
longjohnmong
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Yeah, don't get married just to get married, but definitely do get married if you find someone worth marrying. Don't let thoughts about missing on other shit cloud your judgement. Family is the most meaningful thing in the world and you will realize this when you have your first kid or when you see your ex that you were in love with have her first kid with another man.i am probably wrong but seeing all the people who got married in my family and friends, it always seems like the man is controlled and becomes a weaker one of himself. Obviously if you find the right girl who isnt controlling maybe it might work but I always have this weird dream where I am old, in my 70s, alone in front of a fire, in a cabin somewhere just alone reading. Sometimes there are grandkids in the dream but I never see like an old woman who is the wife. I hope Im not alone in old age but I also dont want to be nagged by a hyena, in that case id rather be alone
maybe you have to compromise to some extent. You should have someone around i guess by then, it seems insane to get that old without a permanent partner. So many uncles have had different wives who then end up leaving, each time the next wife is like a less mature or more idiotic person then the last, until it gets to some 50 yr old drunk woman who thinks they are 14 and act totally retarded. idk what to say about this subject, prbably to try and find someone more permanent in the years before 40-50.
But yeah, definitely avoid any women who want to control you. Isn't it funny how "everyone knows" that men are supposed to be the heads of the household but literally every relationship you can think of the man is his wife's bitch? But there are decent women out there. Unfortunately 99% of them are like basic cunt or feminist cunt. It's hard to find one who is her own person. The best place I've found is the rock climbing gym.