How many messages on tinder before you ask her out on a date?

[Ken]

Ive tried asking girls out after around 5 messages but usually get ghosted on the day of our date. I have also tried sending 20+ messages along with calling and facetime and will get flaked on last minute. Too few messages and they dont trust you, too many messages and they get bored or you say something that turns them off.

Whats a good amount of messages before asking her to meet up irl?

 

[Deleted member 17735]

5-10

 

[Ken]

5-10

5-10 messages total or 5-10 messages sent to her?

 

[the BULL]

Bro, Just give up. There isn't a Number of messages. Even if you managed to meet One of them you'd Just fuck It up. Just go to an escort to lose v

 

[Deleted member 16984]

The fastest I got a phone number and an invitation to hang out was a few minutes texting back and forth, but that's very rare

 

[Deleted member 9670]

Bro, Just give up. There isn't a Number of messages. Even if you managed to meet One of them you'd Just fuck It up. Just go to an escort to lose v

he wouldn't fuck the black girl

that's his best chance they like asians

 

[Ken]

Bro, Just give up. There isn't a Number of messages. Even if you manager to meet One of them you'd Just fuck It up. Just go to an escort to lose v

Escorts are illegal here so that isnt an option. They are only legal in one state and they cost $1000 minimum.

 

[Ken]

he wouldn't fuck the black girl

that's his best chance they like asians

I ignored her and she posted her hanging out with some other guy. She's a turbo slut. She post a different guy every day.

 

[Deleted member 17735]

5-10 messages total or 5-10 messages sent to her?

sent to her

 

[the BULL]

he wouldn't fuck the black girl

that's his best chance they like asians

Yeah, he can't do shit. Idk why he even keeps trying. I would have Just called It a day

 

[Deleted member 9670]

I ignored her and she posted her hanging out with some other guy. She's a turbo slut. She post a different guy every day.

just dont kiss her so you dont get herpes

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

tell me you're autistic without telling me you're autistic

 

[SeiGun]

asap
less than 10 or after the finishing the first topic you chatting with her

 

[Ken]

asap
less than 10 or after the finishing the first topic you chatting with her

10 total or 10 sent? Im messaging a decent looking girl right now ive sent 5 messages to her.

 

[Meteor21]

Some girls are just there for validation and attention. Some will ghost if you so much as ask for their number. Others will still go on a date if you cancel multiple times. If she's not gonna make it easy than don't bother with her

 

[SeiGun]

10 total or 10 sent? Im messaging a decent looking girl right now ive sent 5 messages to her.

why count, just ask asap, there are no magic, only your face and height

 

[rand anon]

A tinder foid messaged me first yesterday complementing me, I complemented her back and asked her out in the next text. She replied thanking me but said that she wants to know more about me first jfl there's no winning

 

[Deleted member 21146]

A tinder foid messaged me first yesterday complementing me, I complemented her back and asked her out in the next text. She replied thanking me but said that she wants to know more about me first jfl there's no winning

-what you do in a free time?
-I ROT

 

[rand anon]

-what you do in a free time?
-I ROT

I rot too, I haven't had friends since high school, and I'm too much of an autistic retard and non NT to go on any further tinder dates

@CFW432 faggot hangout with me u live in socal too

 

[TheAbyssinian]

As many as it takes to get her address then buy a crowbar, some rope and a pair of pliers

 

[Deleted member 21146]

I rot too, I haven't had friends since high school, and I'm too much of an autistic retard and non NT to go on any further tinder dates

@CFW432 faggot hangout with me u live in socal too

It's ovaa

 

[rand anon]

It's ovaa

unironically getting to my breaking point

 

[CFW432]

I rot too, I haven't had friends since high school, and I'm too much of an autistic retard and non NT to go on any further tinder dates

@CFW432 faggot hangout with me u live in socal too

Nigga I literally live in PA on the opposite side of the country, wtf you goin on about

 

[Deleted member 7580]

You’re an Asian in 2022

They expect you to be more assertive that’s why you’re getting ghosted

Just message “ayo bih come suck me off right now”