How often do foids message you first on Tinder?

[Deleted member 16958]

How many times has it happened altogether?

 

[Deleted member 15556]

Last time I had one like 20 times in 3 weeks on tinder

 

[Deleted member 16958]

Last time I had one like 20 times in 3 weeks on tinder

20 times? What?

 

[Deleted member 15556]

20 times? What?

You just gotta be patient. They don’t message straight away. Wait a few days

 

[Deleted member 16958]

You just gotta be patient. They don’t message straight away. Wait a few days

Yeah, I just don’t really get what you mean. Did you get messaged by 20 different girls in 3 weeks? Mirin’ if so. How many likes did you have altogether?

 

[Deleted member 15556]

Yeah, I just don’t really get what you mean. Did you get messaged by 20 different girls in 3 weeks? Mirin’ if so. How many likes did you have altogether?

Yeah and like 400 but I used some boosts.

 

[Deleted member 16958]

Yeah and like 400 but I used some boosts.

Damn, nice. I made my Tinder 2 weeks ago but I deactivated my account for a few days because I cringed at the thought of my face being on dating sites. I think I fucked up because I used one kinda aspie selfie and I waited days before I started swiping at all. At the moment I have matched with around 30 girls and not one messaged me first. I tried messaging 3 of them but they didn't reply

 

[Deleted member 15556]

Damn, nice. I made my Tinder 2 weeks ago but I deactivated my account for a few days because I cringed at the thought of my face being on dating sites. I think I fucked up because I used one kinda aspie selfie and I waited days before I started swiping at all. At the moment I have matched with around 30 girls and not one messaged me first. I tried messaging 3 of them but they didn't reply

Take NT pics and write a good bio. Pics out doing shit. Show you have hobbies n freinds n shit. 1 or 2 selfies max

 

[Deleted member 16958]

Take NT pics and write a good bio. Pics out doing shit. Show you have hobbies n freinds n shit. 1 or 2 selfies max

Sadly i'm a friendless autist so I can't do that, I tried taking some pics that looked like someone else took them but it was cringe.

Have you tried Bumble? I think it'll be easier if the foid has to message me first. My ego dies a little bit whenever I message a foid and she doesn't reply.

 

[Deleted member 15556]

Sadly i'm a friendless autist so I can't do that, I tried taking some pics that looked like someone else took them but it was cringe.

Have you tried Bumble? I think it'll be easier if the foid has to message me first. My ego dies a little bit whenever I message a foid and she doesn't reply.

Maybe work on your life first before worrying about online dating. It's very brutal even for GL guys

 

[Deleted member 16958]

Maybe work on your life first before worrying about online dating. It's very brutal even for GL guys

well i'm happy enough with my result considering I did basically everything wrong from the start. And I get approached often IRL but that's when I go out. Right now I don't have friends and probably won't have any any time soon. But yeah, i'm working on it. Thanks brah.

 

[Beetlejuice]

I made a fake profile with a decent looking guy once


More than 70 Matches and less than 10 messages

 

[Deleted member 16958]

I made a fake profile with a decent looking guy once


More than 70 Matches and less than 10 messages

Did they sound like they wanted to fuck or was it just "hey" etc?

 

[Beetlejuice]

Did they sound like they wanted to fuck or was it just "hey" etc?

Just the hey bullshit lol

 

[Deleted member 16958]

Just the hey bullshit lol

how many replied when you tried messaging them? Were any willing to go on a date?

 

[Beetlejuice]

how many replied when you tried messaging them? Were any willing to go on a date?

i said hi back to only a few of them and they replied back,i didn't even tried to put effort in any conversation(i deleted the profile quickly)