How the fuck do people socialize with people they got nothing in common with?

[Deleted member 128803]

for example, im stalking a girl on facebook, she got two degrees, two incomes and she wanted to join a band with some people that had never gone to college.

how is she putting up with this shit? i cant stand being around people that CANNOT understand me. i left two bands because of this.

how can you be with people that have not lived through the same processes that you did? its craaaazy

 

[Palang]

Some people are not concious and just live Life unaware. Some dont even have inner monnologue meaning braindead

 

[Deleted member 76351]

you have to be good at small talk

 

[brownmutt42]

They’re NT

 

[cpedy]

Some people are not concious and just live Life unaware. Some dont even have inner monnologue meaning braindead

How do people not have a inner monologue mine never stops

 

[Palang]

How do people not have a inner monologue mine never stops

Real plus 50% dont have it like literal retards

 

[superpsycho]

They’re NT

this

 

[superpsycho]

you have to be good at small talk

that shit is hard

 

[R@m@]

Low inhib

 

[cpedy]

Real plus 50% dont have it like literal retards

Wait is that why people think anxiety isn’t real

 

[Deleted member 76351]

that shit is hard

its very very hard

 

[superpsycho]

its very very hard

it is

also mirin machiavelli avi

 

[Deleted member 76351]

it is

also mirin machiavelli avi

I'm mirin the fact that you know him

 

[Palang]

Wait is that why people think anxiety isn’t real

Probably

 

[Deleted member 128803]

Some people are not concious and just live Life unaware. Some dont even have inner monnologue meaning braindead

but her sister literally told me that my bandmates were losers and it was a good move to ditch them. there must be an alterior motive behind her decisions...

 

[Deleted member 128803]

They’re NT

yet my NT oneitis only hangs out with people who have a college degree and doesnt even follow a musician on insta

 

[Deleted member 128803]

Low inhib

or maybe she is taking advantage of them?

 

[Corpuscula]

for example, im stalking a girl on facebook, she got two degrees, two incomes and she wanted to join a band with some people that had never gone to college.

how is she putting up with this shit? i cant stand being around people that CANNOT understand me. i left two bands because of this.

how can you be with people that have not lived through the same processes that you did? its craaaazy

Ong bro I really cant seem to socialize with people at all since I unconciously always do things that people wouldnt do, so my interests, experiences and activities are too different from other's and the result is that I can't relate to anyone and no one can relate to me

 

[emeraldglass]

for example, im stalking a girl on facebook, she got two degrees, two incomes and she wanted to join a band with some people that had never gone to college.

how is she putting up with this shit? i cant stand being around people that CANNOT understand me. i left two bands because of this.

how can you be with people that have not lived through the same processes that you did? its craaaazy

To be fair, you’ll usually find at least one common ground with someone. If it’s something major, you can build from there. However, I do agree it’s hard to hang out with people whose values and opinions don’t align with your own. So either you are a chameleon or you just skip them.

 

[Deleted member 128803]

However, I do agree it’s hard to hang out with people whose values and opinions don’t align with your own

and the people who have similar values and opinions with me HATE me