How much do looks matter? How about personality?

[CorinthianLOX]

Everyone says that looks aren't that important, but I HARD DISAGREE. Looks seem to be the number one thing in finding a partner, and if you aren't at least average to slightly above average, you will be very disappointed when finding someone to date. Looks are what get your foot in the door, and everything else like personality, intelligence, kindness, etc are all secondary.

I think the second most important thing is personality--which is how well someone can converse and how funny they are and stuff. I see so many beautiful women at my university who are not only extremely attractive, but they are funny, witty, outgoing, and not to mention brilliant af. Guys always go for these types of women, and not ugly nerdy freaks like me. I hardly see girls like me with guys. They're almost ALWAYS alone. And I'm dark skin too, and below average in looks

Is there any hope for me who not only is unattractive, but also has a bad/dull personality? I'm trying to improve, but it's really hard, especially since I have bad social anxiety and depression. I also have health issues that make me tired and my brain blank. Am I screwed forever? I feel like there are so many better options than me, and I don't stand a chance

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Bump

 

[Deleted member 151017]

It's all about your Fwhr and orbital vector and ramus and maxilla projection

 

[Seth Walsh]

Everyone says that looks aren't that important, but I HARD DISAGREE. Looks seem to be the number one thing in finding a partner, and if you aren't at least average to slightly above average, you will be very disappointed when finding someone to date. Looks are what get your foot in the door, and everything else like personality, intelligence, kindness, etc are all secondary.

I think the second most important thing is personality--which is how well someone can converse and how funny they are and stuff. I see so many beautiful women at my university who are not only extremely attractive, but they are funny, witty, outgoing, and not to mention brilliant af. Guys always go for these types of women, and not ugly nerdy freaks like me. I hardly see girls like me with guys. They're almost ALWAYS alone. And I'm dark skin too, and below average in looks

Is there any hope for me who not only is unattractive, but also has a bad/dull personality? I'm trying to improve, but it's really hard, especially since I have bad social anxiety and depression. I also have health issues that make me tired and my brain blank. Am I screwed forever? I feel like there are so many better options than me, and I don't stand a chance

Looks really really matter.

 

[LTNUser]

Looks really really matter.

Nah, it's All about having an attractive personality
What about when you become old,will your looks save you?

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Nah, it's All about having an attractive personality
What about when you become old,will your looks save you?

True. Men peak in their 40s because of finances and personality.

 

[Petsmart]

Looks are the doormat to the house, personality is what’s inside the house.

If your doormat says fuck off nigger, and inside the house looks like a fucking burned shack from Detroit. Then no one’s going to want to come inside your house nigga.

 

[Looks over NT]

They're everything since looks>>>>>>personality and personality isn't exactly objective (except in 0.1% of people who are legitimately autistic or something) so its not like ugly people have better personalities than gl people.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

They're everything since looks>>>>>>personality and personality isn't exactly objective (except in 0.1% of people who are legitimately autistic or something) so its not like ugly people have better personalities than gl people.

It’s a reddit repost dumbass grey

 

[Looks over NT]

It’s a reddit repost dumbass grey

I didnt even read a single word except the title