How socially inhibited are you? (MENTALCELS GTFIH)

[CoderShaper]

I have pretty bad social anxiety and I'm an aspie, but I can imagine someone having it worse than me even though I imagine they have it pretty miserable. Is there anybody here with the most bottom of the barrel high social inhib and wants to share what it's like?

 

[ICL]

I think of something, then, I don't do it.

Because 99% of the time, I get a new opinion a few months later.

 

[CoderShaper]

I think of something, then, I don't do it.

Because 99% of the time, I get a new opinion a few months later.

You mean you don't do something you want to do because you know that in a few months you won't want to do it?

 

[zudlife]

I dont have stories but i do struggle w anxiety

 

[ICL]

You mean you don't do something you want to do because you know that in a few months you won't want to do it?

Yep.

Since, anecdotally, it almost always turns out that I was wrong, and then I cringe

 

[zudlife]

Yep.

Since, anecdotally, it almost always turns out that I was wrong, and then I cringe

Same bro

 

[CoderShaper]

Yep.

Since, anecdotally, it almost always turns out that I was wrong, and then I cringe

I used to have a crush on some girl and then found out she's dating someone else a few months later, so I guess my inhib saved me from embarrassment that time though I'm too ugly for her to have dated me even if she wasn't dating anyone at the time. Just seems like a really good self defense mechanism so that you don't get fucked over if you're not at bare minimum a 6'1 lhtn.

 

[ICL]

I used to have a crush on some girl and then found out she's dating someone else a few months later, so I guess my inhib saved me from embarrassment that time though I'm too ugly for her to have dated me even if she wasn't dating anyone at the time. Just seems like a really good self defense mechanism so that you don't get fucked over if you're not at bare minimum a 6'1 lhtn.

Personally, it isn't even about the looks and height, fatcels and shortcels are more social.


The thing is that I can't start a conversation, I can only continue it

 

[ExxtasyMaxxer]

I dont even approach if a girl stares at me.

 

[CoderShaper]

Personally, it isn't even about the looks and height, fatcels and shortcels are more social.


The thing is that I can't start a conversation, I can only continue it

For real, I feel like once I actually talk to someone it isn't as bad as not talking to them. Though even then it's pretty hard to continue it after a certain moment since I'm not all that socially apt one way or the other.

 

[ICL]

For real, I feel like once I actually talk to someone it isn't as bad as not talking to them. Though even then it's pretty hard to continue it after a certain moment since I'm not all that socially apt one way or the other.

I just add tons of "water" in my arguments and just beg the question to make it longer, or I use Tautology, it makes the interractions longer. Otherwise they wouldnt give a shit if u were punctual

 

[apored]

im very high inhib

 

[CoderShaper]

I dont even approach if a girl stares at me.

When a girl stares at me, I usually interpret it as a sign of pity or revulsion. If the stare lingers, I take it as confirmation but if she looks away quickly, I assume she’s trying to prevent any misunderstanding of interest. I feel like they do this to avoid the discomfort of me potentially asking her out as if the mere suggestion that we’re in the same league is offensive or upsetting to her lol

 

[ExxtasyMaxxer]

When a girl stares at me, I usually interpret it as a sign of pity or revulsion. If the stare lingers, I take it as confirmation but if she looks away quickly, I assume she’s trying to prevent any misunderstanding of interest. I feel like they do this to avoid the discomfort of me potentially asking her out as if the mere suggestion that we’re in the same league is offensive or upsetting to her lol

I sometimes feel pity and attraction simultaneously tho. Esp for those BPD coded chicks.

 

[HypergamyHater]

I tell every girl who trys to talk to me that I am autistic (I am not, I have never been tested though) because I have no idea what to say so I blame it on ND. I often ask my friends for rundowns of where we are going and what we are doing, this is so I can make assumptions of possible interactions in order to make scripts prior. I dont think I am that my anxiety is that bad but it is fucking exhausting.

 

[skell]

I have pretty bad social anxiety and I'm an aspie, but I can imagine someone having it worse than me even though I imagine they have it pretty miserable. Is there anybody here with the most bottom of the barrel high social inhib and wants to share what it's like?

I can’t talk to anyone. I spent the past year or two huddled in my room. I have not been to social events. I do not know how to interact anymore.

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

Zero. I have no issues talking to people unless if I am too uninterested.

 

[Luquier]

I don’t even interact with my family

 

[bmg.]

I have pretty bad social anxiety and I'm an aspie, but I can imagine someone having it worse than me even though I imagine they have it pretty miserable. Is there anybody here with the most bottom of the barrel high social inhib and wants to share what it's like?

i def have it worse than you

 

[stigmaboy]

yeah, it's hard to keep talking once you start. most people are like that.

 

[khazarianmafia73]

Only way I can cope with being high inhib is nootropics, even then I’ll never be a true normie