How often does the average normie slay?

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I'm curious to know the answer to this as well :unsure:
 
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From what I’ve seen from housemates and neighbors, outside of college or high status environments it’s very little. I don’t know about real deal Chads but even HTNs and Chadlites don’t have all these random girls over. Most sex seems to happen within a relationship or at least the beginnings of one.

Normies just love to larp though and some make it believable enough.

It’s easier to look at when a girl goes through a hook up phase, and that’s not always in her life, usually only after a breakup, or traveling, or something like that.
 
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From what I’ve seen from housemates and neighbors, outside of college or high status environments it’s very little. I don’t know about real deal Chads but even HTNs and Chadlites don’t have all these random girls over. Most sex seems to happen within a relationship or at least the beginnings of one.

Normies just love to larp though and some make it believable enough.

It’s easier to look at when a girl goes through a hook up phase, and that’s not always in her life, usually only after a breakup, or traveling, or something like that.
I feel like the guys that slay the most are RTT MTNs and HTNs basically guys with high sex appeal that try to slay
 
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From what I’ve seen from housemates and neighbors, outside of college or high status environments it’s very little. I don’t know about real deal Chads but even HTNs and Chadlites don’t have all these random girls over. Most sex seems to happen within a relationship or at least the beginnings of one.

Normies just love to larp though and some make it believable enough.

It’s easier to look at when a girl goes through a hook up phase, and that’s not always in her life, usually only after a breakup, or traveling, or something like that.
What would you consider a high laycount
 
Once in their life. Most if not all normies have 1 body count and just settle with a ltb. They're even worse than incels.
 
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I feel like the guys that slay the most are RTT MTNs and HTNs basically guys with high sex appeal that try to slay
The thing is RTT guys actively try to slay, random MTNs and HTNs are fucking dumb and don’t even try hahahaha they are scared
 
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I'm a 5'10 white MTN and I get cold approached by females around 2x/year.
You don’t get approached as a MTN.

You rarely get approached even when good looking.
 
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Normies love to larp about slaying, they rarely do. IRL there are no incels and everyone is fucking bitches left and right, based on my life experience these are the possible explanations

1. They straight make up tales, invent: not that common, quite embarrassing and blatantly noticeable, but I knew this one visibly gay dude who constantly larped about fucking bitches, never seen him with a girl in my life. He was cool after all but just pathetic and became a laughing stock because it was just too evident

2. They are fucking bottom 20% women: most common option, we’re all slayers after all if we only fuck fat bitches right?

3. They exaggerate things: had one slay 3 years ago and bring it up every time dating life is the topic of the conversation, they just recycle the two-three romantic interactions they ever had with girls so it looks like they regularly pull
 
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Normies love to larp about slaying, they rarely do. IRL there are no incels and everyone is fucking bitches left and right, based on my life experience these are the possible explanations

1. They straight make up tales, invent: not that common, quite embarrassing and blatantly noticeable, but I knew this one visibly gay dude who constantly larped about fucking bitches, never seen him with a girl in my life. He was cool after all but just pathetic and became a laughing stock because it was just too evident

2. They are fucking bottom 20% women: most common option, we’re all slayers after all if we only fuck fat bitches right?

3. They exaggerate things: had one slay 3 years ago and bring it up every time dating life is the topic of the conversation, they just recycle the two-three romantic interactions they ever had with girls so it looks like they regularly pull
What is your experience like
 
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What is your experience like
I always try to avoid larping but usually I opt for option 3 if I’m looking like an incel, and that’s probably what most normies do
 
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Once in their life. Most if not all normies have 1 body count and just settle with a ltb. They're even worse than incels.
I'd peg it closer to 4-6

Normies do get into LTR's really early
 
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A mulatto HMTN friend of mine slays a bunch on apps idk how he does it because he has no sex appeal or dimorphism or games really just height and a decent face and hipster swag

I stayed with him for a month and he slayed 3 new chicks that month I couldn't believe it

All LTB's and MTB's but still

I wonder how many guys like that are out there, dudes you wouldn't expect to slay but who do
 
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I always try to avoid larping but usually I opt for option 3 if I’m looking like an incel, and that’s probably what most normies do
No Im saying your dating experience
 
No Im saying your dating experience
5’9 MTN severely depressed in a Western developed country, ND to a fair degree where every time in my life I tried to fit in with normies I ended up looking like a clown or at the least as eccentric and odd, what would you guess? :feelswhy:
 
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A mulatto HMTN friend of mine slays a bunch on apps idk how he does it because he has no sex appeal or dimorphism or games really just height and a decent face and hipster swag

I stayed with him for a month and he slayed 3 new chicks that month I couldn't believe it

All LTB's and MTB's but still

I wonder how many guys like that are out there, dudes you wouldn't expect to slay but who do
Even slaying MTBs is good
 
Even slaying MTBs is good
Yeah I mean I had to briefly consider if he was a slayer because of the number of women

If he did that consistently he could average 30-40 new women a year which is def slayer category

Low tier slayer considering what he was slaying but a slayer nonetheless
 
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Yeah I mean I had to briefly consider if he was a slayer because of the number of women

If he did that consistently he could average 30-40 new women a year which is def slayer category

Low tier slayer considering what he was slaying but a slayer nonetheless
Yeah that’s what I did I’d slay 3-4 mtb-low htbs every month from dating apps
 
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Nobody regularly slays today outside of about 5% of chads
 
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Yeah that’s what I did I’d slay 3-4 mtb-low htbs every month from dating apps
Yeah but you mog this guy the oblivion so you shouldn't be getting the same results as him you feel me? Or rather he shouldn't be getting the same results as you.
 
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You can objectively be an MTN and still pull if you have appeal towards a niche of women.
I agree but pulling and getting approached are two different things however I can imagine the odds increase if you are nichemaxxed
 
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Where i live 3 to 15 slays per year depending on how low inhib he is, if he's truly high T could be 20+
 
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Yeah but you mog this guy the oblivion so you shouldn't be getting the same results as him you feel me? Or rather he shouldn't be getting the same results as you.
Light skin halo is real ngl if you’re tall with nice hair
 
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@Andremln LATAm is easy mode

Which country
 
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Location is very important
If I was living in EE or a Med country I'd slay every month cus the girls are so much hotter than in subhuman netherlands

In my best year I had 6 slays in a year. And I was still rejecting more than half the girls showing interests
 
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@Andremln LATAm is easy mode

Which country
Chile, how easy girls are depends mostly on the city, i fucked 3 of the 5 girls i slayed last year on the same trip to Santiago, women there are gigawhores, doesn't matter if you're aspie because in the club they're drunk af anyway, just be taller than 5'10 and don't be hideous and you're set
 
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Light skin halo is real ngl if you’re tall with nice hair
Idk what it is tbh. He's 6'1 so not super tall, zero muscle mass, nasally voice, very passive personality but these hipster chicks are going for him.

He's handsome but nothing spectacular, he's done some light modeling here and there.

I will say that he knows how to pull the trigger, like he doesn't have any structured game but he knows how to move things forward and won't hesitate to escalate when given the opportunity.

I will say that's something he has over a lot of guys.
 
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Latin america, women here are easy af, i am Low MTN and last year i fucked 5 MTBs
That's explains it tbh, much different culture, not death tier hypergamy like in the west
 
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Location is very important
If I was living in EE or a Med country I'd slay every month cus the girls are so much hotter than in subhuman netherlands

In my best year I had 6 slays in a year. And I was still rejecting more than half the girls showing interests
Why were you rejecting chicks? You had your fill at 6 slays?
 
That's explains it tbh, much different culture, not death tier hypergamy like in the west
For LTR and social scenarios the NTpill is 10x more brutal than in the west though, literally i don't know what niggas here get fed to be so low inhib

I went to Europe 2 years ago, visited the UK, Germany and Switzerland and i swear i was the most normal human being on a 30 mile radius
 
Idk what it is tbh. He's 6'1 so not super tall, zero muscle mass, nasally voice, very passive personality but these hipster chicks are going for him.

He's handsome but nothing spectacular, he's done some light modeling here and there.

I will say that he knows how to pull the trigger, like he doesn't have any structured game but he knows how to move things forward and won't hesitate to escalate when given the opportunity.

I will say that's something he has over a lot of guys.
Is it a niche?
 
if we're talking 50th percentile, if I had to guess, it'd average out to be 2-3 at most a year. and the women will always be below them in attractiveness or a looksmatch, maybe rarely they get a girl that fogs them
 
Latin america, women here are easy af, i am Low MTN and last year i fucked 5 MTBs
Fakecel, you're probably not "low MTN" instead just underrating yourself like some of the users do on here
 
Fakecel, you're probably not "low MTN" instead just underrating yourself like some of the users do on here
No i am legit ugly af, matter of fact i am getting Lefort + BSSO for medical reasons, i am recessed as fuck but my upper third and skull + chin are saving me rn
 

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