a mental aspect to this as well which has been noticeably more difficult to change/improve.
To put it bluntly:

My looks aren't good enough to compensate for my disdain for society/most people (which has often left me on the brink of being a loner)
My mental state isn't good enough to fully capitalize on my improved looks (aka still not taking many chances to socialise, not putting myself out there etc.)

If I had a normie brain with my current looks OR somehow managed to improve my looks with my current mental state, I wouldn't struggle as much as I do now.

 

[Time]

The first 10 dates I ever went on, I was so awkward all the girls bailed after like 15 minutes cause I made them so scared with my autism. It really did hurt me. But I never really gave up.

Do you try to put yourself in uncomfortable situations? Try going on a solo trip. Staying at hostels. Going to bars and talking to people. Go on dates.

I probably should, but leaving my comfort zone is tough. I don't even remember the last time I talked to a girl my age.

 

[NordicMaxxer]

I was incel until almost 21 years old. I was rejected by a girl I had a crush on in middle school and it destroyed my self esteem and though I was ugly. I also had an abusive neglectful family. I was so scared of girls. The whole time I was actually a prettyboy slayer. I had tons of girls in my high school thirsting for me but I was too autistic I never noticed their IOIs.

When I finally got on tinder I ended up slaying a lot. Then when I finally met a girl I loved I told her I loved her and I thought I finally had a girlfriend she brutally broke up with me and destroyed my life.

I fell even deeper into blackpill and thought I needed to roidmax and hardmax to get girls to date me, the whole entire time I was actually extremely attractive it’s just I was fat, and never showered, and had a horrible personality, jfl.

Damn, your history has a lot of similarities to my situation.

Seems like you've rectified your delusions now and have the correct mindset to create a life you can be relatively content with.

 

[traveler]

I’m not talking about shit like getting a haircut or showering (although that should obviously be done)

I’m talking actual hard self improving

Religious skincare routine and healthy diet with no fast food.

Going to gym for years, being muscular with 12% body fat.

Getting dripped out with a full new wardrobe.

Getting an valuable college degree.

Making 6 figures.

Nofap and norporn.

Waking up at 6 am and going for runs.

Picking up a new hobby where you can meet people (tennis, skateboarding, bowling, DnD, sailing)

its over once they view the off topic section and fall into a cycle of posting here

 

[Deleted member 24586]

My looks aren't good enough to compensate for my disdain for society/most people (which has often left me on the brink of being a loner)
My mental state isn't good enough to fully capitalize on my improved looks (aka still not taking many chances to socialise, not putting myself out there etc.)

You're literally me fr

 

[khvirgin]

its over once they view the off topic section and fall into a cycle of posting here

you shouldn't even talk retard
You spent 2 years here just posting IR porn
You haven't done a single looksmax in your life

 

[Deleted member 2507]

However, there's a mental aspect to this as well which has been noticeably more difficult to change/improve.
To put it bluntly:

My looks aren't good enough to compensate for my disdain for society/most people (which has often left me on the brink of being a loner)
My mental state isn't good enough to fully capitalize on my improved looks (aka still not taking many chances to socialise, not putting myself out there etc.)

If I had a normie brain with my current looks OR somehow managed to improve my looks with my current mental state, I wouldn't struggle as much as I do now.

So true. My hatred knows no bounds and it is genuinely crippling. This isn’t something that specifically plagues incels either, at least I don’t think—but I don’t think it’s changeable. This isn’t really something that modern medicine has fixed.

 

[khvirgin]

transitioning to tanning+MT2

How its melotan?
how do you take it and do you get dark spots etc?

 

[Lawton88]

And yet most 4/10s end up getting laid and getting cute gfs

It’s very possible. Is it hard, sure. But if you really want something you won’t let a little challenge stop you.

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I guarantee I’m probably more autistic than you. The first 10 or so dates I ever went on, I was so awkward all the girls bailed after like 15 minutes cause I made them so scared with my autism. It really did hurt me. But I never really gave up.

Do you try to put yourself in uncomfortable situations? Try going on a solo trip. Staying at hostels. Going to bars and talking to people. Go on dates.

I am not incel but I see how they fare and a 4/10 or worse facial looks guy is mostly screwed in the west. Their looksmatches want nothing to do with them usually.