How rare is to to be cold approached by women in public

[autistic_tendencies]

How rare do you think

 

[Moggie]

 

[Deleted member 21166]

How rare do you think

I am 7.5/10 smv and I only had it happen to me twice (technically once). The first time I was doing a cold approach and then she approached me instead. The second time was a genuine cold approach done by a woman, she invited me to a dance.

I have also been told in the past that I am intimidating to be around. Employers would not hire me because I 'lacked expression', people told me I looked like I was from the military or mafia. And I had someone ask me to be their body guard. I'm not even 20 years old yet.

 

[It'snotover]

You need to be 7psl or gigachad. Same looks level of Ian Somerhalder.

 

[aBetterMii]

Depends.
For chad? Decently common
For norman? Like fidning 5 gen 1 shiny pokemon consecutively

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You need to be 7psl or gigachad. Same looks level of Ian Somerhalder.

Even for average girls /below average

 

[It'snotover]

Even for average girls /below average

Yes. I don't know if amnesia got approached in public, in pubs sure in public you must be gigachad

 

[traveler]

its common

 

[Erik-Jón]

False has happened to me probably 20 times ever, 1 time within last month

 

[to be human]

How rare do you think

Serious talk. You need to be a HTN with a halo like height or a niche fashion style. You need to appear approachable.

But I live in a regular city, not Gandyland (London or San Francisco) where every man mogs so standards change place to place.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

It was very rare in university, assuming you're talking about a woman approaching a man for his phone number.

 

[Erik-Jón]

It was very rare in university, assuming you're talking about a woman approaching a man for his phone number.

I think it’s semi common tbh

 

[Erik-Jón]

Serious talk. You need to be a HTN with a halo like height or a niche fashion style. You need to appear approachable.

But I live in a regular city, not Gandyland (London or San Francisco) where every man mogs so standards change place to place.

Cope if you “NEED” anything

 

[Deleted member 16984]

It happened to me a few times back when I was gl

 

[Deleted member 13787]

ive heard girls from my class talking about cold approaching guys so probably common

 

[Reckless Turtle]

I think it’s semi common tbh

Aren't you 15?

 

[Erik-Jón]

Aren't you 15?

No, I’m literally closer to 17 then 16

 

[alphamaxxxx]

Rare - you need to be either a giga chad or a chad with model tier facial aesthetics - even then the most theyll get is a teehee heres my phone number/ig - which is more than enough ofc

 

[Reckless Turtle]

No, I’m literally closer to 17 then 16

High school is a warm environment because everyone is forced to know each other early on. There's little room for cold approaching.

 

[Erik-Jón]

High school is a warm environment because everyone is forced to know each other early on. There's little room for cold approaching.

Last time I got approched was actually by a group of uni girls and one asked for my shit it was funny

 

[Hero of the Imperium]

Serious talk. You need to be a HTN with a halo like height or a niche fashion style. You need to appear approachable.

But I live in a regular city, not Gandyland (London or San Francisco) where every man mogs so standards change place to place.

San Francisco everyone is gay so even if they’re stylemaxxed and looks maxxed the market should be open

Long ago I was rated 9/10; realistically in these hypergamous days prob 8.5/10 and still feels that way

Cold approach is rare in public; in parties they might grope and grind, and going out to party they might catcall, but in regular public it tends to be indirect (are you my blind date / do you need help / that guy over there is really cute / my friend thinks you’re cute)

if we just look at indirect stuff in general that would include basically everything a girl does, words, mental games, every ioi like stares, head turns, hair toss, giggling, following, showing figure, brushing up against which are much more common

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Last time I got approched was actually by a group of uni girls and one asked for my shit it was funny

Having girls interacting with you isn't the same as them cold approaching you to get your number for the purpose of eventually having sex.

 

[Deleted member 21166]

San Francisco everyone is gay so even if they’re stylemaxxed and looks maxxed the market should be open

Long ago I was rated 9/10; realistically in these hypergamous days prob 8.5/10 and still feels that way

Cold approach is rare in public; in parties they might grope and grind, and going out they might catcall, but in public it tends to be indirect (are you my blind date / do you need help / that guy over there is really cute / my friend thinks you’re cute)

if we just look at indirect stuff in general that would include basically everything a girl does, words, mental games, every ioi like stares, head turns, giggling, following, brushing up against which are much more common

What makes you an 8.5 instead of a 9? Is it because of height?

 

[Erik-Jón]

Having girls interacting with you isn't the same as them cold approaching you to get your number for the purpose of eventually having sex.

never added her back lmao what do you think I am

 

[Hero of the Imperium]

What makes you an 8.5 instead of a 9? Is it because of height?

Height (average) race and age.

But I have decent aging genetics. Also cannot really see abs but that is fixable. Am getting there

 

[LightSkinNoob]

Chadlite with good pheno MINIMUM to be approached by a complete stranger, my genuine 6-6.5PSL friend gets approached on the street or sitting down about once ever 1/2 months maybe 2-3 times a month during summer. He’s been approached 2x while I was walking with him

 

[Erik-Jón]

Chadlite with good pheno MINIMUM to be approached by a complete stranger, my genuine 6-6.5PSL friend gets approached on the street or sitting down about once ever 1/2 months maybe 2-3 times a month during summer. He’s been approached 2x while I was walking with him

Cope

 

[Hero of the Imperium]

Chadlite with good pheno MINIMUM to be approached by a complete stranger, my genuine 6-6.5PSL friend gets approached on the street or sitting down about once ever 1/2 months maybe 2-3 times a month during summer. He’s been approached 2x while I was walking with him

Also depends on often he goes out, how many people he meets

Niko pill (smile pill) probably is in effect for pretty boys as well; i’m a bit too dom and sometimes sleepy / hostile

But Niko looks fun, high energy, high IQ. Like he knows where the best party is and is not intimidating, cringe, or repulsive

 

[Deleted member 18931]

idk my chad friend doesn't get approached, but if he goes to the supermarket the cashier might call him cute or something

 

[Boxingfan]

You have to be well above average to get randomly approached in public by women. But females only approach good looking dudes that look friendly and nice and high trust. High trust Pretty boys get approached way Korean often compared to masculine low trust men.

 

[Artiste]

Are we including bars and clubs? I don’t feel like they count. Otherwise it’s rare.

 

[Ken]

Extremely rare after uni. Chad only

Before I got acne I would get at least one female approach me every semester in highschool and uni.

 

[Ken]

Are we including bars and clubs? I don’t feel like they count. Otherwise it’s rare.

Yeah drunk girls dont count.

 

[NFA PB]

Never happened to me

Friend of mine tho, 6 3 tall but shitty frame got cold approached and asked for his phone number

Later he texted this girl, htb, who ended up ghosting him

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Are we including bars and clubs? I don’t feel like they count. Otherwise it’s rare.

No. Grocery, street, public transport and such

 

[hebbewem]

If it happens then thw girl probaly seen the guy alot

 

[autistic_tendencies]

If it happens then thw girl probaly seen the guy alot

No it’s got to be random

 

[MediterraneanApollo]

Only by jb's and mostly never by women above 20 years old
At least this is my experience but yeah definitely not everyday or week

For high tier chads this would be way more common

 

[Deleted member 3041]

I never get approached in clubs by drunk girls. Its Over?

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I never get approached in clubs by drunk girls. Its Over?

Slightly intimidating maybe

 

[Syxiacos]

its extremely rare even being a gigachad