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mango65
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Alright so
I’m trying to improve when it comes to clubs and wanted some real advice from people who have experience with it.
I’m going on vacation in a few months with my boys and I want to be comfortable in club settings by then. Outside of clubs I generally do fine with girls talking, dating, that side of things isn’t really an issue. But clubs have always been a weird blind spot for me. I’ve had moments where girls showed interest, some making out here and there, exchanged numbers, but I’ve never really managed to take one home from a club.
It feels like the whole environment just works differently than normal social situations, and I’m probably missing something obvious about how to move, when to act, or how to escalate without killing the vibe.
I’m mainly curious what experienced guys focus on when they go out. Is it more about looks and presence, or how you carry yourself and your energy? Do you go in actively trying to pull, or do you just enjoy the night and let things develop? Also wondering if there’s a good way to get reps in before a big trip without forcing it or coming off desperate.
Not looking for corny pickup lines or fake alpha bs
, just honest insight from guys who consistently do well in clubs and understand how this shit actually works.
I’m trying to improve when it comes to clubs and wanted some real advice from people who have experience with it.
I’m going on vacation in a few months with my boys and I want to be comfortable in club settings by then. Outside of clubs I generally do fine with girls talking, dating, that side of things isn’t really an issue. But clubs have always been a weird blind spot for me. I’ve had moments where girls showed interest, some making out here and there, exchanged numbers, but I’ve never really managed to take one home from a club.
It feels like the whole environment just works differently than normal social situations, and I’m probably missing something obvious about how to move, when to act, or how to escalate without killing the vibe.
I’m mainly curious what experienced guys focus on when they go out. Is it more about looks and presence, or how you carry yourself and your energy? Do you go in actively trying to pull, or do you just enjoy the night and let things develop? Also wondering if there’s a good way to get reps in before a big trip without forcing it or coming off desperate.
Not looking for corny pickup lines or fake alpha bs