How many of you are basically orphans?

[Deleted member 17578]

I don't know. It is impossible for me to maintain relationships (friends or dating)

Well then it's good to agree how hard this is for you. How much of a challenge this is for you.

Don't undestimate it, just because others have it much easier in this regard. Because you DO NEED this.

I literally struggle to keep friends I make on here and feel disconnected from anyone I meet

and these are fellow losers, people who I have a lot in common with. Imagine how it'd be with irl normies lol

That's fucked up to hear. I think that you will be surprised that people IRL also have issues and difficulties though, even though you haven't been in a situation with them where this was shared.

There's potential tbh.

I've been opening up about my trueceldom with guys IRL and I've largely met men who have agreed with me how hard it is out there. It's a good feeling.

 

[Deleted member 80130]

Well then it's good to agree how hard this is for you. How much of a challenge this is for you.

Don't undestimate it, just because others have it much easier in this regard. Because you DO NEED this.


That's fucked up to hear. I think that you will be surprised that people IRL also have issues and difficulties though, even though you haven't been in a situation with them where this was shared.

There's potential tbh.

I've been opening up about my trueceldom with guys IRL and I've largely met men who have agreed with me how hard it is out there. It's a good feeling.

True but its hard asf to make friends

I literally just go to class and go back home, my classes are just lectures and nobody talks to each other
I may try some group later though idk

 

[Deleted member 6305]

You're not an orphan you're just European

 

[Deleted member 17578]

You're not an orphan you're just European

You're not wrong that there's problems in europe with family-life. But I am not an average case whatsoever.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

True but its hard asf to make friends

I literally just go to class and go back home, my classes are just lectures and nobody talks to each other
I may try some group later though idk

Yeah it's hard asf indeed :/

Maybe find Extracurricular groups to find connection!