How predetermined is it how awkward/NT you are?

[6.5PSL]

Obviously mental illnesses denoting neurodivergence are genetic but I'm just talking about how some people just get it and other don't in social situations. Some people no matter how many courses they take come off as awk/forced. How set in stone is your social ability?

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

pretty much determined by your early upbringing and appearance tbh

 

[6.5PSL]

pretty much determined by your early upbringing and appearance tbh

True. A 1/10 subhuman is almost determined to be awkward. The anti-halo effect makes it where they have to essentially be perfect socially to not come off badly

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

True. A 1/10 subhuman is almost determined to be awkward. The anti-halo effect makes it where they have to essentially be perfect socially to not come off badly

even that would be optimistic

 

[Deleted member 18849]

Recessed face and awkward go together like Gin and Tonic.

 

[Matthias8272]

Mine was extremely enviromental, parents fucked me over hard socially. I'd say it's harder when you're unattractive also but you can still be NT

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Obviously mental illnesses denoting neurodivergence are genetic but I'm just talking about how some people just get it and other don't in social situations. Some people no matter how many courses they take come off as awk/forced. How set in stone is your social ability?

I'm not attractive, but I am pretty NT. I guess it is more to do with upbringing. I watched a lot of comedy, so when I was in secondary school people found me funny - which raised my popularity amongst people. Which then led me to play sports - further increasing my popularity. So it is possible to offset looks

 

[TITUS]

You all should start reading about personality disorders, since most of you have at least one.

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

By the age of 5 your personality predispositions are set in stone. If u didn't nt-maxx in nursery and u have the genetics for unfavourable personality traits it's over for you. U are basically fighting an uphill battle.

 

[Deleted member 18436]

I can pass for normie initially but over time the more i reveal about myself the more people know i am off

 

[EverythingMattersCel]

You all should start reading about personality disorders, since most of you have at least one.

They are labels made by a field where nothing is reproducible. They don't define us.

 

[TITUS]

They are labels made by a field where nothing is reproducible. They don't define us.

It's useful to understand your behaviors and implement behavioral strategies that will improve your social standing, think of it as a looksmax for the mind, a way to fake ntness.

 

[Zer0/∞]

It's useful to understand your behaviors and implement behavioral strategies that will improve your social standing, think of it as a looksmax for the mind, a way to fake ntness.

 

[TITUS]

You are stupid, go around showing your mental illness and see how far you go, fucking brainlet.

 

[Deleted member 11097]

It’s called social SKILLS because it’s something you learn over time. Easily fixed

 

[DarkLoner94]

By the age of 5 your personality predispositions are set in stone. If u didn't nt-maxx in nursery and u have the genetics for unfavourable personality traits it's over for you. U are basically fighting an uphill battle.

Damnnn !!!