How much do you spend on first dates?

[Ken]

I invited my overweight tinder match to some desert place on the nice part of town. They serve plain looking deserts so I expected it to be around $5-$7 per person. I just looked it up and found out it cost 12$-16$ per person. Its too late to cancel now. With gas and paying for both our food I will be spending at least $35 or $40. All for a date that will probably end in a rejection from a girl im not even that attracted too.

What is a good amount to spend on a first date? I dont want to be shelling out $40 everytime I go out with a tinder hoe.

 

[traveler]

$40 to $50 seems fine

 

[Deleted member 20327]

Lol @ paying for land whale pussy

 

[Moggie]

I spend nothing bro

 

[Ken]

$40 to $50 seems fine

Is it a failo to use a coupon on a date? I got a 20% off coupon for the place.

 

[Ken]

I spend nothing bro

Im not chad enough for that

 

[Ken]

Lol @ paying for land whale pussy

I have no other option. Im desperate

 

[Moggie]

Im not chad enough for that

Cant spend anything on dates if you never go on them

 

[Deleted member 20327]

I have no other option. Im desperate

Damn well just hope the puss don't have that fat girl stench or build up of sebum and dead skin cells in their creases. God speed dude

 

[Moggie]

I have no other option. Im desperate

Pay that much you may aswell get an escort

 

[Wallenberg]

Often 0

 

[Moggie]

$40 to $50 seems fine

How bro first date is coffee not dinner jfl youll go broke

 

[hebbewem]

10-15 bux.

 

[Wallenberg]

Often 0 because often I don't go to eat on a first date.

And I never pay for a woman's food on the first date. The norm here is that women pay for their own food.

 

[mug]

I will only date a girl if she askes me out. no point in rizzing up and flattery someone who isn't interested

 

[traveler]

Is it a failo to use a coupon on a date? I got a 20% off coupon for the place.

just be low inhib about it

 

[6.5PSL]

Only go on dates with women you want to spend money on... 7/10+ in your eyes.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Normally we will go for drinks - when we sit down I’ll say to the girl I’ll buy the first round and say and I’m getting a glass of wine and ask if they want the same - normally they’ll say yes or sometimes they might want something more spenny like a G and T, then when those drinks are done the girl will normally offer to get the second round of drinks- then after the second round of drinks I normally invite them back to my place ‘for another drink’ but then we just fuck

So o guess 2 glasses of a wine which is like £9 normally where I go

 

[traveler]

How bro first date is coffee not dinner jfl youll go broke

ken is trying to eat dinner with her said $16 minimum a plate + dessert and gas

 

[rand anon]

ur not even attracted to her though, why are u trying hard to please her. Just get coffee or something

 

[Moggie]

ken is trying to eat dinner with her said $16 minimum a plate + dessert and gas

Mirin the bloat max

 

[BoneDensity]

Nah tf just go on a walk to the park bro, $40 no waayyy

 

[Ken]

ur not even attracted to her though, why are u trying hard to please her. Just get coffee or something

Im a kissless virgin and ive been on nofap for a while. Im attracted to almost every female I see right now. I just want to know what it feels like to kiss and be close to a girl.

 

[Ken]

Only go on dates with women you want to spend money on... 7/10+ in your eyes.

I would never go on dates then. The only 7/10+ female to agree to go out on a date with me was my oneitis. All the other girls ive gone out with I havent been attracted to.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I would never go on dates then. The only 7/10+ female to agree to go out on a date with me was my oneitis. All the other girls ive gone out with I havent been attracted to.

I wouldn’t to tbh- just going round a girls house for sex if you’re not really attracted to her is understandable- but going on an actual date with an unattractive girl just makes you feel low level yourself- trust me I’ve done it before and I just wouldnt

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Normally we will go for drinks - when we sit down I’ll say to the girl I’ll buy the first round and say and I’m getting a glass of wine and ask if they want the same - normally they’ll say yes or sometimes they might want something more spenny like a G and T, then when those drinks are done the girl will normally offer to get the second round of drinks- then after the second round of drinks I normally invite them back to my place ‘for another drink’ but then we just fuck

So o guess 2 glasses of a wine which is like £9 normally where I go

Thats a lot ngl.
I usually just buy a limonade for myself if the girl doesnt want me to go to her place straight away. And let her buy whatever shit she wants with her own money. Usually its the girl who pay for me jfl

 

[Deleted member 20056]

Only go on dates like that if you are very attracted to her and want to LTR, JFL at going on dates with whores you are just trying to fuck. Take her for a walk in the park or something or coffee date at the most if you must, any decent woman would usually ask whether she can pay for at least part of the date btw.

Ideally you should try to get them to meet up with you at your place, which is what I do but you'll deal with a lot of flaking especially if you're not chad

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Thats a lot ngl.
I usually just buy a limonade for myself if the girl doesnt want me to go to her place straight away. And let her buy whatever shit she wants with her own money. Usually its the girl who pay for me jfl

Okay chad - I’m just explaining what the convention is / the most effective method for executing dates is for normies.

Don’t take some girl you never met out for a fucking meal or some shit that’s her using you and it’s not as relaxed / casual environment like a bar or pub

 

[Ken]

Damn well just hope the puss don't have that fat girl stench or build up of sebum and dead skin cells in their creases. God speed dude

I honestly wouldnt care at all. Ive been on nofap so long that as long as shes a real female and doesnt have any obvious STD's nothing could turn me off.

 

[Deleted member 20327]

I honestly wouldnt care at all. Ive been on nofap so long that as long as shes a real female and doesnt have any obvious STD's nothing could turn me off.

High T mogs me

 

[traveler]

Im a kissless virgin and ive been on nofap for a while. Im attracted to almost every female I see right now. I just want to know what it feels like to kiss and be close to a girl.

can try friend zone theory to get it out of the way could take a few months

if you are college become study buddy with a female, eventually they get horny and u can get to fucking

 

[Deleted member 20056]

I wouldn’t to tbh- just going round a girls house for sex if you’re not really attracted to her is understandable- but going on an actual date with an unattractive girl just makes you feel low level yourself- trust me I’ve done it before and I just wouldnt

You slay on all first 'dates', also how old are the women you slay, usually for me they don't live alone, they are either in college hostels or live with their parents

 

[currylightskin]

Is it a failo to use a coupon on a date? I got a 20% off coupon for the place.

She must think what a broke nigga

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You slay on all first 'dates', also how old are the women you slay, usually for me they don't live alone, they are either in college hostels or live with their parents

Nearly all of them yes - 80-90%,

I’m 24, date girls 19-22 mostly

 

[Gonthar]

$40 to $50 seems fine

Sir, in my country I can pay an escort for an hour with this money, you can even find street walkers for $10-20 for a quick blowjob in your car...

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Okay chad - I’m just explaining what the convention is / the most effective method for executing dates is for normies.

Don’t take some girl you never met out for a fucking meal or some shit that’s her using you and it’s not as relaxed / casual environment like a bar or pub

I agree. Ideally you should avoid to go to restaurant always. Pointless. You go to restaurant with your gf not with a random girl.
Haven’t you ever tried dating on a park or smth, like a way to pay nothing?

 

[forevergymcelling]

1. Dont go on daytime dates no matter what
2. Always go for drinks and you take it in turns to buy rounds

I have near 100% first date slay rate with this

 

[Gonthar]

I agree. Ideally you should avoid to go to restaurant always. Pointless. You go to restaurant with your gf not with a random girl.
Haven’t you ever tried dating on a park or smth, like a way to pay nothing?

 

[Deleted member 9819]

zero euros
maybe sum like 5 on thr travel

 

[traveler]

just dont do this

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[Afrikancel]

I invited my overweight tinder match to some desert place on the nice part of town. They serve plain looking deserts so I expected it to be around $5-$7 per person. I just looked it up and found out it cost 12$-16$ per person. Its too late to cancel now. With gas and paying for both our food I will be spending at least $35 or $40. All for a date that will probably end in a rejection from a girl im not even that attracted too.

What is a good amount to spend on a first date? I dont want to be shelling out $40 everytime I go out with a tinder hoe.

0$

I usually facetime them or go for a walk

2nd date is drinks at mine or her place and we fuck

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Bruv just take her to a bar, have a drink or 2 then head to her place

 

[Ken]

Bruv just take her to a bar, have a drink or 2 then head to her place

Shes 18, she cant legally drink. Im pretty sure she lives with her parents.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I agree. Ideally you should avoid to go to restaurant always. Pointless. You go to restaurant with your gf not with a random girl.
Haven’t you ever tried dating on a park or smth, like a way to pay nothing?

Suppose you could do but the bang rate probs gonna be a lot lower, but more awkward environment harder t escalate and flirt etc

I’d rather just buy a few drinks like it’s fuck all money tbh

 

[HerpDerpson]

0

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Suppose you could do but the bang rate probs gonna be a lot lower, but more awkward environment harder t escalate and flirt etc

I’d rather just buy a few drinks like it’s fuck all money tbh

Makes sense tbh. Yes its easier to rely on alcohol.

 

[Deleted member 9801]

Shes 18, she cant legally drink. Im pretty sure she lives with her parents.

Go grab a hot chocolate/coffee then

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Makes sense tbh. Yes its easier to rely on alcohol.

Think it’s mor the atmosphere/environment of a nighttime vs daytime setting compared to like a park

 

[Deleted member 18840]

Think it’s mor the atmosphere/environment of a nighttime vs daytime setting compared to like a park

Honestly i may be a bad example. But most of the times a girl wanted to go to drink it didnt ended to a lay. Always late night too. Usually i know its a lay when the girl doesnt say anything, or doesnt have any requirement. And most my slays were during the day.
But once you mastered the flirting skill, its probably the ideal environment. People underate how much skills play a role in getting laid.
Don’t you agree that dating is very conventional and a girl is testing you hardcore ?
Even if you are hot to her if you give her red flags it’s usually over imo

 

[Ken]

Honestly i may be a bad example. But most of the times a girl wanted to go to drink it didnt ended to a lay. Always late night too. Usually i know its a lay when the girl doesnt say anything, or doesnt have any requirement. And most my slays were during the day.
But once you mastered the flirting skill, its probably the ideal environment. People underate how much skills play a role in getting laid.
Don’t you agree that dating is very conventional and a girl is testing you hardcore ?
Even if you are hot to her if you give her red flags it’s usually over imo

Legit, I learned that the hard way on my last date. The girl was calling me attractive and when I held her hand she had a huge smile on her face. Everything was going smooth. I sat her down at a bench and we akwardly sat there for 20 minutes while I built up the courage to go for my first kiss. When she said she wanted to leave I quickly and akwardly went in for a kiss and she instanly rejected it. I knew it was over. She never wanted to see me again.