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When I think of how many times I have had sex which I felt uncomfortable with, didn't enjoy, didn't benefit from whatsoever, was under the influence of substances while it happened, it's a lot.
I have been raped by women 10-20 times in my life.
I think maybe we need a different term for this type of rape compared to other 'more violent' types of rape, but feminists wouldn't like it. So then I can only proclaim I am also a rape-victim, in fact I have suffered more rape than most women ever have or will have.
I think the pain and hurt is real, it's not a joke. I regret most sex I ever had and I envy virgins.
How many times have you been raped by women and how did it affect you?
I think my worst was on a (bad) date I had when I was a young and inexperienced teenager, where she pushed herself onto me. I didn't like the date, didn't like her, didn't find her attractive, but I had sex out of thinking this was normal behavior somehow and wanting to adhere to standards and the pressure she put on me. I just did what she wanted me to do.
She raped me.
I never told anyone as I was too ashamed. My male friends told me sex was good so I just pretended that I liked it instead.
Anyone else has similar pain?
I honestly wish I never had sex. Yet I struggle with the fact I had it many (50+) times in my life and a lot of it was rape like this.
I have been raped by women 10-20 times in my life.
I think maybe we need a different term for this type of rape compared to other 'more violent' types of rape, but feminists wouldn't like it. So then I can only proclaim I am also a rape-victim, in fact I have suffered more rape than most women ever have or will have.
I think the pain and hurt is real, it's not a joke. I regret most sex I ever had and I envy virgins.
How many times have you been raped by women and how did it affect you?
I think my worst was on a (bad) date I had when I was a young and inexperienced teenager, where she pushed herself onto me. I didn't like the date, didn't like her, didn't find her attractive, but I had sex out of thinking this was normal behavior somehow and wanting to adhere to standards and the pressure she put on me. I just did what she wanted me to do.
She raped me.
I never told anyone as I was too ashamed. My male friends told me sex was good so I just pretended that I liked it instead.
Anyone else has similar pain?
I honestly wish I never had sex. Yet I struggle with the fact I had it many (50+) times in my life and a lot of it was rape like this.
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