How to accept being a social outcast and kind of special needs?

[Luquier]

Forget about inceldom

Do I just accept that 99% of normies of any race/creed/background will see me as a retarded pathetic loser? What is the best way to keep doing things and living my life in spite of it

@Foreverbrad @Jason Voorhees @Banned User @kisslessvirgin @Sceptical

 

[Cinnamon.grey]

Forget about inceldom

Do I just accept that 99% of normies of any race/creed/background will see me as a retarded pathetic loser? What is the best way to keep doing things and living my life in spite of it

@Foreverbrad @Jason Voorhees @Banned User @kisslessvirgin @Sceptical

Honestly if you ascend enough no one will care if your nd

 

[helloworld]

Forget about inceldom

Do I just accept that 99% of normies of any race/creed/background will see me as a retarded pathetic loser? What is the best way to keep doing things and living my life in spite of it

@Foreverbrad @Jason Voorhees @Banned User @kisslessvirgin @Sceptical

Neetmaxx

 

[overforcurries]

Forget about inceldom

Do I just accept that 99% of normies of any race/creed/background will see me as a retarded pathetic loser? What is the best way to keep doing things and living my life in spite of it

@Foreverbrad @Jason Voorhees @Banned User @kisslessvirgin @Sceptical

Play league all day

 

[pleasevanity]

Forget about inceldom

Do I just accept that 99% of normies of any race/creed/background will see me as a retarded pathetic loser? What is the best way to keep doing things and living my life in spite of it

@Foreverbrad @Jason Voorhees @Banned User @kisslessvirgin @Sceptical

try making some friends and have a close circle you can trust if you don’t have one already

edit: i like fate too

 

[Mercurius]

will see me as a retarded pathetic loser

ascend to htn and noone will see you that way

 

[Sycophant]

better then living in denial - having everyone conform to your convoluted sense of normal.

But NtMaxxing is trivial - if you maintain the understanding of ur situation. Obviously you're retarded as is, and your sense of normal is entirely skewed.

- get a NT hobby/sport that will provide a personality
- never be the person that speaks the most on any social setting, minimise the opportunity for people to realise you're ND when you're still learning
- associate yourself with things you want to be, innately you'll start to absorb some character traits
- groom yourself - be aware of shortcomings of other people, don't repeat them yourself

don't get too excited/sentimental abt anything

 

[Foreverbrad]

ascend to htn and noone will see you that way

Unfortunately this doesn’t work past early 20s.
NEETmaxxing is the only solution and just accept you’ll never have any meaningful social interaction again.

 

[Mercurius]

Unfortunately this doesn’t work past early 20s.
NEETmaxxing is the only solution and just accept you’ll never have any meaningful social interaction again.

ascending to htn even in late 20s will definitely result into people not seeing you as a retarded loser (maybe some people you knew pre-ascension)

you can completely fix this by moving to another city post ascension

 

[Foreverbrad]

ascending to htn even in late 20s will definitely result into people not seeing you as a retarded loser (maybe some people you knew pre-ascension)

you can completely fix this by moving to another city post ascension

Only if you’re somehow able to obtain the money and status you should have at that age. Normally you can’t because your looks will have been holding you back and devastating your career and connections.

 

[Mercurius]

Only if you’re somehow able to obtain the money and status you should have at that age. Normally you can’t because your looks will have been holding you back and devastating your career and connections.

this is retarded

even if you have no status no money, being a HTN alone is enough to keep you from being looked at as a retarded pathetic loser

unless youre homeless or something

 

[acoIyte]

Forget about inceldom

Do I just accept that 99% of normies of any race/creed/background will see me as a retarded pathetic loser? What is the best way to keep doing things and living my life in spite of it

@Foreverbrad @Jason Voorhees @Banned User @kisslessvirgin @Sceptical

Ropes always a option

 

[Foreverbrad]

this is retarded

even if you have no status no money, being a HTN alone is enough to keep you from being looked at as a retarded pathetic loser

unless youre homeless or something

I guess we will see after my surgeries. I am not optimistic about it. I am not sure you even CAN ascend to HTN at 30+ due to age hard cap.

 

[Luquier]

this is retarded

even if you have no status no money, being a HTN alone is enough to keep you from being looked at as a retarded pathetic loser

unless youre homeless or something

Becoming HTN is hard bro

 

[soulless_npc]

You don't just "accept" it unless you want everyone who ever put you down to be right about you. Personally I don't. I get where you are coming from though, it's the story of my life.

 

[Mercurius]

Becoming HTN is hard bro

ofcourse, but its possible for most with the help of hardmaxxing

also it depends on what your biggest failos are

im assuming your short because you said people see you as pathetic?

 

[Mercurius]

I guess we will see after my surgeries. I am not optimistic about it. I am not sure you even CAN ascend to HTN at 30+ due to age hard cap.

youve got a point there

but most people here are 16-21

youve been on this forum for 5 years, have you not gotten any surgeries yet?

 

[Bricks228]

Forget about inceldom

Do I just accept that 99% of normies of any race/creed/background will see me as a retarded pathetic loser? What is the best way to keep doing things and living my life in spite of it

@Foreverbrad @Jason Voorhees @Banned User @kisslessvirgin @Sceptical

W Fate fan,as always

 

[Foreverbrad]

youve got a point there

but most people here are 16-21

youve been on this forum for 5 years, have you not gotten any surgeries yet?

I shouldn’t have prioritised my Trimax, it’s true. I was not prepared for the length of this process even though I decided to do it in 2021. I figured I’d get my bones fixed first then do the other surgeries after.

In 2021 everything was closed with COVID.
In 2022 I needed my wisdom teeth out, lots of scans and thing
In 2023 I actually had my wisdom teeth out, full on surgery with GA
In 2024 I was dealing with infection complications of that surgery
In 2025 I was finally wearing my decompensation braces
In 2026 I found out the decompensation wasn’t enough and it’ll be another year.

It’s actually brutal how long and complex it can be if you’re really deformed and have consequent tooth crowding, infection, an extremely complex Ortho case and so on. If I’d just been an implant case it would have been done in 2022…

 

[Mercurius]

I shouldn’t have prioritised my Trimax, it’s true. I was not prepared for the length of this process even though I decided to do it in 2021. I figured I’d get my bones fixed first then do the other surgeries after.

In 2021 everything was closed with COVID.
In 2022 I needed my wisdom teeth out, lots of scans and thing
In 2023 I actually had my wisdom teeth out, full on surgery with GA
In 2024 I was dealing with infection complications of that surgery
In 2025 I was finally wearing my decompensation braces
In 2026 I found out the decompensation wasn’t enough and it’ll be another year.

It’s actually brutal how long and complex it can be if you’re really deformed and have consequent tooth crowding, infection, an extremely complex Ortho case and so on. If I’d just been an implant case it would have been done in 2022…

i see, bad luck i guess

life is brutal

 

[Luquier]

ofcourse, but its possible for most with the help of hardmaxxing

also it depends on what your biggest failos are

im assuming your short because you said people see you as pathetic?

I am 6’3 but don’t exercise consistently

 

[Mercurius]

I am 6’3 but don’t exercise consistently

niggaaa youre 6'3 talking about being a good boy cuck

how are you not on gear yet

atp you doing ts to yourself

 

[kisslessvirgin]

you can't just "accept it" you will always feel a type of way about being excluded. you can only cope with different things.

appreciate the tag too boyo

 

[kisslessvirgin]

you can't just "accept it" you will always feel a type of way about being excluded. you can only cope with different things.

appreciate the tag too boyo

 

[Prøphet]

Looksmax until you’re good looking, whatever it fucking takes because your entire life literally depends on it, after you reach that you can begin to immerse yourself in society and start accumulating positive social reinforcement to heal what’s wrong with you. I promise you if you ascend enough you will start to find more and more people who accept you as you are. It will never be everyone but a good amount ofpeople will have more empathy for you and treat you with more dignity, and that’s the best an ND can ask for in this world. That’s my plan at least.

 

[diditeverbegin]

you’re in special education?

 

[stonecold trucel]

I guess you learn to accept it

 

[buddhistking]

Firstly, stop begging for acceptance, stick to yourself, and learn to manage the loneliness

And 2nd, remember that nothing in this life matters