How many of you have actually have a social circle irl

[Hozay]

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[gymcelalpha]

Me.

 

[Gargantuan]

I do tbh. A small one, but that's all I will ever need with regards to true friendship.

 

[Deleted member 6217]

not me tbh a really small one maybe

 

[KrissKross]

Building it and resurrecting it currently tbh

 

[JMax]

Haven’t had friends in years tbh

 

[Hozay]

Haven’t had friends in years tbh

Haven't hanged out with a group of friends since highschool, turned them away like an autist, now that im out of highschool and 21 its hard to make friends irl.

 

[JMax]

Haven't hanged out with a group of friends since highschool, turned them away like an autist, now that im out of highschool and 21 its hard to make friends irl.

Same boat. Leaves more time for gymcoping though

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Haven’t had friends in years tbh

Last time I hung out with my last friend was about 2 years ago

 

[bladeeout]

Haven't hanged out with a group of friends since highschool, turned them away like an autist, now that im out of highschool and 21 its hard to make friends irl.

Same

 

[bladeeout]

Building it and resurrecting it currently tbh

How are you building it?

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Tryna build one, but a struggle since I’m high inhib and socially anxious, but I’m much less reclusive now than I was just a year ago

 

[KrissKross]

How are you building it?

Mainly by resurrecting remenants of what I had in the past. Currently befriending a guy who has contacts who will allow me to integrate. Very aspie undertaking tbh but has to be done.

 

[Subhuman trash]

Nope too ugly

 

[bladeeout]

Mainly by resurrecting remenants of what I had in the past. Currently befriending a guy who has contacts who will allow me to integrate. Very aspie undertaking tbh but has to be done.

Ah I’ve tried to do the same somewhat but I’ve burned a lot of bridges tbh

 

[KrissKross]

Ah I’ve tried to do the same somewhat but I’ve burned a lot of bridges tbh

How did you burn the bridges

 

[bladeeout]

How did you burn the bridges

I rose in social status and basically cut them off, but then I lost all my social status and now they’re cooler and higher status than me, so they know I’m not loyal basically. Dumb of me to do that but I was young and drunk on status that took me many years to achieve

 

[KrissKross]

I rose in social status and basically cut them off, but then I lost all my social status and now they’re cooler and higher status than me, so they know I’m not loyal basically. Dumb of me to do that but I was young and drunk on status that took me many years to achieve

Yeh that was dumb move bro. How did you status maxx and why did you lose it?
Ngl it’s a hard situation you’re in if the tables have turned. You’ll look like a snivelling peasant trying to approach them from a lower position with the intent of befriending them. Status maxxing is your priority now I’d say.

 

[bladeeout]

Yeh that was dumb move bro. How did you status maxx and why did you lose it?
Ngl it’s a hard situation you’re in if the tables have turned. You’ll look like a snivelling peasant trying to approach them from a lower position with the intent of befriending them. Status maxxing is your priority now I’d say.

Just dumb popularity stuff in high school. I was captain of a sports team so that statusmaxxed me and yeah I could never beg to be friends again that would be pathetic. I don’t think I’ll ever have social circle in that sense ever again but I think I can ascend through money and looks

 

[Deleted member 9837]

I have a few close friends and a group of normal chill ones also a group of people I’ll hang out with for events and parties wouldn’t say those people are friends though

 

[JustBeCurry]

im generally friends with most people but im in a clique of band kids

 

[Arkantos]

I have friends I guess but I'm not very close with them.

 

[CommanderCope]

No. Impossible to get one in college. Everyone is so closed off in their own groups. Suifuel tbh

 

[PYT]

me. used to be about 18 of us but corona fucked us over. it was deadass a platoon and we'd usually split up to two groups of 9 or 8 and meet up afterschool.

i miss them. i miss school

 

[PYT]

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[PYT]

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[johncruz12345]

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me. used to be about 18 of us but corona fucked us over. it was deadass a platoon and we'd usually split up to two groups of 9 or 8 and meet up afterschool.

i miss them. i miss school

My friend group straight up split in half. We dont talk to the other half now.

 

[PYT]

My friend group straight up split in half. We dont talk to the other half now.

shits wild. when it's a big group it happens.

if it weren't for corona we'd all be playing basketball and hanging out with girls

 

[johncruz12345]

shits wild. when it's a big group it happens.

if it weren't for corona we'd all be playing basketball and hanging out with girls

Some stuff happened in my school. And a lot of people snaked on each other. So it just fucked everything up.

 

[Hozay]

No. Impossible to get one in college. Everyone is so closed off in their own groups. Suifuel tbh

Damn bro, and i thought it would be easier to get one in college.

 

[Tony]

my sociel circle @stuckneworleans @TsarTsar444 @cocainecowboy

 

[Hozay]

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me. used to be about 18 of us but corona fucked us over. it was deadass a platoon and we'd usually split up to two groups of 9 or 8 and meet up afterschool.

i miss them. i miss school

That video song...

 

[johncruz12345]

Ah I’ve tried to do the same somewhat but I’ve burned a lot of bridges tbh

Bro. One of my worst personality traits is I tend to burn bridges a lot. Like so many of my friends have left. Some which I never even said goodbye to.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

havent had a friend since primary school

 

[Hozay]

havent had a friend since primary school

i haven't had an actual best friend since middle school tbh lol

 

[Hozay]

I just dont know how you join a social circle when everyone is so fucking closed off, i'm not even ugly, i'm good looking, i've gotten compliments from random ppl and had girlfriends. but looks wont save you from getting a social circle when you're out of high school

 

[johncruz12345]

I still miss some of my friends from 2 years ago. Its not the same without them. Legit most of my close friends have left. I will forever cherish those moments we had together. Makes me so depressed. I hope I can build that type of friendship in the future.

 

[Deleted member 1774]

i have a lot of social circles but i also have the mauerbauertraurigkeit syndrom so it doesnt matter

 

[bladeeout]

I just dont know how you join a social circle when everyone is so fucking closed off, i'm not even ugly, i'm good looking, i've gotten compliments from random ppl and had girlfriends. but looks wont save you from getting a social circle when you're out of high school

Once the circle forms they don’t really let new people in even if they like you. It’s not you personally you just weren’t there first. After high school is a totally different game I have no idea how people make new circles after that or if it’s even possible

 

[Hozay]

Once the circle forms they don’t really let new people in even if they like you. It’s not you personally you just weren’t there first. After high school is a totally different game I have no idea how people make new circles after that or if it’s even possible

I've always thought that dude, that makes so much fucking sense.

 

[bladeeout]

Bro. One of my worst personality traits is I tend to burn bridges a lot. Like so many of my friends have left. Some which I never even said goodbye to.

Same man. Shit hurts, I don’t think I’ll ever see my old best friend ever again

 

[Hozay]

Once the circle forms they don’t really let new people in even if they like you. It’s not you personally you just weren’t there first. After high school is a totally different game I have no idea how people make new circles after that or if it’s even possible

At this point i'm just praying to god i get lucky LOL,

 

[Subhuman trash]

No. Impossible to get one in college. Everyone is so closed off in their own groups. Suifuel tbh

 

[Hozay]

Once the circle forms they don’t really let new people in even if they like you. It’s not you personally you just weren’t there first. After high school is a totally different game I have no idea how people make new circles after that or if it’s even possible

And it's like awkward trying to get into them too when everyone is already so familiar with each other and has inside jokes for example that you don't even understand.

 

[bladeeout]

And it's like awkward trying to get into them too when everyone is already so familiar with each other and has inside jokes for example that you don't even understand.

Yeah exactly. I don’t blame them for acting that way but it’s a thing where the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. If you have a circle you’re safe and you can make more friends and branch off from your circle. If you don’t have one then you just get fucked harder and harder and shut out completely

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

i have friends but i won't care much if they leave me i don't need to go outside when i go to work every day already

 

[Hozay]

bump tbh

 

[Beetlejuice]

No no no no

 

[JosephGarrot123]

None tbh I haven't left my house in 3 years

 

[Magnesium]

I have