How to actually “clubmaxx”?

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Alright so

I’m trying to improve when it comes to clubs and wanted some real advice from people who have experience with it.

I’m going on vacation in a few months with my boys and I want to be comfortable in club settings by then. Outside of clubs I generally do fine with girls talking, dating, that side of things isn’t really an issue. But clubs have always been a weird blind spot for me. I’ve had moments where girls showed interest, some making out here and there, exchanged numbers, but I’ve never really managed to take one home from a club.

It feels like the whole environment just works differently than normal social situations, and I’m probably missing something obvious about how to move, when to act, or how to escalate without killing the vibe.

I’m mainly curious what experienced guys focus on when they go out. Is it more about looks and presence, or how you carry yourself and your energy? Do you go in actively trying to pull, or do you just enjoy the night and let things develop? Also wondering if there’s a good way to get reps in before a big trip without forcing it or coming off desperate.

Not looking for corny pickup lines or fake alpha bs:feelsuhh: , just honest insight from guys who consistently do well in clubs and understand how this shit actually works.
 

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Alright so

I’m trying to improve when it comes to clubs and wanted some real advice from people who have experience with it.

I’m going on vacation in a few months with my boys and I want to be comfortable in club settings by then. Outside of clubs I generally do fine with girls talking, dating, that side of things isn’t really an issue. But clubs have always been a weird blind spot for me. I’ve had moments where girls showed interest, some making out here and there, exchanged numbers, but I’ve never really managed to take one home from a club.

It feels like the whole environment just works differently than normal social situations, and I’m probably missing something obvious about how to move, when to act, or how to escalate without killing the vibe.

I’m mainly curious what experienced guys focus on when they go out. Is it more about looks and presence, or how you carry yourself and your energy? Do you go in actively trying to pull, or do you just enjoy the night and let things develop? Also wondering if there’s a good way to get reps in before a big trip without forcing it or coming off desperate.

Not looking for corny pickup lines or fake alpha bs:feelsuhh: , just honest insight from guys who consistently do well in clubs and understand how this shit actually works.
I am no expert but in the club looks matter way less than in normal situations
Girls are drunk, making everything way easier, they will take pretty much everyone that can talk to them like a normal human being
My lmtn friend gets a lot of play in the club
The key to taking one home is probably to just stay with them consistently
 
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I am no expert but in the club looks matter way less than in normal situations
Girls are drunk, making everything way easier, they will take pretty much everyone that can talk to them like a normal human being
My lmtn friend gets a lot of play in the club
The key to taking one home is probably to just stay with them consistently
Aight bro imma try :ROFLMAO: appreciate it
 
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Alright so

I’m trying to improve when it comes to clubs and wanted some real advice from people who have experience with it.

I’m going on vacation in a few months with my boys and I want to be comfortable in club settings by then. Outside of clubs I generally do fine with girls talking, dating, that side of things isn’t really an issue. But clubs have always been a weird blind spot for me. I’ve had moments where girls showed interest, some making out here and there, exchanged numbers, but I’ve never really managed to take one home from a club.

It feels like the whole environment just works differently than normal social situations, and I’m probably missing something obvious about how to move, when to act, or how to escalate without killing the vibe.

I’m mainly curious what experienced guys focus on when they go out. Is it more about looks and presence, or how you carry yourself and your energy? Do you go in actively trying to pull, or do you just enjoy the night and let things develop? Also wondering if there’s a good way to get reps in before a big trip without forcing it or coming off desperate.

Not looking for corny pickup lines or fake alpha bs:feelsuhh: , just honest insight from guys who consistently do well in clubs and understand how this shit actually works.
dnr most of it but any place with drinking involved is picking up girls/slaying on easy mode. they’re there for that sole purpose. you’ve got this bhai;)
 
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It's tutorial mode tbh,
even in a typical bar when people are drunk it's freaking easy to get something going on, but my friends are too old/in LTR's = lame now, to go out that often & slay
 
It's tutorial mode tbh,
even in a typical bar when people are drunk it's freaking easy to get something going on, but my friends are too old/in LTR's = lame now, to go out that often & slay
dang bro sounds hella easy when you say it :ROFLMAO:
 

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