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How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
 
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I'd rather die than date a non virgin
 
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How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
Im still Young so 0. but maybe as I get older il draw the line at 1 max 2 even tho id be a cuck but for somebody like yael I’d do 3 :feelsgood:
 
A lot
And it's worse if they were ONS or STRs as opposed to bfs
 
How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
If you want a lasting relationship it matters a lot
 
How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
0
 
how tf

what do her parents think??

how did u meet her

parked infront of her school??
Her parents don’t know yet but we’ll introduce me beginning of next year.

Met at work she was a customer shebwas giving iois and i just started talking to her.
 
do ur parents know?

which country u from?
 
I think they already suspect her. She had to hide me before on snap and got caught.

No ill tell them after 3-5 years, from UK so its legal
probably wont last that long will it
 
probably wont last that long will it
Actually ive been in many relationships, without context id understand why most would assume it wont last, but this has the highest likelihood it will last. She consistently shows me her values loyalty, also a virgin. The only problems are external
 
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Virgin is unrealistic af

I don't care about bodies unless its some truly absurd number like 20+ or if she has been gangbanged
 
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How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
Virgin would be ideal but i dont give a fuck as long as they havent had sex like 30 times at 18
 
How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
 
No.hymen no diamond

Simple as that, if she wants me to be traditional she must do the same, if not, then we're not having a traditional relationship, she'll be forever an atm
 
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So age dependent. I’m in early 30s now OG here.
When younger obvs lower the better.

I would say if I was 28 and I met a 20-23 year old for example hqnp archetype (My type for a ltr) as you have to be realistic in this modern world I would say 5-6 max.
Again lower is better but if she adds to your life eg doesn’t want you buying her shit no demands only wants to spend time with you where she cooks for you just pleasant to you and you treat her good coz she deserves it. Then it’s worth a shot in an ltr.

As OP is 22 with a 16 yr old virgin and from uk lol (I am too) he probs got a lot of shit from peers they would call him pedo as 16 year olds when ur in 20s is v taboo here. But im assuming he keeps it in down lo so his social circle don’t kno or he doesn’t have a big social circle (i don’t either tbh- I used to see them irregularly so would have been able to do such a thing) but yeah he should be fine.

But aside from count I’d mainly look at how she acts overall what her vibe is. And make sure she shows she cares and actually provides more investment into you that you do to her that’s good way to prove it. Also how she is with her phone she should be easy let you on her phone anytime etc.
b ur past 18 you have to sort of expect she’s done probs most things or at least something sexual.

I’d say a virgin whose done anal to keep virgin is worse than a girl whose had sex.
Plus if you are a mogger you will keep her anyway. Ideally you’re her best in every way / emotionally you make her feel that way

TLDR age dependent I’d say 5-6 max from girls from 21-30+ life time if I’m honest and if she’s early 20s ideally lower but gotta be realistic. I think over 3 during teens is awful but if she’s hot and shows the right traits you have to look past it.

It matters but things can override it
 
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Again being my age I’ve seen this happen countless times. Guys being with Virgins gfs from high school and around mid 20-early 30s she leaves him coz she wants different experiences.

So technically a woman whose got a count of 5 who knows it’s all overrated and not keen on sleeping around will be a longer term partner potentially.

There’s so many factors to consider where other things actually end up being more important.
Eg you want a virgin gf who loves attention or gets the urge to sleep around coz she feels like she’s missing out or a girl with a 3 body count who is head over heels wants your kids and to marry you and is fully loyal
 
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How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
Depends on age religion etc if ur not gonna marry her anything below 10 wouldent rly phase me aslong as i get her tested first
 
Also looks do override body count and hear me out.
Mtb virgin or a htb with a 3-5 body count who meets looks threshold and has all the behaviours you look for.

Vast majority of guys would choose the htb

I think for stacylites or stacys guys would ltr if she shows loyalty to them (hard to find) but you wanna pass your genes to these types of foids
 
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So age dependent. I’m in early 30s now OG here.
When younger obvs lower the better.

I would say if I was 28 and I met a 20-23 year old for example hqnp archetype (My type for a ltr) as you have to be realistic in this modern world I would say 5-6 max.
Again lower is better but if she adds to your life eg doesn’t want you buying her shit no demands only wants to spend time with you where she cooks for you just pleasant to you and you treat her good coz she deserves it. Then it’s worth a shot in an ltr.

As OP is 22 with a 16 yr old virgin and from uk lol (I am too) he probs got a lot of shit from peers they would call him pedo as 16 year olds when ur in 20s is v taboo here. But im assuming he keeps it in down lo so his social circle don’t kno or he doesn’t have a big social circle (i don’t either tbh- I used to see them irregularly so would have been able to do such a thing) but yeah he should be fine.

But aside from count I’d mainly look at how she acts overall what her vibe is. And make sure she shows she cares and actually provides more investment into you that you do to her that’s good way to prove it. Also how she is with her phone she should be easy let you on her phone anytime etc.
b ur past 18 you have to sort of expect she’s done probs most things or at least something sexual.

I’d say a virgin whose done anal to keep virgin is worse than a girl whose had sex.
Plus if you are a mogger you will keep her anyway. Ideally you’re her best in every way / emotionally you make her feel that way

TLDR age dependent I’d say 5-6 max from girls from 21-30+ life time if I’m honest and if she’s early 20s ideally lower but gotta be realistic. I think over 3 during teens is awful but if she’s hot and shows the right traits you have to look past it.

It matters but things can override it
yeah i have a good social circle and they know i have a gf and have seen her but i lied and told them shes 20. Ive almost slipped up a couple of times. None of her friends know.

One of the main reasons i didnt mind dating a 16 year old is because theyre more likely to be virgins like my gf. And i have experience with older women (18-22) and my girlfriend compared to them is so loving and emotionally invested. Thats the main reason i want a virgin, be it correlates to emotional attachment and what i want in a relationship. Alot of people will get onto me for dating so young but it was actually very logical. She wants to get married to me asap. Thats why personally i think id max settle for a body count of 1-2 which is impossible for my age. Theres a difference between being a natural virgin and just not getting male attention, because of that the majority of virgin older girls are just chopped. With my gf i get both the looks of a htb and loyalty of a true virgin.
 
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yeah i have a good social circle and they know i have a gf and have seen her but i lied and told them shes 20. Ive almost slipped up a couple of times. None of her friends know.

One of the main reasons i didnt mind dating a 16 year old is because theyre more likely to be virgins like my gf. And i have experience with older women (18-22) and my girlfriend compared to them is so loving and emotionally invested. Thats the main reason i want a virgin, be it correlates to emotional attachment and what i want in a relationship. Alot of people will get onto me for dating so young but it was actually very logical. She wants to get married to me asap. Thats why personally i think id max settle for a body count of 1-2 which is impossible for my age. Theres a difference between being a natural virgin and just not getting male attention, because of that the majority of virgin older girls are just chopped. With my gf i get both the looks of a htb and loyalty of a true virgin.
Yeah I agree with you just don’t let your mates see her much so they will never find out lol

How did you meet her btw bro? She treats you good so just keep it on Downlow and enjoy it bro and treat her right coz she deserves it.

Yeah I’ve been in ltr for 4 years now I met her when she was 21 and I’m 6/7 years older than her and her body count was 3. She moved to a new country for me wants my kids/marriage etc and showed insane commitment and that proved to me she was worthy. She’s also 5ft10 while I’m 5ft8 lol but facially I’m Chadlite (high htn-Chadlite to ppl) This is why in a realistic way body count 3-5/6 is max I’d accept if they’re htb+ and have the right behaviours.

For me a htb 5ft10 with a great natural body (good glute insertions so no gymcelling required) realistically would he sought after and she’d usually be ran through so context matters massively.
I didn’t even want ltr and if we ever break up I’m never getting into one again
 
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How did you meet her btw bro? She treats you good so just keep it on Downlow and enjoy it bro and treat her right coz she deserves it.
I met her while i was at work and she was a customer, i dont wanna dox myself about the job but i got to interact with alot of young women. And yeah of course i plan on treating her right, ive been with girls in the past and ive treated them all like shit tbh because they had been with men before me, but this is the most wholesome relationship ive ever been in.
Yeah I’ve been in ltr for 4 years now I met her when she was 21 and I’m 6/7 years older than her and her body count was 3. She moved to a new country for me wants my kids/marriage etc and showed insane commitment and that proved to me she was worthy. She’s also 5ft10 while I’m 5ft8 lol but facially I’m Chadlite (high htn-Chadlite to ppl) This is why in a realistic way body count 3-5/6 is max I’d accept if they’re htb+ and have the right behaviours.
Thats an ideal relationship too, other than the bodies but that can be excused depending on context. And lmao were in the same boat cos my girlfriend is 5’11 and im 5’10 , maybe thats why i dont see her as young as she really is. At age 21 absolutely a girl with any smv will have bodies, thats why i went younger and got a htb + virgin.
For me a htb 5ft10 with a great natural body (good glute insertions so no gymcelling required) realistically would he sought after and she’d usually be ran through so context matters massively.
I didn’t even want ltr and if we ever break up I’m never getting into one again
Lmao you sound just like me its crazy, im the same that i didnt want a ltr, it just came naturally, and i think thats actually the best circumstance to get into a relationship because its not forced. And with glute insertions i did alot of research because my girlfriend has great glute insertions and model like proportions but i was worried for a long time because at 5’11 and 5’100 like your girlfriend, its harder for girls to put on more visible fat deposits/weight in the ass despite the great glute insertions. So i plan on gymcelling her anyways, she wants to go to the gym with me, but eating is gonna be tricky, shes around 53 something kg
 
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How much do you guys value a girl's body count for a long term romantic relationship? Where do y'all draw the line?

Personally, it matters a lot to me, but I'm aware that nowadays every girl has a high body count, and if you're going for a pretty girl you just gotta take it that she most likely has slept with an entire neighborhood before. But even so, I draw the line at 1
A lot,1 is already to much if we r talking about serius relationships
 
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over if ur 18+
That's not true at all G.

This is why you look into other cultures. English women, sure, it's substantially more rare.
 
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I met her while i was at work and she was a customer, i dont wanna dox myself about the job but i got to interact with alot of young women. And yeah of course i plan on treating her right, ive been with girls in the past and ive treated them all like shit tbh because they had been with men before me, but this is the most wholesome relationship ive ever been in.

Thats an ideal relationship too, other than the bodies but that can be excused depending on context. And lmao were in the same boat cos my girlfriend is 5’11 and im 5’10 , maybe thats why i dont see her as young as she really is. At age 21 absolutely a girl with any smv will have bodies, thats why i went younger and got a htb + virgin.

Lmao you sound just like me its crazy, im the same that i didnt want a ltr, it just came naturally, and i think thats actually the best circumstance to get into a relationship because its not forced. And with glute insertions i did alot of research because my girlfriend has great glute insertions and model like proportions but i was worried for a long time because at 5’11 and 5’100 like your girlfriend, its harder for girls to put on more visible fat deposits/weight in the ass despite the great glute insertions. So i plan on gymcelling her anyways, she wants to go to the gym with me, but eating is gonna be tricky, shes around 53 something kg
Yeah bro I would have done the same as you man if I was 22 years old at the time but I was incel those times and was desperately wanting to slay (and failing 95% of time managed to slay once at 20) I probs didn’t start getting any success until I was 23/24 jfl) although I worry I’d still would have found it hard to find a virgin even if she was late teens but guess they’re out there (although getting harder to find)

But yeah at almost 30 at the time I knew I wouldn’t find a 16 yr old virgin lol so low bodies best I could hope for and I’ve also treated mine badly at beginning and tbh it was probs at time about the bodies but when I actually seen the facts of what she does and that I mog all her exes (2 normies one maybe low htn or upper mtn decent looking) that really helped me tbh I knew I gave her something nobody else did.
Btw I also told her I was 22 when I met her and when she was in love with me I told her the truth and she didn’t like it but said it’s ok just be real with me from now on.

Hold onto your girl bro and enjoy life you seem a good guy I’ve had my time here and it did change my life (some ways better and some ways worse tbh lol but no regrets!)
 
I met her while i was at work and she was a customer, i dont wanna dox myself about the job but i got to interact with alot of young women. And yeah of course i plan on treating her right, ive been with girls in the past and ive treated them all like shit tbh because they had been with men before me, but this is the most wholesome relationship ive ever been in.

Thats an ideal relationship too, other than the bodies but that can be excused depending on context. And lmao were in the same boat cos my girlfriend is 5’11 and im 5’10 , maybe thats why i dont see her as young as she really is. At age 21 absolutely a girl with any smv will have bodies, thats why i went younger and got a htb + virgin.

Lmao you sound just like me its crazy, im the same that i didnt want a ltr, it just came naturally, and i think thats actually the best circumstance to get into a relationship because its not forced. And with glute insertions i did alot of research because my girlfriend has great glute insertions and model like proportions but i was worried for a long time because at 5’11 and 5’100 like your girlfriend, its harder for girls to put on more visible fat deposits/weight in the ass despite the great glute insertions. So i plan on gymcelling her anyways, she wants to go to the gym with me, but eating is gonna be tricky, shes around 53 something kg
Wow 53kg she’s light haha mine is light too but 57kg like all foids wants to be 53-55kg lol sounds like you’re living life at a younger age like I wish I did at 22 lol
Yeah I wanted to gymcel mine but tbh I find when foids get all masculine about lifting heavier and deadlifting like a monkey it puts me off lmak mine was on off with gym at 17/18 I seen pics she basically looks the same lol I think she mainly did cardio with some weights here and there inconsistently.

Another thing bro that made me realise I have what’s probs best for me coz 1.I’m a manlet and 2. what early 20s woman with low bodies would even ant an ltr with close the 30 year old man in my experience it’s none lol she’s a unicorn by modern standards and yours sounds like one too.
 
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Wow 53kg she’s light haha mine is light too but 57kg like all foids wants to be 53-55kg lol sounds like you’re living life at a younger age like I wish I did at 22 lol
Yeah I wanted to gymcel mine but tbh I find when foids get all masculine about lifting heavier and deadlifting like a monkey it puts me off lmak mine was on off with gym at 17/18 I seen pics she basically looks the same lol I think she mainly did cardio with some weights here and there inconsistently.

Another thing bro that made me realise I have what’s probs best for me coz 1.I’m a manlet and 2. what early 20s woman with low bodies would even ant an ltr with close the 30 year old man in my experience it’s none lol she’s a unicorn by modern standards and yours sounds like one too.
Yeah sometimes i forget not even just having a virgin is a unicorn by modern standards and .org standards, but just having a young girlfriend/potentially wife is a unicorn in todays society. Also in terms of longevity i thinK about it alot. Were dating younger so our girls will stay beautiful for longer. Then the height factor, being 5’10-5’11 makes it way easier to keep a skinny frame as theres way more surface area so we dont have to worry about our gfs becoming big bertha in the future. Id rather have a long term skinny gf than a short term curvy but turns into those thick latina moms. And in my opinion having a age gap where the man is older is just a better dynamic in general, you get to teach her things with care which just makes you even more attractive. And the truth that no one wants to accept but statistics prove is that women want older men the same way men want younger women, although it might not be 6 years older, its consistently at least 2 years older from my experience
 
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